[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/27/13

phar40h · 2013-09-27T23:51:00+00:00

Today I made small talk with a very cute cashier at a local clothing store. We made small talk at the register that seemed to go pretty well. Would it be weird/creepy in those situations to ask a girl for her number? How would you go about doing that in a situation like that one?

BreadSticks925 · 2013-09-27T20:44:32+00:00

Texting girls. How do you start? What do you talk about? General help.

mf_dk43 · 2013-09-27T22:13:45+00:00

how do you turn casual conversation into flirting?

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-09-27T21:01:22+00:00

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InternationalRoots · 2013-09-27T18:44:29+00:00

I met a girl last October. There was mutual interest. I didn't see her again until this week when we were at the same party. We basically spent the majority of the night together talking, dancing, kissing, and holding hands.

We're going out tomorrow. Are there any no-nos when it comes to greeting her? Would a kiss be too presumptuous?

IAmRobik · 2013-09-27T18:03:55+00:00

I did a half-hearted search of /r/seduction for this question and wasn't able to find any relavently titled posts, so:

I've been doing a lot of self-improvement recently, and that's all fine and dandy, but I feel like I'm stuck in a rut with regards to the people that I've surrounded myself with. I've slowly started to rid myself of these toxic people, but at 27, I find it difficult to build a new social group. Granted, not all of them are bad people, but with some, our interests are no longer aligned, and others have had babies and gotten engaged and whatnot.

Alas, my question is: How do I go about growing a new social group of people that I can call friends as opposed to just acquaintances.

Thanks!

Afeni02 · 2013-09-27T21:56:04+00:00

Is it wrong to think "I'd go out with her..... if she lost some weight" I feel like an asshole but I can't control those type of thoughts, I know I'm not perfect but that's just the way I think.. or better yet, the way our culture has thought us to think. I guess I answered my own question. Fuck society/ads/corporations, purposefully feeding us shit that will make us fat while portraying an anorexic standard of beauty.

LiftBodyUpThenDown · 2013-09-27T18:06:17+00:00

How do I transition from dates to serious relationships properly? Also, I get many interested women easily now but I'm more interested in marrying some of them rather than fuck them.

DEATH_BY_TRAY · 2013-09-27T19:17:29+00:00

"Above the Game" website says they're sending out weekly newsletters, PDFs, videos.

Am I the only one not getting these? Last email I got was Sep 6th, about switching to a new email address - I haven't received any email from that address yet! What's wrong, I don't want to miss any content!

Rerichael · 2013-09-27T20:11:51+00:00

I had a question about eye contact.

I know it's widely accepted that just making eye contact with everyone you pass is a good way to come off as more confident, but my question is how exactly do you make the eye contact? It seems that everyone I pass is either looking around or at their phone or something, and I don't just want to stare at people until they look at me.

I guess it's ultimately a question about how to execute.

throawaypoopua · 2013-09-27T20:54:51+00:00

This is happen two times in a row. I'm at a girls house and we are chilling on the couch or watching a movie. I end up escalating to get her almost naked (except her panties/booty shorts). I'm really inexperienced with sex, so I followed some advice on here. For the first girl, I move her hand towards my crotch to feel my boner, but she refuses and says "sorry i'm being frustrating". I end up saying "ok" and try to escalate more. She refuses and I completely stop.

The next girl, I get her almost naked except her panties and I ask "Should I grab a condom?" and she replies "dunno". This completely turned me off and I kept making out with her, but eventually we stop and I end up leaving.

I can't say I'm completely looking for sex, but after these two interactions, I didn't want to see these girls again, and I didn't end up setting up another date. Any tips/advice?

IDontEvenUsername · 2013-09-27T21:33:22+00:00

So I can do approaches with some ease, and I'm comfortable talking, complementing, etc. my problem is I'm finding a lot of women don't care to talk to me at all. I'm pretty unconventional but I'm decently attractive. I'm also empathic so this completely blanks my mind.

So I guess my question is two-fold. Should I bother when within a few seconds I can tell they have no interest? And what are good conversation starting general topics?

donit · 2013-09-27T21:45:41+00:00

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whatidontknowman · 2013-09-27T22:38:22+00:00

I've been talking to this girl now for about 2 weeks. She was the girlfriend of an old acquaintance and we met through him. We hit it off right away but never did anything since they were together. They broke up after only 2 months and soon after she sent me and we got to talking and she told me about.

Fast forward, we texted for about 10 days. Couldn't meet earlier due to work. Made out on the first date when we went out for a walk alone in her old high school during night. That went great. The next two dates, one I just got back from, weren't, I felt, as good.

We went out for coffee and played some card games, her idea, which I think was kind of a mistake since she gets kind of competitive despite me not really giving much of a fuck about winning or losing. I'm just trying to enjoy the game. We had to sit on opposite sides of the table and couldn't really be as romantic or do any sweet talk as we do when texting.

My question is, how do I progress things forward? Before I dropped her off home this time we made out again. A lot. Things were pretty hot, kissed her on the neck etc. but then it was the end of the date. I'm not sure if it's a matter of logistics or just things progressing organically.

Thing to note is, I'm seeing this more like relationship potential rather than a ONS. We'll see.

TL;DR: Had 3 dates, made out, how to move things to sex?

thunderouschampion · 2013-09-27T22:42:50+00:00

I am setting up a first date with a girl and I suggested we meet at a bar next week. She replied she does not drink during the week and instead suggested coffee. Is it a shit test?

bl1y · 2013-09-28T01:40:21+00:00

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Wky · 2013-09-28T01:40:37+00:00

So me and a girl had plans but she had family things to do so I stop talking to her, deleted her number, ect ect. In class my professor asked everybody what they and I told the professor I'm hanging out with my friends. Her friend then turns to her and say "aren't you suppose to go get coffee with wky" she replied "oh I don't know he doesn't text me/doesn't talk to me anymore" Should I make one last effort or wait for her to make an effort?
I'm going to a street festival soon and I'm going to ask another girl to go with me. How do I go about kino-ing, walking, ect?

GentlemenQuinn · 2013-09-28T05:21:53+00:00

I see lots of posts and comments that say to be "out going and the group organizer". That's all fine and dandy, but I don't know how to organize social gatherings. In the past I've just been a follower, and any recent attempts I've made mat creating a social gathering have fallen apart for one reason or another. However, the most common theme is that people just can't make it, or have last minute plans.

Nexus2045 · 2013-09-28T12:13:33+00:00

Been told repeatedly that I'm not manly enough for the past few years. I was born with a baby face, gentle-looking, and I'm only around 5'6". I've tried acting more confident here and there without any good results. How can I overcome this?

bl1y · 2013-09-28T15:26:25+00:00

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uber_kerbonaut · 2013-09-28T17:03:01+00:00

I'm making a new OKC profile. How the hell do I stand out?

bl1y · 2013-09-28T18:55:45+00:00

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ZeroGz · 2013-09-29T10:35:24+00:00

I'm interested in females twice my age, what's the best way to express interest towards them?

puaCurveBall · 2013-09-29T17:50:04+00:00

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puaCurveBall · 2013-09-29T18:17:16+00:00

So there's thus girl that I've known for several years. We've talked a little here and there but never got together. She's more of a "goody" girl who doesn't do quick flings. She knows that I get around a little more, and that I've been with a number of women. How can i hook up with her? As far as i know she's never fooled around with anyone.

MisterMittenzz · 2013-09-29T20:06:18+00:00

Ok so I'm in high school junior year and there's this girl I'm interested in and she is a sophomore. However, we don't talk and I have no classes with her, the only time I see her is passing in the hallway sometimes. So I'm wondering how I can approach her and introduce myself to her in a comfortable way. Also, she liked me when I was a freshman and she was in eighth grade, even though we never talked.

Prunebutt · 2013-09-28T00:52:40+00:00

I met this girl a few days ago at a birthday party. We actually didn't communicate with each other that much but nevertheless I think we got along together very well. I wrote a mutual friend if she could get me in contact with said girl. She thought I was really interesting, too and that we'd definetly got to get to know each other better. But here's the catch: She starts attending college pretty far off. So now, until we even get the chance to see each other again I'm afraid that I have to keep myself interesting through ”facebook game” (I cringe just writing that term)... Is there any advice you would give me?

PS: I'm not developing one-itis. I just find this girl very fascinating. Still: until we meet again, I'm still keeping it up improving myself to be an attractive, confident alpha. So no worries ;)

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/27/13
Author	SedditModTeam
Upvotes	26
Comments	104
Date	September 27, 2013 5:51 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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