Calibration is what separates the MEN from the BOYS

wtknight · 2021-12-08T13:06:38+00:00

Re-flaired to CMV as this is an affirmative claim.

Perseus_the_Bold · 2021-12-08T07:01:46+00:00

What do you mean by "calibration" my guy?

DP8414 · 2021-12-08T09:18:32+00:00

Maybe what you’re saying is true. Maybe it isn’t. What I know from experience and observation is this: There are some men who women throw themselves at, and there are other men who women make work for their attention. The men who need to put in work and effort are seen as physically unattractive by women, whereas the men that women throw themselves at are always, 100% of the time, physically attractive.

My attitude is this: If I’m not naturally the kind of man who women throw themselves at, then I’m not putting in any extra effort or wasting my time to get their attention, because even if I succeed in doing so (somehow), they will treat me like shit and have contempt for me due to my looks. Women treat men they are attracted to like Kings. They treat men who they don’t find physically attractive like serfs. Treat me like a King, or I’m staying the hell away. No one will treat me like a serf.

tickledpic · 2021-12-08T09:09:00+00:00

men have to push boundaries to be respected as a potential partner.

No. I don't push boundries. I set up my boundaries and it may happen that to adhere to them the woman has to push her own boundaries. But I never ever push them for her. I give her a choice to decide herself if she wants to engage with me.

TheRedPillRipper · 2021-12-08T10:51:08+00:00

men have to push boundaries to be respected

because respect is earned. You can calibrate till the cows come home, but women won’t respect you. Until you’ve earned it. As a prospective partner if you’re respected, in your field, by your friends, or even just in the streets; it’s attractive.

Even “a shamelessly confident man” didn’t start out that way. Regardless of how, there was journey to become one. Sure some had it easier. Some harder. The only other difference is willpower.

Godspeed and good luck!

anonymousUser1SHIFT · 2021-12-08T23:45:27+00:00

I will have to agree with this, not just with women but with people (although women tend to do this more in dating).

What someone feels their boundary is can be completely different to what their actually boundary is. Over stepping or helping them over step what they feel like a boundary to then find comfort is exciting and new to people and in general how you get a girls attention.

Why do guys say its so hard to date. Well that's because guys have to do things to women that not even the women knows she wants and likes, all without going to far to make the woman feel uncomfortable.

Zerofication · 2021-12-08T07:49:17+00:00

I disagree with the naive view that men just need to work harder even when it's clear that it's no longer reasonable to work this hard for a low SMV 304 who genuinely believes she's entitled to better men than you and has a lot of feminist friends to top it off if she's not a hardcore feminist herself. So what's the alternative then? Go for young non-Western women from a conservative country with 2-3 points SMV lower than you if you plan to get married, and don't get married if you plan to go for Western women. This is as best as it can get for the average Western man I'm afraid.

michael1962-01 · 2021-12-08T07:51:50+00:00

You nailed it down to the point.

Same for business, negotiation, everything.

I could write books from my experience.

Calibration shows in your "aura" for them sparkling bright lighting up their whole brain when you approach or they watch you interacting with others.

This is what they call "tingles" and runs through their whole body.

From my hpov

Main and most attraction - genetics

Secondary - calibration experience

Third - mission and success (is a tertiary calibration)

If you ask experienced women they can differ between the killer smile of a successful one and the fake "learned" way of a alpha in disguise.

OneDumbPony · 2021-12-08T14:10:39+00:00

A guy can be confident and a respected partner without pushing boundaries making their partner uncomfortable. Why are some posts here so r*pe-y?

midwestufohunter · 2021-12-08T17:10:52+00:00

this is so creepy.

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houstongradengineer · 2021-12-08T20:03:08+00:00

Supercede ANY boundary? That's not typical calibration and social intelligence, that's abuse. There's a difference. One is very healthy, and one is not.

skunkbear444 · 2021-12-09T05:04:37+00:00

The more a man is fine with losing a woman because he has other options that are just as good if not better he can easily go after & will if he stops being happy with the current woman, the more attracted she will be.

Women will stay in relationships where attraction does not stay high for all sorts of reasons.

A lot of calibration is from truly not caring much about the outcome of pursuing a woman and just having fun with it. Game and red pill call this abundance mentality.

TryLambda · 2021-12-08T11:28:31+00:00

with your logic, if there is a line up of men a woman had to choose from, the woman 9 times out of the 10 will choose the most brutal rapist in the line?

Title	Calibration is what separates the MEN from the BOYS
Author	forthetinderelllas
Upvotes	3
Comments	94
Date	December 8, 2021 6:58 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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