Met a guy recently and we have a lot in common. So far he has not displayed a single red flag (other than what I'm about to mention), has put tons of effort into wooing me, plans nice dates and always pays, and ticks all the boxes.
Well, we were talking and he does not have instagram or tiktok however he does have Facebook. I of course looked him up and there are a couple issues that I'm not sure if I should qualify as red flags. He has had his Facebook for years, like almost a decade lol so I feel a little silly blocking and deleting over just this but I could use some unbiased insight.
Basically, he likes/follows a handful of fitness or sexy models and has "liked" a couple of douchey pages like Playboy and Hooters. In my mind I feel like it's probably some dumb shit he liked when he was like 19 (we're in our late 20s now), at least I hope. His friends list also has a higher than average number of very attractive women or models on it however upon further inspection it does appear they are from his hometown (big city in Florida) so it's very possible he actually knew these people in person. I am more alarmed by him "following" the sexy model pages that he obviously does not know, though there are only like 3 of them.
I absolutely do NOT want to date a pornsick guy. If I thought he had liked these pages recently, or he had instagram and I saw him following these types of pages, I would leave. But with the high chances that he did this years ago and has no other social media or red flags I am curious what everyone thinks. He hasn't displayed pornsickness in any other aspect of his personality as of yet.
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