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Redis_Sara · 2021-11-16T00:45:26+00:00

Same thing here I get told by girls that I’m very attractive but they never wanna be with me…

MilesDoodling · 2021-11-16T00:35:34+00:00

Your problem is your so focused on girls that you forgot about the most important person YOURSELF. Don’t force it man let things flow naturally girls are easy and they’re big freaks there’s really nothing special about the opposite sex they are the same species as you bro don’t put them on a pedestal; just go about your life put in the work and grind everyday and girls will chase you trust me.

susumaya · 2021-11-16T01:52:31+00:00

Height? Race?

tellythesloot · 2021-11-16T00:02:35+00:00

What makes you an interesting person? What skills/talents do you have, what makes you creatively unique, and how can you bring a fun experience to a womans life? If all you have to offer is a swinging dick then you'll never stand out from the other billions of me in the world you are competing with

One-Hedgehog4722 · 2021-11-16T00:18:03+00:00

There’s that one fat dude ginger who does pick up conferences. After watching some of his stuff, convinced me it wasn’t about looks. Granted he wasn’t obese or extremely ugly, but he was balding and looked outta shape and some infield videos I watched seemed genuine and he picked up some hot girls.

the_monkey_knows · 2021-11-16T02:08:20+00:00

Focus on yourself, don’t chase, attract

daddysgotanew · 2021-11-16T02:29:57+00:00

Same. I always thought I was pretty good looking (have been told so even) and I have the right secondary traits (height, education, class status) but I don’t get the actual results either. I don’t know exactly how many women I’ve slept with; about 30 or so but the vast majority of them were a grind. And they were almost exclusively below my league, had better options, and treated me as such

LandscapeClear1630 · 2021-11-16T02:47:18+00:00

Hmm

I would need to know more but, I get the feeling you're over chasing them without giving them an opportunity to chase you back

McWhiters9511 · 2021-11-16T03:07:56+00:00

If you want them, they don't want you. If they know they can have you, they don't desire you. Have you ever wanted something you already had? Of course not. Women are followers by nature. Give them something to follow.

PiratesFan1429 · 2021-11-16T02:38:10+00:00

Are you boring af? Do you only talk about you? Do you smile?

TrainingNail · 2021-11-16T03:34:12+00:00

You don’t sound genuine at all so maybe that’s your problem

MauPow · 2021-11-16T03:08:38+00:00

Welcome to the world of being an average dude, lol

Additional_Phase_222 · 2021-11-16T02:27:21+00:00

If your looking to sleep with girls just be assertive confident and kinda mysterious l, but if you want a relationship be yourself and the right one will come man. Don’t stress over it

AffectionateRun2207 · 2021-11-16T01:42:14+00:00

Be alpha bro chase ya dreams not girls They gone come eventually be impressive don't try to impress

Key_Association_1242 · 2021-11-16T03:24:32+00:00

It’s difficult to tell. It’s also very strange with women. They just simply aren’t attracted to the same kinds of things men are. Yeah there are some that only want a guy with a 6 pack, but others are into guys with big shoulders abs arms. Others look at butts I think. They are really all over the map. But for me I have found that a lot is in the face. My face was bloated and looked fat for many years due to being on prednisone. There were times when I could grind really hard in the gym and not have it be as bad. But my body was noticably better. This last year I have been able to get off prednisone. So my face is actually able to show. My jawline is visible, I only have one chin. I don’t have a moon face. So even though I’m still working on getting back to fight weight. Lol. I get told regularly that I’m attractive. I’m Tinder though I still do awful. I get eye Fucks from girls at any bar. They don’t approach they come dance around me with there friends and bump into me. So I can open. But I set my tinder to other countries and 5 minutes in I’m getting tons of matches. Women in America are just messed up. They have been brainwashed by feminism. With all the “Girls rule boys drool” “girl power” “girls run the world” that they were being fed when we were growing . All the crap about “never settle girl” So they go after Tyrone, Chad,and Jerome, thinking they got the hot guy to take pics with onthere Social media. But Tyrone, Chad, and Jerome usually had to do rediculous work to get in the shape they are in so they aren’t just settling for the easy lays. They are going to have a good time, but you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. So here’s what I suggest take a freaking break man.just relax. Do stuff you enjoy. Watch shows find good podcasts, get educated, start a business. Just do stuff for you. To make your life better. Than if one of these women that you really like doesn’t fall in your lap. Start traveling. Guaranteed you go to some other countries like Columbia, the Asian countries. The women will treat you totally different. You will be their alpha by default because your a man and they are a women. But for now your going to go crazy worrying about this crap. You can’t fix a whole culture that’s been brainwashed to like one exact type. So either become that type or find another culture,

NiceChad69 · 2021-11-16T03:09:24+00:00

Post a picture of you and I’ll tell you why girls don’t approach you (or show interest romantically).

Hint :- It’s all about the Looks.

daddysgotanew · 2021-11-16T01:13:59+00:00

Approach 10 different women a day, until you become comfortable approaching / getting rejected.

GuaranteeOwn5108 · 2021-11-16T02:33:02+00:00

Maybe you’re acting different towards the “unattractive” girls than you are towards the attractive ones. Treat the attractive ones the same way you treat the unattractive ones and you’ll be making progress.

the-dan-man · 2021-11-16T03:04:36+00:00

Don't be social with them. Tease, touch and flirt instead. That's what I learned for women to remember and give a damn about you. The old cliche is true, girls like bad guys not nice guys.

Aliboomaye007 · 2021-11-16T03:27:14+00:00

Don’t give up son… keep working at it, study and truly evaluate your interactions with women… change your approach…

Keep at it, you’re closer than you think.

tryingmybestatm · 2021-11-16T03:33:10+00:00

what's ur height/ race and where in the world are you?

2021-11-16T03:50:37+00:00

It's also about personality. Be your own person. From the VERY limited info I have from your post and the comments below... you just seem like you have no passions, you're simply boring.

What do you talk about? "Hey nice weather we're having, huh?" Girls care about how you make them feel, not what you say. Make them FEEL and you've made it far. Tease them, crack jokes and have fun. But have a passion(maybe even multiple).

Be interesting and you will garner interest, it's as simple as that. It doesn't even have to be anything super cool. Be passionate when talking about something and girls will be interested. If they're not then you're probably not interested in them either.

Idk if that was even helpful. But a thought towards the end here: why are you chasing women who show no interest? Chasing too hard will make you reek of desperation. Not sure what else to say.

Take from this what you will, but there's definitely a lot missing here making it impossible to judge exactly what your issue is.

lostsoulranger · 2021-11-16T03:53:49+00:00

Fuck'em bro. Do you. Show interest in those who sho interest back and if no one does right now.... Eventually someone will. Just do you hard and someone will notice.

Public_Educator_3462 · 2021-11-16T03:55:11+00:00

Are you interesting? What are you doing to capture their attention.

2021-11-16T03:57:44+00:00

You may be suffering from “Nice guy syndrome”. I’d say get a book from Amazon called No More Mr Nice Guy.

Hey it sounds nuts right, but read the book first and see how fast your results with women get. I’m telling you the non-mainstream stuff that most guys don’t like to hear and most women like to hide.

hopetheydontfindme · 2021-11-16T03:58:59+00:00

Once I stopped caring about what girls thought of me and stopped caring about whether a girl would like me back is when I started getting girls to like me. I know this is seduction, but the most effective, least-effort way I've pulled is just talking to them without interest of anything more. If you pull, that's great. If you don't, that's fine too and maybe she has other friends she can intro you to. To add on, this was in college. Idk about HS.

krispykreme01 · 2021-11-16T03:59:40+00:00

Idk if you’re thirsty but women can sense that and don’t like it. Also adjust with the times come to the dark side and Just be toxic bro lol. It’s a pathway to many abilities some may consider unnatural.

God speed brother.

JSSISLRD · 2021-11-16T04:37:55+00:00

Most likely because of your energy Probably something off about you This is coming from someone who's been there You know deep down inside that you don't feel comfortable with yourself, let alone guiding a cute girl

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