So even almost 5 years later, we're still seeing the 2018 GSS data cited all the time, usually in the form of that infamous Washington post graph.

Yet the more recent survey data has been available for about a year and it tells a much different story.

As you can see here, women's sexual inactivity actually rose above men's: https://ifstudies.org/blog/more-faith-less-sex-why-are-so-many-unmarried-young-adults-not-having-sex

If you want to see the data pertaining to 18-30s to compare it more closely to the other graph as this one is for 18-35s, simply go to:

https://sda.berkeley.edu/sdaweb/analysis/?dataset=gss21

And put 'year' in row, 'partners(d:0)' in column, 'sex(1), age(18-30)' in selection, then on output options change percentaging to 'row' and in chart options change type of chart to 'line chart' and select show percents, and then change 'sex(1)' to 'sex(2)' to see the female data.

The result is 18% of men reporting no sex in the past year down from 2018 and 29% of women up from 18% in 2018, so the genders essentially switched places on the graph.

Men

Women

While covid and women's higher tendency to avoid risks may play a large role in their increase, the fact that men's rate dropped so much at the same time is interesting.

I'm not sure of any plausible sociological explanations for this, so I think what it may indicate is simply that the 2018 data point for men was a slight exaggeration of the true value, allowed by the somewhat mediocre sample size of the respondents (about 200-250 for each gender when narrowed down like this).

My prediction for the next survey is that they even out, or perhaps a few extra percent of men but I'd be heavily surprised to see a gap as large as 10% again, I think that was mostly a statistical anomaly.

I think this casts heavy doubt on the 'chad harems' narrative and of course the '80:20' meme. The gap was already not that drastic, but even that may have been a false alarm and (at least relying on GSS data) there isn't a firmly established trend of specifically male-driven sexlessness.