Not sure if I should divorce...but wife moved in her ps5 guy friend

DeadBedroomRealTalk · 2023-10-28T18:46:12+00:00

This can’t be anything other than a troll post, right?

If it’s not…your wife is living with another man that isn’t her father. You think they’re just making soap? They’re playing hide the wiener dude. She’s ruthlessly cheating on you and using Jesus and the church to allow it.

Unreal. But I still think it’s gotta be a troll post.

thrownaway41422 · 2023-10-28T19:12:57+00:00

How fucked are you if you get divorced? A lot less than you are stating married.

dogsrule2019 · 2023-10-28T21:27:12+00:00

Assuming troll. If not, voice activated recorder or small camera will answer the question in a week. Then share the video with the community. Especially the church. Live stream it during the worship service and hire a band to play Chariots of Fire for the soundtrack. Okay this is all prob bad advice but if this isn’t a troll post, it’s a train wreck. And quit tucking your balls between your legs and be a man and kick the dude out.

DatabaseSpace · 2023-10-28T18:48:17+00:00

You should probably take your half of the 10k or more and put it into a separate account before she does it. You know the phrase love is blind? I think that applies here if this post is even serious. Like would your wife care if you moved some super hot 21 year old blonde girl into your trailer and also told her you two would be taking the ten grand?

oldschool818 · 2023-10-28T20:01:38+00:00

You should do more chores and date her.

/sarcasm

iSurvivedltd · 2023-10-28T23:00:31+00:00

Fuck what people in the church say....isnt this adultery?
Your wife IS cheating on you
You lost her when she thought it was ok to move this guy into a trailer outside your home
Look up lawyers in your area and make a few appts with them this week. Nail down a lawyer you deem fit to handle your case and start the process.
Whatever you contributed to savings, take it out and let her start her business with HER money. Makes no sense in having her have access to money if you are going to split

hogger303 · 2023-10-29T02:54:53+00:00

You need to step up, be a man & advocate for yourself. She is literally cucking you right in front of your face and you are still clinging to your Christian hopes & Christian denial.
THE GUY LIVING IN YOUR PROPERTY IS IN AN ACTIVE PHYSICAL AFFAIR WITH YOUR WIFE!

heartless_monk · 2023-10-29T05:06:27+00:00

i’m almost certain that while you’re at work, they’re doing the deed..

your wife is out of bounds for this, i’d leave her personally.

ijustdontcare74 · 2023-10-29T10:36:42+00:00

100% sketchy AF. Get some cameras up and get the evidence. Be prepared for a lot of lying, gaslighting and victim blaming from her. Also when you confront her have an independent witness on your side. Even if she is not yet cheating, inviting a fox into the henhouse is just asking for disaster. Give this guy a max of one week to move on, NO NEGOTIATION. For her to invite another man into your home (even if he’s outside) is hugely disrespectful to you and not to be tolerated. If she insists that he stays, kick them both out. Also lock those funds down. Get the savings account changed so any withdrawals require both signatures or withdrawal half and she can waste the other half as part of her separation payment. Any money spent with this dude is grounds for divorce.

PhrygianScaler · 2023-10-29T17:19:11+00:00

Ask yourself: “What would Will Smith do?”

rwirtes · 2023-10-29T17:49:50+00:00

Matthew 10:16. We are supposed to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves. This is not a wise move. You are also supposed to protect your family and marriage. There are other ways to help people out besides having a strange man live on your property next to your wife while you’re away and they’re home. Use your brain and be the man of the house. This should have been a decision you both made. Your marriage sounds out of balance and your wife may be cheating on you. Christians are supposed to stand strong, not be pushovers.

Comfortable-Angle660 · 2023-10-29T18:33:38+00:00

Ok, the people in your church are idiots. I learned this the hard way also. They always come around to supporting the “wife” even if a 5-time cheater (like my ex). This is no releasing consequences of cheating. You can forgive you ex, but apply consequences to her behaviour, and find a church that support biblical scripture. BTW, she is cheating.

RunTheBull13 · 2023-10-28T19:02:36+00:00

Dumbest troll story I've read yet.

TheSpaceBoundPiston · 2023-10-28T20:21:54+00:00

Have you talked with the fellow?

Old-Supermarket5361 · 2023-10-28T21:15:23+00:00

If real, divorce. If fake, bad fake.

Raiderman73 · 2023-10-28T23:10:53+00:00

Having looked at your post history I’m going to assume you’re not trolling, this plus no intimacy for nearly 2 years 🤔 Go see a divorce attorney ASAP Bud.

Brilliant-Delay1410 · 2023-10-29T00:57:13+00:00

As a Christian, she can't possibly be cheating. It's one of the commandments. /s

panconqueso93 · 2023-10-29T01:34:27+00:00

Whether shes cheating on you or not, its beyond the point. She simply does not respect you and thats the only true. But you already know this, for the way you express about yourself. She might not be sleeping with the guy but if she has your mind on alert and preoccupied. She might as well be. So ask yourself this question. Is she doing something you wouldn't do? Beacuse in my opinion. Its all about how this situation its making you feel regardless of whats actually happening behind the curtains. Speak up and take action. Or live up with uncertainty for the rest of your relationship.

Lumpy-Prior3261 · 2023-10-29T02:31:49+00:00

Wtf man why are you letting this continue I would tell the unemployed bastard to get off my property yesterday if your wife is fucking she can go to this is bull shit you should have her your laptop air your phone and let her read all these comments sight to k twice about what she is doing I dought it though she is delusional if she thinks this is ok just because he is a family.h friend it's more than likely sh really don't know him especially with your children around he might be some kind of pedophile . I would have put this to a stop yesterday .good luck man .

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Attentionless · 2023-10-30T03:40:06+00:00

Listen to "tony's cheating stories "and other sources on youtube to understand how women cheat and how strong vs. weak men deal with cheating. I wish I had gotten a voice activated recorder, something to see phone activity so I could have nailed her cheating. Because they will NEVER admit to cheating on you.

My STBXW had all the classic hallmarks, viciously hiding her phone, refusing intimacy, dressing very well, disappearing for weekends to go visit "friends". She still won't admit it to my son or myself. The sad part is she did it as a revenge affair after getting some bad intel (someone told her I had a girlfriend). And she would leave me for 2 months every summer which was very bad for my mental health. I had a friend who was using my house to cheat on his wife (wrong-I know) and she found condom wrapper and some evidence like that in her mind she was convinced I was cheating and I wasn't. Kind of tragic really. I was no angel but I never crossed that emotional line.

People will call you a SIMP and stuff, this is very new for you and I will not do that. Reddit is a great resource, I listen to all these cheating stories as a twisted form of therapy, get the cameras, voice activated device ASAP so you can get to the bottom of this.

Looking back I was a total SIMP but I was like you I didn't know how to deal with it and you are on the right track! Best of luck to you, godspeed.

TweedStoner · 2023-10-30T11:12:05+00:00

Troll. 🧌

Title	Not sure if I should divorce...but wife moved in her ps5 guy friend
Author	justaguywadog
Upvotes	5
Comments	44
Date	October 28, 2023 6:34 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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