How important is penis size for one night stands?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-03-20T17:40:49+00:00

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Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

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hairyhairyveryscary · 2024-03-20T02:36:07+00:00

Way I see it she has to go home with you and get naked to even find out what you got packing. That’s about 90% of the work, chances are if you’ve made it that far you’re probably in the clear.

Tom38 · 2024-03-20T02:50:51+00:00

They don’t care as long as it’s not a micro peen.

If you’re at least 4 inches hard then you’re good just learn how to please a woman.

FirstPoopyLastPeepee · 2024-03-20T03:43:38+00:00

I knew a girl who kicked an ONS out because he was small and too drunk to get it up.

The same girl said to me that Women only talk about dick size when it's either too small or too big. Because if it's too far to either side of that spectrum, it's a problem. Her advice seems to track with all women, or at least the ones I've told this to seem to agree.

Magnetar402 · 2024-03-20T02:42:00+00:00

Next to zero. The only way she's gonna know before you've got her in bed with her clothes off is if you're giving off major small dick energy. It's entirely about how comfortable you are with yourself rather than a physical measurement.

Appropriate_Sea6387 · 2024-03-20T05:04:46+00:00

Statistically for ons, bigger is better..

Fwiw, women inches aren’t same as man inches😂

RandoRambo1 · 2024-03-20T05:01:44+00:00

Penis size is like height and balding. If you let it get to you and affect your confidence, that is unattractive. The actual size of your dick, your height, and balding is not the issue and doesn’t make you unattractive. Your lack of confidence is what kills it. As long as you’re not micro peen, work the clit and apply a little pressure when you stroke. It’ll be aight

trailhopperbc · 2024-03-20T03:32:21+00:00

Zero if the following conditions apply: - you go to church. At the pink palace. Going down gets points even if you are so so. - confidence. You can have average and if you walk around like you are a greek god, that shit sells. - ask her if she has toys after your naked. Tells her you are sexually open. Hot. - bonus: try to get her off first but pay attention to her like she’s the last woman on earth.

Personally, turns out im above average but i fuck with the lights on and give her 110% of my attention. I always got call backs.

CrudProgrammer · 2024-03-20T05:05:05+00:00

The only dick size might lose you or win you one night stand is if you try to have one night stands with a group of girlfriends, and they start talking about your size or lack thereof.

This is objectively the type of relationship for which penis size matters the least, and men care about dick size far more than women in general. They care WAY more about you being pretty and successful. It's only a small fraction of women who truly give a fuck because just like a few men have big dicks, a few women have some BIG OL VAGINAS and it's not their fault.

Now a days it seems like women’s expectation is that every guy is packing 7 inches.

Girl inches are a thing. 5 is 6, 6 is 7, 7 is 9.

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-20T02:30:29+00:00

I heard sometimes women go home with other women and with nary a dick between them still have really good and fulfilling sex. So, maybe nearly not at all, I guess.

dboychance · 2024-03-20T04:23:00+00:00

Dude, most girls don’t know the difference, I’m packing a healthy 6 and wield it with honor lol. I was told I had a big dick but didn’t know how to use it, it’s been called a monster, it’s satisfied women and also it’s gone limp. One fwb messaged me that she had finally found a bigger guy, as if I was porno massive lol. It’s all about who ur with, the vibes and what you do with it. Don’t overthink it.

perpetualomerta · 2024-03-20T10:33:56+00:00

bro, it’s that technical.

just ask yourself, how many chicks roll around w/ a ruler?

do they measure anybody—technically? .. be for real

but, they remember whether your dinky works or not. and, they remember how you made them feel.

so … just make sure your car works before you stick your key in.

you could be a Lambo .. you could be a Lexus RX .. shit, you can be Sentra or a Subaru … somebody’s gonna love it

but, if it’s in the shop .. if your shit ain’t running .. then it doesn’t matter Jabroni 😂

Acceptable_Act1435 · 2024-03-20T09:08:07+00:00

Men care much more about penis size then women. For women it's best if it's thick, but not too thick, long but not too long, but if they are in bed with you, they'll just go with it.

Awkward_Spinach5296 · 2024-03-20T03:38:16+00:00

Men care more about penis size then women. I think its the one thing men are most insecure about. Even if a dude has a 10 inch dick, he will wish it was 12 inches.

As long as you got something there, its game. Learn how to “rock the boat”, eat pussy, and use your hands.

Link_GR · 2024-03-20T10:09:05+00:00

Now a days it seems like women’s expectation is that every guy is packing 7 inches.

Where are you getting that info? Social media? Don't even sweat it. It's about how you use it, after all.

Objective-Piano7112 · 2024-03-20T04:36:04+00:00

Like it's been said if you're over 3 or 4 inches I'm sure you're good. I always get told i have a perfect dick and it's 6 inches on my best day lol. The only girls that go for specifically huge cocks are gross and probably have huge vaginas. Also maybe if you're tiny go for smaller,skinnier girls. And if you're smaller than 4 then learn how to eat it and use toys.

lavahot · 2024-03-20T07:39:51+00:00

I mean, probably about 30 inches or so. The problem is finding four all the same length. Then you gotta get them on the lathe and samd em down. Then you gotta find a wood you like to be a surface. I like Oak. Mill and sand that. Then you gotta join to legs to the surface. There's lots of different ways to do this, but some offset dowels will do the trick. Then lacquer everything evenly, let dry, and you're good to go.

LMR_Sahara · 2024-03-20T05:01:19+00:00

Just don’t get whiskey dick like I did

videogames_ · 2024-03-20T07:47:46+00:00

As long as it’s decently average it isn’t a huge deal. If you can’t get it up cause too drunk or too nervous then maybe she won’t be a fwb but it’s a one night stand anyways so who cares.

aFalseSlimShady · 2024-03-20T13:02:47+00:00

Why does it matter? You gonna trade up?

HowToStud · 2024-03-20T13:26:36+00:00

By time you whip it out its too late. Doesn’t even matter. If you want it to NOT be a one night stand then you might need to perform better or have a bigger package

Lone_StreetCone · 2024-03-20T13:57:01+00:00

I don't believe its a big deal for most women. Im not particularly hung and i never got any complaints. As long as you dont ignore foreplay and your pussy licking technique is on point, you're pretty much good to go

Soberskate9696 · 2024-03-20T15:27:16+00:00

If you tiny and poor.

Time to fist the bich

Intelligent-Can8235 · 2024-03-20T06:47:07+00:00

This always worked for me. Get a girl genuinely laughing during the evening. Nothing half baked, she has to be enjoying herself. I would wait for her to say something to the effect of “you’re really funny”, but not a sarcastic kind or phony compliment. I would lean in, maintain eye contact only breaking it to playfully look around like I was making sure no one was listening and I would say: “if you think you’re laughing now, wait until I take off my pants.”

It was playful enough to make them laugh again, sexual enough to polarize, and intriguing enough to get them thinking about my penis. I would say about 3/4 of the time I would get them home after using that line on a first date.

McGrowler · 2024-03-20T05:22:18+00:00

Who cares if it’s one night only. The question answers itself

WavyGold57918 · 2024-03-20T11:41:29+00:00

Nothing get it and go

Certain_Sir_6906 · 2024-03-20T12:49:45+00:00

I was insecure about my size for many many years, so insecure that I didn’t have sex with girls even tho we were together in bed and half naked - regret that so much nowadays. Even tried all that enlargement shit. I thought girls wouldn’t like it, even tho no girl ever told me. Was a heavy porn consumer so ofc it looks small comparing to the “porn average”.

Last 2 weeks I had my first time at age 28 and she said it was huge multiple times. Maybe it was to boost my ego, maybe she did think it was. She was only 165cm tall though and putting my hand on hers was like her hand was only 70% of mine in size.

Im mostly insecure about it being soft too, like it literally is like 2cm soft and thin, so when she wanted that I get it out I was like "its still soft tho" Which she replied to "thats okay I can get it hard" Me "I don't think you can ;)" And she started sucking, after some time it grew and the moment I was so insecure about in my head for YEARS was fixed like that easily, by communicating it and just kinda owning and playing with it.

There's always bigger, but my size was enough to make her orgasm and scratch my back pretty hard. It helped more to learn about her erogene zones, or talk dirty to her, long foreplay, oral. Stuff like "do you want me to fuck you?" "yess" "say it" "please fuck me" that kinda stuff turned her on so much more than just my dick. (And it felt so uncomfortable talking dirty to a girl for a first time, but I had to roll with it and went fine)

I'd say study hard about the female body, oral, fingering, dirty talk, foreplay and you have nothing to worry about.

My size is average af and thin too. 6 inch and like the thickness of 20% less than 2 fingers next to each other and a small head.

I dont think the girls I was laying in bed with would have said anything after this experience with that girl recently, so if thats a reason u dont go for it I beg you to just do it, own it. Don't regret those chances. Stupid pornbrain held me back for nothing.

Hope this helps someone

Itchy-Apricot-6587 · 2024-03-20T13:18:47+00:00

Very. If you haven’t got the size, you won’t get the prize 😉😉😉 I’m luck enough to have the size

T3naci · 2024-03-20T13:26:44+00:00

If size is the only thing you got going for you, go home😅. Better focus on her and she will focus on you

MomsSpecialFriend · 2024-03-20T13:41:53+00:00

Women do not want to go home with very small penises for ONS. Average is fine. Very small you need to establish a relationship.

reggedtrex · 2024-03-20T14:14:17+00:00

Look at sex toys and female-friendly porn, that's literally ONS stripped to its pure essence.

If a woman is of a horny type (and 99% of ONS are), she'll want raw fucking, not cuddling, and this means literally home-made porn, she wants to get off, not talk about weather.

18cmOfGreatness · 2024-03-20T14:20:20+00:00

You don't need a dick to make a girl cum. Learn how to use your fingers and tongue, learn how to make erotic massage and yoni. Also, from my personal experience, having 7 inches is a drawback if you're into shorter girls, it's too big for them and you have to control yourself carefully to avoid making it painful for them.

ChicoBrillo · 2024-03-20T15:00:41+00:00

Do some googling about women orgasming from penetrative sex alone, it's not very high. Most men aren't going to wow a woman in bed the first time having sex. It's more of a mental thing, keep her mind turned on. It's worth learning how to give good head too.

birdgirl3333 · 2024-03-20T15:04:45+00:00

Previous_Active6189 · 2024-03-20T15:22:57+00:00

If you’re not gonna see or talk to her again it doesn’t matter at all

As long as you can get it up and aren’t noticeably below average you’re good. I know women who have said they left after the guy was REALLY small like child like or micro peen but not just below average.

poly_nerdy_panda · 2024-03-20T15:47:05+00:00

women do not care about penis sizes unless you are like 2 inches and you just need to lick pussy really good at that point... but you should be good at that anyways if you want a one night stand

Alottathots · 2024-03-20T15:55:06+00:00

Mine is shaped like a piece of homemade rigatoni. Its 36 inches long and rolls up like a garden hose. I’ve never made it past 2nd base, but when I do..do you think this will be a problem for me?

Glum-Gordon · 2024-03-20T16:03:19+00:00

There was research (survey based) that said it’s not massively important for partners but marginally (but not significantly) more important with ONS

thr0wawayygirl25 · 2024-03-20T16:21:25+00:00

For a ONS size plays a factor, but energy more so. I've had terrible sex with huge guys and incredible sex with 4-6 inches. Incredible sex with huge guys is rare, and even then not always enjoyable because of their size

SweetCopy1687 · 2024-03-20T16:53:29+00:00

Anything above 5 inch ur good

AdventurousTip5991 · 2024-03-20T05:20:43+00:00

No matter how the size if you able to pound her harder and bit rough she definitely will smile

YoMiner · 2024-03-20T03:43:14+00:00

Most of my ONS have no idea what my size is until my pants come off, so I would say not very important.

When I talk to my friends about their experiences, the only time they mention being disappointed in the size is if it was small.

Efficient-Age-5870 · 2024-03-20T13:41:39+00:00

lmaoooo ngl being well endowed has definitely helped me, if im saucing a shorty in the club & she is giving me signs like shes on the fence, a quick putting her hands on my piece auto seals the deal

darrylgorn · 2024-03-20T04:39:20+00:00

Liberalistic · 2024-03-20T05:20:39+00:00

Ok well since no one is answering yes it does matter.

For me at least. If I’m gonna have a one night stand I wanna get my time’s worth.

Doesn’t need to giant but gotta be girthy and look like it’s gonna hit the spot. At least 6 inches.

quebrows · 2024-03-20T05:20:42+00:00

I just ask....

xcoreflyup · 2024-03-20T02:40:46+00:00

Girth is more important than length.

I have a big knob and it is easy for me make them cum with simple foreplay + my pounding.

sorry not sorry for the unintentional bragging.

Title	How important is penis size for one night stands?
Author	Busy-Mind-4114
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Date	March 20, 2024 2:26 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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