These modern women are for the streets

OpiumTraitor · 2023-02-06T05:58:46+00:00

So you saw two people speaking with each other and immediately assumed they were having a secret FWB relationship? Why, because she didn't disclose her relationships with you personally? And it doesn't matter what's on her insta--social media is only part of someone's life, there's no reason to put every single thing you do on it, sounds like she's using it in a reasonable manner.

I fail to see what about this situation was so fascinating that you had to make a post about it

themostgianthorse · 2023-02-06T04:43:33+00:00

I don’t disagree with the overall sentiment here but your post is essentially “Woman who I don’t know was talking to guy with tattoos. TRP confirmed.”

It just seems incredibly presumptuous, naive and and a little odd that this observation warranted a post.

Have you recently been bingeing content?

HazyMemory7 · 2023-02-06T04:19:43+00:00

Your argument is based on anecdote of a woman seen with...a guy with tattoos and a mohawk? Who knows what he's actually like or how he treats her. Some of the "hardest" looking dudes are actually pretty nice, chill dudes.

Safinated · 2023-02-06T04:24:53+00:00

Weirdly, men are still voluntarily dating and marrying. Are they dumb? Brainwashed? Being threatened with death ?

mackenzie013_02 · 2023-02-06T05:36:04+00:00

So you made up a story in your head about a woman you never talked to and then were shocked by her interacting with another person, who you also never talked to and for who you also created another story in your head?

Ok-Supermarket-6747 · 2023-02-06T07:01:21+00:00

Except a lot of it doesn't apply now when women are also reading the same material. We recognize we were wanting bad guys so now we make an effort to want to be treated better. It's likely that the reason we put up with poor treatment is because we figured there was a REASON for it: Competition. Meaning: if you are treating me this bad then you must be able to get away with more with someone else.

Only now: WE DON'T CARE. Women are making money and going their own way because who wants to be treated poorly? No one healthy. And who *actually* wants to treat women poorly? No one healthy. So we're saying "ok, go with the girl who will settle for less from you."

Does that other girl motivate you to become a better man or find deeper meaning? Probably not. Is she progressive for your life? Maybe a little bit. At the end of the day, something unhealthy is likely a Liability and a Limiting factor and for the women who recognize this, we are trying to spend most of out time making a truce with the men in the know instead of gathering orbiters and suckering in men that don't

& to that point, imo it's not worth it to try with a man who isn't in the know (it feels predatory)

blockedbylosers · 2023-02-06T04:39:15+00:00

so.. you don't actually know whether or not he's a good, Christian, lawful citizens or that they're in a longterm relationship?

You think basing your argument solely on your biased assumptions (lol @ virginal and extreme innocence for not posting revealing photos on social media) doth an argument make?

Dear-Affect1903 · 2023-02-06T05:43:12+00:00

You made up a delusional scenario in your head based on a lot of assumptions about people you've never interacted with.

ezbyte · 2023-02-06T05:55:39+00:00

Op tried to convince us this girl was for the streets, but the only takeaway I got is that OP is intimidated and feels inadequate when compared to the guy she was talking to.

fakingandnotmakingit · 2023-02-06T05:27:39+00:00

Ah yes. The guy had a mohawk and tattoos, which means he's a terrible guy

Somehow the punkest dudes I know are the nicest guys and the upstanding "nice" guys are the ones with Madonna-white complexes who want their mommy macbangmaid

puddingdemon · 2023-02-06T06:46:01+00:00

So you base your life off people too stupid to get basic sociology and human behavior correct? Why would you listen to idiots and incels?

slazengerx · 2023-02-06T06:47:25+00:00

This shocked me

Apparently you are quite easily shocked.

Impossible-Bank-1697 · 2023-02-06T04:41:04+00:00

Breaking news a random woman may be having sex with a man she choose. This is truly the end days.

Perfect-Resist5478 · 2023-02-06T05:09:12+00:00

So dude had a Mohawk and tattoos and that means he’s automatically not a student, not a good guy, and her bad-boy boyfriend? And you made the assumption about who she was even though you freely admit you have no involvement with her, and she’s somehow deceitful because she didn’t live up to the virtuous image that you created out of thin air in your head?

Excellent deduction there Sherlock. Clearly SHE’S the one who’s the problem in this scenario

trickyreds66 · 2023-02-06T06:19:21+00:00

What does the weird ass scenario that you crafted in your head about two strangers have to do with us man you’re so strange

waffleznstuff30 · 2023-02-06T06:13:19+00:00

So wait because a guy has tattoos and a mohawk or wild hair style he's a "bad boy" oh jeez. Some of the kindest people most honest and moral people are punk rockers and alternative people. Covered with tattoos piercings Satanic icons but like would give you the shirt off their back. Can't be said about Red Pill guys who make sweeping broad judgments about women because some guys online do.

And a lot of people keep their personal life off of social media. It's not because they "want to appear single" it's because it's sometimes good to keep your private life private.

This is just said.

Grimm_x0 · 2023-02-06T05:04:12+00:00

Hey what's the saying about book covers...

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-02-06T06:43:49+00:00

Bro you made a lot of sweeping generalizations just by seeing a girl make out with a guy.

I am a “nice church girl” and I finally ended up with a “bad boy” type. You know why? Because after like 10+ years of me doing everything but relentlessly pursuing “nice church guys” they just were not showing any attention to me and I finally got exhausted and felt humiliated and insecure and gave up.

From age 16-26 I went to church every week. I was skinny back then and would dress beautifully and femininely. I was extremely conservative when it came to sex and dating and I still am but less. I was saving my first kiss for marriage. I went to like 30+ churches and it went nowhere. I had 5 different mothers/ grandmas set me up with their sons/ grandsons and the guys were all disinterested. Two guys didn’t even want to meet at all. I went every single week, and every church was all old people and married families. Any time I would talk to a guy, I was met with polite indifference. Once I asked a guy to go with me to different church activities and the first few times he showed up with his mom so I ended up talking to his mom the whole time. Finally he stopped going and I just stayed friends with his mom. I also went on a single date only to hold hands with a guy for like an hour then for him to turn around and say “I’m not ready for a relationship yet”. Then I met another guy who liked me but he had a plethora of medical issues that I was like “nope can’t handle that”. I ironically met another nice church guy who liked me and he also had a bunch of even worse medical issues and he tragically died so I have a small memento he gave me that I keep in his memory.

So knowing all of this, I became extremely depressed. I developed body dysmorphia even though I was skinny. I frequented red pill boards. I just felt awful and like no one would ever love me.

Then I went on the internet and finally did online dating and it was raining men. I found my first boyfriend who was an extremely nerdy phd student guy. He was very nice but I freaked out about making out lol and he eventually ghosted me.

Then I met my bad boy boyfriend. This guy calls me like 6 times a day. He owns a business so he works a lot. He declares his love for me. He got me flowers and a necklace. He befriended my dad. Most importantly he doesn’t pressure me about sex because I am still caught up in purity culture. He has his issues but it was like a breath of fresh air from these flakey church nice guys who acted passively indifferent to my presence. This guy is the first guy I ever considered marrying and I may marry him. He looks and acts kind of thug. But he is so much nicer and a better boyfriend than these “nice church guys” who act like they need to be pursued and are flakey. I have even more “nice church guy” stories that I can share.

Secure_SeaLab · 2023-02-06T04:22:37+00:00

Guess you can’t hack it in the streets, sorry the real world is too hard for you, op.

just_nosey92 · 2023-02-06T06:32:51+00:00

You are creepy asf

bigfax0 · 2023-02-06T06:01:41+00:00

I can see that I’ve triggered quite a few folks lol … this wasn’t meant to be an offensive post. It’s about being honest and real the dating environment, especially helping guys who are on the blue pill side to embrace reality. Also, obviously I don’t know for certain the relation between the two folks, but based on what I saw there it was rather obvious that they had something going on.

hiddendance · 2023-02-06T05:00:24+00:00

Women are far less virtuous than they would have you believe.

Scarce12 · 2023-02-06T05:10:41+00:00

But the thing about that, his that is exactly Freud's description of how the Madonna-Whore complex manifests itself among women.

The way that she is secretive about her sex life, she hides this guy away, tries to keep the relationship illegitimate, and loses interest when the relationship becomes legitimate.

It's very common among such women who try present themselves as corporate and single and it's why they are so often involved in sexual harassment claims.

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Sea-Professional-594 · 2023-02-06T06:04:16+00:00

Conservative (Christian) marriages still exist. I know because I'm in one. And they happen every day.

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EulenWatcher · 2023-02-06T06:30:03+00:00

So you judge people by their appearance. Good to know. Sure, to some extent we all do it…but not all of us fork our views around random people we see on the street. You probably shouldn’t do it either.

Hot_Scale_6383 · 2023-02-06T06:36:58+00:00

i have an even more brutal experienve than u did. i knew this goody two shoes, shy, demure girl. one day a hot guy comes along and she acts totally different, even sits as close as she can to this guy so that her butt is touching his butt, acting all flirty and touch and shit, just squeezing up to him. take note this is a girl who even refuses to shake hands or be witjin 5 feet of an average man. most of the guys who knew her as the shy girl were in awe and couldnt process what was going on.

Kandace21 · 2023-02-06T05:40:14+00:00

Well this post is a good rebuttal for all the men who claim they can tell a woman’s n count by her personality. But OP why do you assume that because he has a Mohawk and tattoos that hers a “bad boy”? For all you know he could be a great person and a good counter balance to her personality.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-02-06T06:41:22+00:00

You learned a valuable lesson, people only allow you to see what they want seen. Never trust a person's words or image, judge them by their actions

Title	These modern women are for the streets
Author	bigfax0
Upvotes	11
Comments	69
Date	February 6, 2023 3:39 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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