How are you supposed to apply any of this if there are 0 women interested in you?

Matt_guyver · 2022-04-23T01:23:01+00:00

That’s the game, get out there and make them interested in you. They’re not gonna come knocking on your door, bro

stericselectronics · 2022-04-23T01:55:11+00:00

Your crippling insecurity and lack of confidence is clearly what’s hindering you. Also every question you ask is why you fail and suck instead of focusing on how to improve and showing hunger to do so.

You have been given advice and encouragement and instead of accepting it, you find ways to refute it and turn it negative.

This is why.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-23T01:31:43+00:00

Lmao bro you gotta be trolling. You're handsome af.

There's no way girls aren't checking you out. If you're not getting any results, it means your game is shit, not that they aren't interested in you.

passengerpigeon20 · 2022-04-23T01:31:30+00:00

You do not need to wait for signals of interest - just go up and approach girls. And based on your photos, you can DEFINITELY succeed unless you are extremely short - you are not a truecel.

2022-04-23T01:33:46+00:00

Are you actually talking to women or have women in your life to talk to? If you don’t, then it sounds like you’re also guilty of alienating yourself from other people. You at least have to be engaging socially with other people and should have a few women or married friends that you keep up with.

MrWolffman · 2022-04-23T01:35:45+00:00

Appearance is not the issue in your case.

Simp4Rukia · 2022-04-23T02:39:19+00:00

Nobody and I mean nobody will take interest in you if you have this attitude. Wanna get someone to be interested in you? Make yourself so, if not you'll only go through life blaming others

pdx4nhl · 2022-04-23T02:54:32+00:00

Bro, if those are really you're pictures then you are a very handsome guy. You need to talk to a therapist or something. You've got some major inner work to do on yourself based on this thread. I highly recommend you work on yourself.

Get out and make yourself a better person: volunteer, join some adult sports leagues, join a book club, take on a new hobby, get to the gym...and if you really want to meet ladies - take a salsa dancing class and/or get your ass to some yoga classes (the same ones consistently).

btrpb · 2022-04-23T02:55:06+00:00

I checked your profile. You're not ugly. But one post you say, "I work with computers and in my spare time I like gaming".

Dude. Wtf. You are 30. Why would a girl find you interesting? Get some new hobbies.

Contango6969 · 2022-04-23T02:03:40+00:00

Read better material. Go back to RSD tylers blueprint if that can even be found.

yourlittleman01 · 2022-04-23T03:20:13+00:00

OP probably isn't good looking. Sadge

2022-04-23T01:27:56+00:00

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BurnThisUsernameNow · 2022-04-23T01:48:33+00:00

I mean, the book focuses heavily on you becoming the best version of yourself. If you’re doing everything possible to be happy with who you are, people (not just women) pick up on that and gravitate towards you. It’s inevitable my guy. Keep working on you and good things will happen.

_cg88 · 2022-04-23T02:01:27+00:00

I believe you need to work on yourself first champ. Do things, forget about women. Improve your life and social circle. Go to the gym. Get a side hustle. Change your outfit. Buy good fragrances. Read! Keep reading.

Feel comfortable starting conversations with random people. Not just women you are interested in. Can be a guy, an old lady. That confidence will show.

Wish you the best!!

RinkyInky · 2022-04-23T02:03:57+00:00

You have a great face. How’s your style like? How’s your body like, are you in the gym?

Also watch this: https://youtu.be/stZN7F1orq8

Rich-roy · 2022-04-23T03:20:54+00:00

There's always a woman interested in you. Even some men who are unlucky in dating will always have someone interested in you. This is fact. But I suspect that if you hadn't notice that then the girls who notice you aren't your type anyways. You're probably paying to a specific type of woman that have never shown you any interest. Now how easy do the interaction feel with them? If it feels like the conversation is closing down very early on like within seconds (and they're giving very short and vague responses.) right there tells you that they're not interested in you. But is it easy to talk to them, are they asking you questions, responding to what you're saying with detail etc? Or if you ask or tell them to do something do they follow or refuse? That tells you they're interested. Keep in mind that there are women out there who haven't formed opinions of you yet after you approach them for the first time. Stay in the interaction for at least 10-15 seconds. If after that time has passed you see that they're not interested in you, then it's time to move on. But if they are interested, keep the conversation going.

So buddy, buckle up and prepare to meet some beautiful women, and prepare to move on at a moment's notice. Cuz a lot of rejections coming your way, but it'll be worth it when you do come across a woman who is interested (and yes even for a guy like you there are women out there that are interested.)

If you feel your looks are holding you back and you feel very insecure about it, work on them. Get to the gym, improve your fashion, work on your body language, etc. Look man, even if you're not the sexiest man in the room there is a woman out there who will find you sexy, but if you're this insecure about your looks then work on that. You'll feel more confident and you'll be sexier than you already are.

JoeMarron · 2022-04-23T03:24:17+00:00

How many women have you expressed interest in? I'm betting it's close to zero.

paddywacknack · 2022-04-23T03:29:42+00:00

Go see a therapist and work on your mindset.

appmanga · 2022-04-23T03:40:15+00:00

Most women learn to be highly perceptive as a part of their upbringing. I would say they pick up on what your replies to the replies to your post indicate, so they're right to not find you as someone to be interested in. Based what I've read, their lack of interest is abundantly sensible. Sometimes there are people in life who are unlucky in certain ways, and this appears to be your cross to bear.

Too bad.

Salty-Acadia-9886 · 2022-04-23T03:42:24+00:00

You are a decent looking dude. Maybe your vision of yourself and lack confidence are what crippling you and women can sense that a mile away.

Aquix · 2022-04-23T03:42:34+00:00

Yo. Try daygame. I know you have little to no experience in this realm from your posts, so take my word when I say you'll be pleasantly surprised. Project GO (Simple Pickup) is my favorite for this, if you don't like RSD. There's quite a lot of content out there so I won't bother listing them all - just find something you like and get out there man. I guarantee you that the major (possibly only) thing holding you back is your mindset and knowledge about game.

Granny_Killa · 2022-04-23T03:49:25+00:00

I replied to one of your other comments, but additional to that I think therapy wouldn't be a bad idea. Physically there is nothing wrong, it just sounds like you're projecting so many insecurities and pre conceptions onto women before you've even opened your mouth. It's beyond the scope of this thread, but I think you can take from it that it's not your looks.

Otherwise_Cattle5111 · 2022-04-23T04:18:57+00:00

I certainly feel the same way.

Title	How are you supposed to apply any of this if there are 0 women interested in you?
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Date	April 23, 2022 1:21 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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