For the ladies who rarely approach, why don’t you? Is it because you’re scared? Is it because you’re not compelled to approach? Why not?

Men can answer with their hypotheses too.

I’ll answer first.

The times I approach people it’s usually because I’m buzzed at a party or something. Liquor makes me sort of in an aroused and mixxy state of mind ✨ 🥂

Outside of that, I rarely approach because I don’t care enough to? Like there’s nothing compelling my mind or body to do so? Someone would have to be insanely sexy AND I would have to be high/buzzed to be compelled enough to approach someone as a result of my brain triggering “oooh they make me horny.”

Because that’s all it is? Right? You’re approaching someone because they excite/titillate/arouse you?

My mental isn’t in a constant state of arousal for approaching regularly to make sense for me.

The only other times I’ve approached was because my brain triggered “omg that’s cute chad like husband material lock him down before some other biddy peeps game and does and decide if you want to fuck him or not later”. But as you can see that’s driven by my brain, not my 🐱! My 🐱 can’t tell if she like someone until she’s experienced their presence.