I'm surprised how negative women assume men's sexist judgements about them are.

For example, when men say that they prefer a housewife they are not saying they want a woman that is less free or trapped, but they believe that that is what most women want or aim to, and they assume that lifestyle is easier and comfortable for the women they love. Now, this assumption is now a little old and most men are aware women have more complex goals, but a lot of sexist assumptions came from this one.

It gets even weirder.

Many women also assume sexism is men not giving them favors or preference, such as men not helping them carry heavy stuff or not accompaning them to the parking after work for them to not feel unsafe. This is the sexism men struggle to overcome the most, becuase you are damned if you do and damned if you don't, and depend a lot on the intention of the woman, and yet she also assumes the man should know her intention. This is only on everyday interactions, but in couples the issue is 10x worse.

On work the interaction is also kind of odd. The truth is that usually men don't see themselves competing against women. Even women who work in the same industry usually specialize in other things, such as interacting with customers or some kind of very specific work. In fact, men don't compete with each other unless it is for fun or to prove a point, but most of the time they are not playing (although they play more in work and women see that as them not taking work seriously). However, many women do see men as competing against them for some reason.