Hi guys

As for probably many here, the last year since she moved out was a back and forth of sadness, tinder swiping or "I can run this one in alone" thoughts. I went on dates but it was clear to begin with that I was not ready for anything. Lying to yourself can help keep up appearances.

Now, 13 months after she moved out and around 8 months after the court day, I have a date lined up for Saturday and I actually feel excited about meeting her.

I also realise that I don't know any cool places to go to anymore or how dates really work these days (when do I whip it out?), but I feel like going and seeing where it leads.

Wish me luck!