Men are Salesman

Safinated · 2023-06-21T04:56:05+00:00

That’s a lot of words to say “men are thirstier than women”

eefr · 2023-06-21T04:11:56+00:00

No he has just sold you on the idea he wants more than sex, he is there to lock down sex. Take away sex, he is gone or angry like a buffoon.

"I would leave without sex" does not mean "I only want sex." You're mixing up necessary and sufficient conditions.

If only men were more logical.

Also, I wouldn't exactly call honking horns, catcalling, and sending unsolicited dick pics "an approach."

dyngladfel · 2023-06-21T08:14:39+00:00

In your own language then, men are not salesmen. They're the purchasers, but in a market with a low supply.

But if men only want sex, as opposed to wanting sex along with other things, then you are making a good case for women to remain single or date other women.

his_purple_majesty · 2023-06-21T04:26:36+00:00

Women are not concerned about how to get men and understand how to attract them.

Of course they are.

wtknight · 2023-06-21T12:22:21+00:00

Women are not concerned about how to get men and understand how to attract them.

This is wrong. Women are constantly making an effort to attract the high value men whom they are attracted to for relationships. They don’t have an interest in most of the men catcalling and sending them dick pics.

WhitePeopleEatPork · 2023-06-21T07:49:22+00:00

Men are Salesman

I've had this suspicion as well. With women it's just marketing. They are not attracted to you, they are attracted to the idea of you.

This is why an average white guy can get more girls than a handsome Indian guy. Because it's about her idea of the men and not them men themselves.

A Woman's first thought of an Indian guy is pat pat pat pat, ding, ding, ding, ding. There is a whole series of turnoffs going though her mind.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-06-21T03:50:44+00:00

Another argument with no empirical evidence to back it up. What are you guys, some kind of half baked philosophers?

JNRoberts42 · 2023-06-21T10:35:19+00:00

The reason so many materials are out there the manosphere, PUA, seduction is

… so grifters can make money off gullible, easily influenced men with low social skills. Most men would never and have been talking with and interacting with the opposite sex since birth.

Sex is definitely a priority for men and those who struggle with social skills probably obsess, but the vast majority of men aren’t selling dick, they merely present themselves well to everyone in the same way that women do.

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SchieveLavabo · 2023-06-21T13:27:19+00:00

Excuse me, I’d like sex and a hug, please!

purplish_possum · 2023-06-21T15:15:38+00:00

Not how it works. High pressure sales doesn't work anymore (if it ever did). Women today choose and don't like being pressured while making that choice.

It's more marketing than sales these days. Men need to be subtle when marketing themselves.

motorheadbro · 2023-06-21T10:52:37+00:00

Believe it or not, but you have this completely wrong and upside down. In actuality, things are completely opposite. At least for the guys who have figured this out and know how to be that guy.

90% if the conversations women have are about men. They incessantly talk about their relationships or lack thereof, who they are dating or want to date, who is fucking who in their friend group. The TV shows they are talking about almost 100% feature a love story between a man and a woman (what's the last time a woman has enjoyed a two hour movie about an action hero whose puppy gets killed and he goes on a revenge rampage). In any mall or shopping district, 90% of the stores cater to women and beauty. Clothing, shoes, lingerie, cosmetics, hair products, lip injections, Botox treatments, you name it. A man is lucky to get a little corner in a department store that cater to his clothing needs. And clothing is all about getting the male attention.

When you go out, women are selling themselves all the time. Some of them look like a piece of art. They just spend 3-4 hours in the bathroom drawing a face on, douching their pussy so it smells good and dressing just to get undressed a couple of hours later in some guys bedroom.

Every hook up that happens, every relationship is initiated by the woman. It's women who are always talking about relationships and "what are we". They are out there to get us. The reactions you see in men that you described? These are just the reactions of men who have been successfully sold!

Yes, what I am saying is that women are the real pursuers. They go out knowing exactly how to get attention. They have sold you on the idea that you should go talk to them. Some of them try so hard to impress us that it actually turns us off.

But what you are really wondering is why are some guys getting pursued and you, you are getting ignored. And that part is true. The majority of guys are probably getting ignored and it's for the exact reasons you describe in your post. They are trying to sell themselves to women!!! The women already showed up ready to go and men are trying to sell themselves to them and convince them to do something they already wanted to do, in the process talking them out of it.

You are wondering how do you become a guy that women are always trying to get the attention of? Fair warning, but you won't like my answer at all. Here it goes:

Become a guy who knows who he is, who likes and respects himself and who is out there enjoying his life without making women the center of his life. What drives women crazy more than anything is not needing them in order to have a fun and enjoyable life. These are the guys they flock to, not the "woe is me" weird loners that you guys paint yourselves as. Sorry, but there is nothing appealing about a weird sad loner.

Title	Men are Salesman
Author	Guilty-Instruction60
Upvotes	14
Comments	66
Date	June 21, 2023 3:43 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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