I gotta know something, ladies.

VidaSabrosa · 2023-10-03T00:19:01+00:00

because she’s not that into you

Soewp1234 · 2023-10-02T23:01:01+00:00

it never began for you if you have to simpmaxxing

SproetThePoet · 2023-10-02T22:24:04+00:00

There is an exponential correlation between effort expected and your physical attractiveness. It is logical, you’re making up for your lower value by simpmaxxing. (This will not prevent her from sucking off Chad on the side)

mewbestpokeman · 2023-10-02T23:07:36+00:00

Because the oofy doofy beta has to prove how obedient and emasculated he is before the w*man is confident enough that she can extract attention and resources from him. It also prepares the beta for the dead bedroom in the future JFL.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2023-10-03T05:19:58+00:00

I don’t, I like you or I don’t. I had sex with my husband on our first date, still happily married 20 years later

partyn3xtd00r6 · 2023-10-02T23:05:38+00:00

a fair rebuttal would be if you’re not a chad why would you expect chad treatment ?

Hubris1998 · 2023-10-02T23:31:14+00:00

I've heard all sorts of copes for this, from "the women who fuck on the first date are not the same ones making you wait bro" to "she's making you wait because she sees you as relationship material. don't be so insecure". fuck that! nobody— I repeat—, nobody wants someone else's leftovers. so either you give everyone the Chad treatment or you make everyone wait, as you should. if you don't think you can get the guy you're dating to commit, don't fuck him, as simple as that. otherwise, you're disrespecting your future husband and cheapening everything you build together.

BlueberrySharp3 · 2023-10-02T22:43:39+00:00

because the last one was hot and the new one is not. Is that what you wanted to hear?

dryneedlotion · 2023-10-03T01:19:13+00:00

Would u spend the same amount of effort on a 9/10 gorgeous blonde vs a 3/10 hambeast? Your the male equivalent of the fat girl.

mrs_seng · 2023-10-02T22:33:30+00:00

I never expected a guy to spend a specific time to court me.

It took various amounts of time because some guys took longer to build up the courage to kiss me. Shy guys needed more time.

saraimarsena · 2023-10-02T23:23:20+00:00

both my ex and my current partner waited if that’s what you mean.

SianOiseau · 2023-10-03T01:33:02+00:00

What do you mean by courting?

I've never had casual sex and my husband and I waited for a few months before we started getting intimate. But I'm demi, so I can't really just "jump into bed" with someone.

Perfect-Resist5478 · 2023-10-02T23:50:53+00:00

If you touch a hot stove and get burned, you learn not to touch hot stoves anymore. That usually means you approach all stoves with caution until you know they’re not hot

When you realize a guy will fuck you even if he doesn’t like you, you’re much more willing to make him wait until you know he likes you before you fuck him

operation-spot · 2023-10-03T00:47:59+00:00

When it’s not about sex there’s more to prove, you prove yourself while courting. There’s no reason to compare yourself to others when you aren’t them and you’re trying out for a completely different position.

mybelovedx · 2023-10-03T07:16:16+00:00

I don’t. Because not every women fits this imaginary scenario you’ve made up.

A lot do, sure, but you’re speaking in non certain absolutes.

My boyfriend is my first, relatively late for a woman anyway, so I’ll use him as a basis for ‘expectations’ if we break up.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-03T14:33:34+00:00

Not a woman, but maybe it's because that relationship didn't work out so she learned from her mistakes.

Every-Ladder-6101 · 2023-10-03T21:28:17+00:00

the answer is people are not equal in the skill of pickup one guy could have shitty game which requires more effort to succeed while the other is much more skilled and its naturally easy for him.

TSquaredRecovers · 2023-10-05T00:47:25+00:00

I don‘t expect this and never have. Every long-term relationship I’ve been in (5) started out with sex pretty much right away, including my husband and I’s. There was no courting or even formal dating, as I was friends or acquaintances with all of the men first.

I think this notion that women make only certain men wait is mostly a manosphere myth.

Title	I gotta know something, ladies.
Author	RatDontPanic
Upvotes	33
Comments	147
Date	October 2, 2023 10:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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