I actually did a test with this on Tinder I took 200 girls put them into two test groups 100 each the first hundred I messaged them something unique to them from their profile and the second hundred I straight up just said I wasn’t on the app very much and if there was a better way to talk to them text or Snapchat out of the first hundred girls I maybe had 40 something responses back initiating conversation and out of those 40 probably less than 10 went past those continuous messaging and making more meaningful conversation and meeting up on the second group of which I just messaged them for alternate means of communication I probably had 60+ girls message me back with either snap or their number and out of that test group probably around 30+ I went on to actually have continuous conversation and meet up with them MY BIGGEST TIP for online dating is get off the app and find a different way to talk as soon as you can way better for more meaningful and better conversations besides just a typical hey or what’s up or some bland boring line that a girl would get from every single other guy in the app YOU GOTTA STICK OUT AND BE STRAIGHT TO THE POINT