I wouldn’t even necessarily call what happened being high maintenance. I just didn’t make myself available for a few hours. And he lost his ish on me in a VM.

I met a guy. This is the first one I’ve even really talked to after 2 years. Pre-FDS me would have immediately answered every text/call. And jumped on the chance to go out, even if I’d have to move other things.

So we’ve been talking and he seems so nice. Seems very HV qualities. He asked me out this week though (after talking for about a week) and I said I couldn’t go. I didn’t tell him a reason. Just said that night didn’t work for me. So. The day of, my work ended up being crazy and I wasn’t able to respond to a text from him during work…and then a phone call after the time I’d normally be off of work but was actually still working. This was all within about 4 hours.

He left me a VM so vile that I at first didn’t even think it was the same guy. Called me I don’t know how many names. Told me I lied to him. How karma would come around to me because I hurt him so badly. Etc. etc. Told me I definitely wasn’t worth chasing.

All of this to say. STAY STRONG, QUEENS!! You ARE worth chasing!!!!