Fat/Ugly women are entitled to having preferences

wtknight · 2021-03-21T19:35:39+00:00

Removed for low effort. Also, posts that make affirmative statements should be formatted and titled as CMV posts.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-03-21T17:33:34+00:00

Of course they can have preferences, but the same way that I would laugh at a guy who looked like John Goodman without the money for preferring a woman like a hailee Steinfeld, I would laugh at a woman doing the same thing while not bringing an A game package to the table for that kind of guy

That's what a lot of the "body positivity" movement is, it's really a lot of fat chicks trying to promote that ideal as a subtle way of saying "well we want the guys that we really want to want to fuck us"

Like I said everybody is entitled to whatever Preference they want but doesn't mean that some people won't be rolling their eyes as well

brainismia · 2021-03-21T17:40:30+00:00

Everyone is entitled to have preferences, obviously.

However, too many people rub their unrealistic, ideological preferences in others faces while they themselves do not put in the work to obtain what they seek.

The fat/ugly woman that doesn't try to better herself thinking that she deserves the home run man that has everything going for him without lifting a finger is delusional. If she runs around telling everyone : "yeah, I want that kind of dude, and you are not it, sorry not sorry", yeah she is going to get shit thrown her way for sure.

Just like the fat/ugly man that doesn't try to better himself running around telling perfectly fine women that they don't meet his standards. He is going to get shit thrown his way.

More generally, this is true for everything else : People that think they can get money and success without putting in the time and effort, people that think that LTR are effortless and it is just supposed to "happen", people that think they deserve to go to Harvard even though they don't study shit. All of them get shit thrown their ways for being delusional, and I think that's fair.

krmaml · 2021-03-21T17:44:24+00:00

Everyone can have preferences. Everyone should have preferences.

However, if they are delusional preferences, they are going to be disappointed.

And also if you voice your preferences, people are gonna judge em. Don't like being judges, find a new species to be part of as you obviously can't hack it as a human. Funny how people who complain about being judged, never complain about being judged when its in a positive light. Bunch of f**king hypocrits.

The end.

PissedBlackGuy · 2021-03-21T17:51:16+00:00

Fat girls saying they want ripped dudes should be laughed at. Obese neckbeards who only see models too, except most people already mock them profusely. And rightly so.

ISimpForKweens · 2021-03-21T18:24:10+00:00

Wow. Stating a fact is white knighting now 😹😹

People need to stop blaming people for having preferences or needs. Everyone has those whether they share them or not. If you can’t meet them, keep it moving. ➡️

John_Oakman · 2021-03-21T17:48:34+00:00

There's a line somewhere between preference and entitlement, and I think many previous discussions have made it clear that there's no consensus on where that line is located.

Bandit174 · 2021-03-21T17:46:33+00:00

Sure but the way they talk about the men who dont meet their preferences is generally kind of harsh and people are welcome to mock their preferences just as men who are unnatractive with high standards are also mocked by women.

Those same fat women with high standards tend to react poorly when men have preferences for women who are thin or women who have a low n count.

It's especially annoying because fat women don't like fat men either but somehow thinking fat women are ugly is more problematic. Furthermore they have strict preferences on height something guys can't control yet weight something that is their own fault in the first place and within their power to change is off limits for mockery or rejection.

uloveitmate · 2021-03-21T18:41:15+00:00

Well no shit they can have preferences they are human beings wtf, the thing is, they need to accept other people's preferences when they dont prefer them

geyejoe7 · 2021-03-21T18:42:10+00:00

Sure. But don't complain when you're alone or have LVM approaching you if you ain't worth shit yourself.

Punished-Atlas-B · 2021-03-21T17:53:41+00:00

theyre entitled to have preferences and other people are entitled to mock them for it

Barely-moral · 2021-03-21T17:47:59+00:00

Apparently i was white knighting lol.

It is their sub though. If they believe you were breaking the rules then you are aout.

Men and women need to get it out of their head that someone they don’t find attractive shouldn’t have preferences

I agree. Everyone can have preferences. But people can make fun of said preferences if they find them ridiculous.

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Pilling_it · 2021-03-21T18:40:05+00:00

It's a people thing, not gender thing.

People are entitled to have preference. They however are not entitled to actually have reality meet it.

NICHIJOU2411 · 2021-03-21T18:42:49+00:00

They are and I don’t get why people complain about it.

Goodthingstartssmall · 2021-03-21T18:46:47+00:00

Of course they can have all preferences they have, there is no problem to it and i'm absolutely fine with it. But if they start to insult me or other by being porn addicts and claim that our view of how womens bodies look like is disorted. At this point the fun is over. Because they themselves say that their obese bodies are normal and we have to be attracted to them while on the same time saying good athletic men bodies are rated average by them and in tune they only want these men because "they are the same level".

Seriously i'm shocked that these kind of behaviour isn't even more laughed at as it already is. Rightfully for both genders this kind of behaviour shouldn't be taken seriously. If it happens that a fat person gets someone hot because it's a nieche or whatever then ok more power to them but arrogantly demanding athletic healthy bodies while being lazy themselves to aquire this kind of appearance is just spoiled, childish, low IQ, highly arrogant.

No problem with them having preferences but don't insult others if you can't match their preferences.

Grand_Duty · 2021-03-21T18:20:53+00:00

Women are allowed preferences, but men can't have preferences, since men having any standards is miss soggy knees

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2021-03-21T18:40:33+00:00

Grown men have a different definition of what is Fat to them technically, a lot of fat girls are really pretty. At least you know you'll be fed . More than likely she knows how too cook .🤷

2021-03-21T19:26:18+00:00

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flapperfemmefatale · 2021-03-21T17:27:58+00:00

Agreed, and the same applies to men.

CosmicBioHazard · 2021-03-21T18:21:07+00:00

I mean, you won’t see me whining that fat women should lower their standards or anything, so that some guy more looks matched to her can have his shot; that 10/10 model the fat girl wants may not want her, but let’s be honest, by the time she lowers her standard down to a guy she can settle for, that guy is settling too, because he’s probably also fat and if I know fat guys, they set their sights on models and work their way down to realism.

The only difference is that for a fat guy, a fat woman isn’t in the realm of realism because her standards will probably remain higher for longer, versus a thinner more attractive woman who settles for him earlier because she’s quicker to realize she’s not wife material despite her looks.

Laytheblameonluck · 2021-03-21T18:00:12+00:00

So the thing is, women should be asked: Do you want to AF/BB or do you want to avoid the problems this causes in the relationship market?

Because they do have agency, but they do have responsibility.

Due to market forces, a Fat/Ugly woman can not just have preferences, but they can have high ideals that can be met, but in the casual sex market.

In the relationship market, they will need to make trade-offs.

If they decide to scratch that itch in the casual sex market only, they can't say they are "forsaking all others" when they meet a guy in the relationship market who doesn't scratch that itch.

However, this is exactly what Fat/Ugly women end up doing.

And this goes for all women.

And, frankly, this explains why men don't like high n-counts, because it's obvious to us they are AF/BBing.

majani · 2021-03-21T18:42:53+00:00

True, and if they're open to black guys or Pacific Islanders, they can still score a top tier guy to be honest.

MGTOWManofMystery · 2021-03-21T18:53:18+00:00

No one is really saying that. Anyone can have preferences but they may be unrealistic. If so, you'll have a tough time implementing your sexual market strategy.

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2021-03-21T18:37:33+00:00

Need to check that Reddit out ....

2021-03-21T19:19:02+00:00

Ugly women no. Fat women sure, as long as they have a small waist

SherdyRavers · 2021-03-21T19:26:14+00:00

The whole piont of that sub is to mock and dissect women they see as old or trashy for saying either stereotypically stupid things or having preferences so of course they banned you.

Title	Fat/Ugly women are entitled to having preferences
Author	SherdyRavers
Upvotes	24
Comments	134
Date	March 21, 2021 5:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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