It's been 6 months since the divorce and my anger just keeps rising. She has primary custody of our 2 boys (age 4 and 6), she is still in the military and was transferred to California, leaving me in Georgia. I signed the custody agreement with the assurance that California would only be 14 months of training then she would be moving them closer to me. Now it's looking like it will be 18 months in California then 3 months in Texas then she's not sure. Am I an idiot for believing her? (For those who say why don't you just go to California while she's there, I can't afford to live in one of the most expensive county's in that state. She of course doesn't have any of those expenses due to her military contract.)