Remember that ex you so desperately wanted to marry?

BashRunes · 2021-12-16T05:14:35+00:00

Oh my God, right? I'd be DOOMED.

meetme__atsunset · 2021-12-16T05:31:36+00:00

All I've done is lose weight and make more money since I left 🤣🤣

kumquat_fds · 2021-12-16T05:39:44+00:00

I had to inform the first man I wanted to marry that women don’t pee out of their buttholes.

Owl-right · 2021-12-16T05:20:29+00:00

This. Now realising that he was a total alcoholic and I'd be signing up for that 😓

thanarealnobody · 2021-12-16T05:53:42+00:00

Homeboy was already an alcoholic and he wasn’t even 25 yet. Was spoiled and pampered by his rich family yet could not keep a savings account to save his life. Relied on me to keep him fed and presentable. Cheated and lied and gaslit like it was second nature to him. Tried to neg me and compare me to other women when he started going bald at 23. Never bought me gifts or made any effort to make me feel special.

And he never made me orgasm once.

Just wanna take the time to be grateful to the universe that my wish to marry this man didn’t come true 💖✨💖✨💖 I will never let a man degrade me like that again

Ashamed-Reputation-2 · 2021-12-16T05:51:17+00:00

"Rejection is God's protection" has been my mantra this year. Every disappointment I had that I wasn't "picked" has turned out to be a blessing fr.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-12-16T06:11:49+00:00

He lives with his mum in his forties and doesn't pay child support to his ex. Still not as bad as my actual ex husband.

NotSoSmartChick · 2021-12-16T05:54:36+00:00

Some of my exes were better men than others, but I’d have been miserable in the long run. I’m exactly where I was meant to be, and I’m grateful.

JesusisKingisLord · 2021-12-16T05:57:17+00:00

I thank God that man left me! Best thing that ever happened to me.

Bekinditsfree · 2021-12-16T05:59:53+00:00

He wanted kids but had less emotional intelligence than a 1 week old fetus ewwwwww 🤮

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2021-12-16T06:41:56+00:00

He was slowly making me an alcoholic back then. Then he pushed me to do weed and kept talking about wanting to do harder drugs with me. He knew that I hated cigarettes but started smoking around me anyways.

Since then I've become more or less a straight edge but I wouldn't want it any other way. I need to start taking better care of my health ❤

UnevenHanded · 2021-12-16T06:31:33+00:00

Um, yeah. I could throw up RN, no problem 😂 There is a God, and she saved me 💜

Thanks, girl. The comments are making me feel so much better about it, too. We live and learn, and inheriting effed up female socialisation isn't a character flaw or weakness. We gotta choose change.

Plus, women are generally decent human beings, and men are Not. Even if they are to their freinds nd family and coworkers, in romantic situations, they mostly are NOT. I wasn't dumb for not knowing that, they're just that shitty 🤷🏽‍♀️ It defies logic. Ew.

Fun_Sherbet · 2021-12-16T05:22:03+00:00

[permanently deleted]

Jekawi · 2021-12-16T06:27:06+00:00

Definitely dodged a bullet and found an actual worthy life partner. Some days I look at him and think "how could I ever wanted to marry the other guy??"

extragouda · 2021-12-16T06:29:50+00:00

Remember that ex you divorced?

🤣

Title	Remember that ex you so desperately wanted to marry?
Author	Fun_Sherbet
Upvotes	205
Comments	31
Date	December 16, 2021 5:10 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rhj95g/remember_that_ex_you_so_desperately_wanted_to/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/remember-that-ex-you-so-desperately-wanted-to.1092202 https://theredarchive.com/post/1092202

Comments