Have you ever wondered why some women will say dumb shit like “when he’s nice and honest”, or “when he’s dominant but also a gentleman”, or just any variation of something super basic? I mean there have even been instances of “just take a shower and have a decent job” messages that imply doing those things will instantly make you attractive to many women.

What I’ve realized is that most of us men were already disqualified from the beginning due to not being conventionally attractive. It’s like we’re invisible despite being great on paper and irl. It just doesn’t make sense that so many of us that are put together and would make great partners struggle to even get a date, while so many women continue to act like all men are trash. It’s because out of the pool of eligible men, very few have positive traits since they can easily play the field.

And to the people that talk about personality or whatever, this relies on a lot of luck. Being in a situation that requires constant interaction and familiarity with one another. Women usually become friends with either gay guys or good looking guys, and you also risk getting stuck in the friend zone.

There is just nothing more irksome than hearing women complain that they can’t find a decent guy and knowing deep down what they really mean. It’s like the meme of women liking nerds and it’s just Clark Kent in glasses.