What should be the average body count for the guy to be considered attractive?

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-08-18T17:49:17+00:00

This post has been removed for being low effort. N count posts have also been limited.

dumbbitchcas · 2023-08-18T17:15:23+00:00

I could not give less of a fuck as long as you aren’t a weirdo whose obsessed with it

Soloandthewookiee · 2023-08-18T16:56:14+00:00

Shouldn't matter. Don't ask, don't tell. I can't even remember the last time a woman asked for body count, my wife certainly never has (and vice versa).

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-18T17:02:03+00:00

I think if a guy is attractive you can expect a higher body count rather than the other way around. A higher body count does not make a man more attractive, a more attractive guy probably has a higher body count.

That being said, the most attractive high body count men I was with had counts of 13, 22, and 36. I actually think the guy with 13 was the best looking out of all 3.

So probably the ideal body count for a man is between 15-20. Enough to where you know he lost his v card early, had casual sex in high school, but wasn't a complete man whore. This is by early 20s age btw older guys will have higher body counts. Casual sex in high school is basically proof that the guy is a Chad. Young women don't usually risk casual sex that early unless the guy is really attractive. Just imo

AngeCruelle · 2023-08-18T17:08:27+00:00

Same as mine, zero

onirroc · 2023-08-18T16:58:10+00:00

You're in your 40s. Unless you're trying to fuck women under 25, they aren't going to be asking for your "body count"

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-18T17:01:02+00:00

It depends on how old he is. Up to mid20s, being a virgin is common and doesn't really detract from attractiveness. At age 40, more than 0 is sufficient. Were your 2 partners within solid long term relationships? If so, all the better. LTR sex is way better than casual.

balenciaghoe · 2023-08-18T17:05:54+00:00

this is a very odd question and i don’t understand why body count is a thing that’s no one’s business and there’s no “average body count for attractive people” people have been in long term relationships, still virgins, hookup lifestyle etc. everyone’s gonna have different numbers and who cares this topic is for teens. i don’t even talk about this with guys or rarely been asked and i’m only 23.

MyLastBestChance · 2023-08-18T16:52:45+00:00

Unless you’re dating 22 year olds, no one cares or asks 🙄. Seriously, that’s not a topic of conversation in actual adult relationships.

Vegetable-Rub3418 · 2023-08-18T17:06:24+00:00

Most women don't care about a man's body count.

killer_tofu101 · 2023-08-18T17:01:57+00:00

It wasn't a big part of me being attracted to someone. In full transparency, I did care that other people didn't think they were horrendously unattractive though.

My now husband and I started dating at 23. I was a virgin, and he had only been with his most recent girlfriend.

If someone told me two and were fine looking, I'd figure they liked waiting for monogamy or were particular about who they had sex with. I would personally respect that as I'm conservative in that regard.

Elixier_55555 · 2023-08-18T17:13:57+00:00

Its not even a question l bother to ask because it doesn't matter to me in the slightest...I find it irrelevant and stupid...

Of course with this mentality, big*ts turn to assume that then mine must be high. But its actually pathetically low...So that's not the reason...The reason is it doesn't matter to me. Its in the past. What will knowing do? Nothing... As long as it was consensual, he was responsible and he's safe/clean...

It would count if his sexual adventures resulted into multiple kids. As in like multiple baby mothers especially before the age of 30. Then nah fam, you gotta go...

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-08-18T17:21:18+00:00

I don't have casual sex and I would prefer a partner who also hasn't been interested in casual sex, which would correlate with a lower number of sexual partners.

therealcosmicnebula · 2023-08-18T17:30:10+00:00

I would never date or respect a man who was embarrassed or insecure about his body count.

First off, why do you care so much what other people think?

A 20 year old, maybe. But at 40, and you still care what peopke think? That's a no for me.

Make the decisions you want or make and stand by it.

Nothing is more unattractive than some grown ass dude kicking rocks with hunched shoulders with his hands in his front pockets lamenting he wished he could have slept around more so women liked him.

Imagine a dude 10 years out from regular cancer screenings thinking like that..

It's immature if you ask me. I can't be attracted to man who sits around moping about every kind of woman liking him. Validation should be solicited from only women who deserve your respect.

So for me, there is no number.

I would not be interested in a man witb high numbers. Because that's a whole other validation addiction. And I can't respect that.

But I would like and respect a man with only a few partners. It shows you are Selective and aren't led by your dick and that you value relationships.

I think men need to stop giving women the power to determine their value. Not every woman's opinion is valuable or important.

But yall be polling any and everyone.

Clementinequeen95 · 2023-08-18T17:38:36+00:00

I would not ask anyone I date because I am normal and understand people have had lives before I meet them. People on this page are OBSESSED with this weird body count stuff. It’s really not deep and does not and has not impacted any of my relationships at any point.

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baiser_vole · 2023-08-18T16:51:31+00:00

Were they with LTR or hookups? And have you been trying to have casual sex?

Freethinker312 · 2023-08-18T17:35:34+00:00

Zero

HighestTierMaslow · 2023-08-18T17:41:44+00:00

For me it isnt count. Its the context and values.

I dont like casual sex. I never wanted to date men into casual sex. I want someone with my sexual values. If he had a brief phase in college I could look past it, otherwise, no.

So a man with a count of 10 but they were all girlfriends/girls he wanted it to turn into a rel is totally fine.

A man with a count of 2 but he viewed them as casual sex only? (Often degrading them after, yes, Ive met men like this) Pass

I dont care for "sexual experience" I learned the hard way with my dating in my 20s that being good in bed really just means not being selfish. More experienced men are often more selfish and thus, often I found them to be quite poor at sex.

My husband is the best sex Ive ever had, he was not very sexually experienced when we met.

TSquaredRecovers · 2023-08-18T17:53:36+00:00

I truly, honestly do not get the obsession with divulging past sexual history. In all of my 25 years of dating (and eventually marriage), this topic never once came up with any of my boyfriends. From what I can surmise, this is a relatively new phenomenon encouraged by the manosphere. Because back in the day, this simply wasn’t something that people asked. It was just assumed that, as adults, we had had sex before. So, I obviously never cared. What’s in the past is in the past.

Title	What should be the average body count for the guy to be considered attractive?
Author	kettlebell_workout
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Comments	36
Date	August 18, 2023 4:49 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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