Three observations that Im talking about:

  • Guys who frequently think their personality has no bearing on their success.
  • Guys who come up with excuses to not vet women by compatibility or personality.
  • Thinking compatibility and personality has no affect on other people’s choices in lovers.

Here’s some theories why I think this happens:

  1. Shallowness - They either cant or wont look beyond the surface, so all they want is what’s on the surface.
  2. Pointing fingers - If you believe “AWALT” then you never feel compelled to vet nor question why every woman you know is awful.
  3. Simp - Guy is so desperate for hot girls he rather tolerate one with a shit personality than be with an average looking girl with a decent personality. However, he wants to project this onto other guys even though most guys would rather not deal with a psycho bitch just because she’s hot.
  4. No self-reflection - As the saying goes “If you met an asshole, you met an asshole but if everyone you met is an asshole, you’re the asshole”. It’s easy to not ponder that when you’re not looking at anyone’s personality, not even your own.