The Sedditor's Checklist

[Update: Links incoming. Keep in mind these are good places to start, but there are tons of equally good resources out there.]

It just hit me that Seddit's wealth of information is not compiled in one single place. I figured a "curriculum" like this would be a nice overview for newcomers to the site. Personally, I'll use this list to check which aspects of my game are improving and which need work.

I have left out items where substantial disagreement still exists, such as not masturbating. Of course I'm open to suggestions for additions and removals.

If you think this is useful, please upvote it. If you believe it to be unnecessary, downvote it. Without further ado:

Lifestyle: Do you...

• Exercise regularly (minimum 30 minutes per day, 3 days per week)

• Go out as much as you'd care to

• Have a passion or hobby that interests you and intrigues others

• Constantly initiate conversations with new people

• Keep in touch with as many of your existing acquaintances as possible

• Eat healthy

• Get an ideal amount of sleep

• Stay well-dressed and groomed (or well-disheveled, if that's your style)

Toolbox: Know how to...

• Kino (escalating physical touch)

• Escalate sexual conversation

• Dance

• Use eye contact effectively

• Use tone of voice effectively (tonality and rapport)

• Convey an impressive physical presence

• Use expressive body language

• Defeat flaking

• Navigate qualifying/congruence/shit tests

In-game state of mind: Are you...

• Outcome independent

• Unafraid to approach anybody

• Having a good time - and letting it show

• Building social proof with others

• Keeping abundance mentality

• Managing logistics (venue change and isolation)

• Avoiding interview questions, steering conversation toward attraction or emotional connection

• Listening

Personal progress: Do you...

• Understand who you are and who you want to be

• Learn from every set and preferably, keep a log of them

• Regularly read or contribute seduction material

• Know which aspects of seduction you agree with and which aspects you object to

• Have a rational perspective and a positive attitude

• Know what you want out of seduction