Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male]

showtimeiam · 2018-02-02T06:26:59+00:00

I’m going to take the Occam’s razor approach. As you get older you get comfortable with who you are as a person. While the younger version of ourselves wasn’t even sure who we were yet. this is called getting your shit together. Chicks dig guys who have their shit together.

jakdak · 2018-02-02T07:05:58+00:00

I'm 45, at 35 every female I ever had met resurfaced and wanted to know what I was up to.

matty25 · 2018-02-02T07:05:42+00:00

You are in the early 30's sweet spot right now where you still have youth on your side but you also have a little bit of experience now. At that age you can basically date almost any age of woman you come across as well.

HilarityEnsuez · 2018-02-02T07:13:08+00:00

All of the young women are not interested in men their age because those women are dating older men. It starts in highschool and never stops.

ANGRY_ASPARAGUS · 2018-02-02T07:43:19+00:00

Yes, if you play the Game right and been working on improving yourself in your 20's, took care of your body, it will pay off in your 30s. As a man, you'll experience your SMV peak between the ages of 33-39 (again, only if you worked on yourself).

2018-02-02T06:23:31+00:00

at 29, early 20's women are automatically receptive of my approach. at 21, seemed hit or miss even though I played football and was more muscular.

DolphinReaper_69 · 2018-02-02T05:15:36+00:00

Yes absolutely. I am getting more early 20 year old girls attracted to me at 38 than at any time in my life. Granted I look young for my age.

Also I am more aware of them and how to respond to them than when I was in my 20s. They could have always been into me but I just was an AFC.

ReveVersant · 2018-02-02T06:07:49+00:00

27 y/o male here, I had a lot of success in my early 20's due to being "fit" and good looking, but I find now that how good your rig is or your age doesnt matter. If you radiate positivity and the "fun" vibe, you become unconsciously attractive to most women.

Its more about how they feel around you than how old you are or how fit you are.

2018-02-02T13:52:22+00:00

I feel the same. 31 here, things have never been better.

meltboro · 2018-02-02T07:39:11+00:00

Ugh no, i feel im the exception. When i was young young girls loved me, as i get older i feel i get exponentially less attention

2018-02-02T08:27:07+00:00

That’s because your sexual market value is at its peak during your 30’s.

LingeringGnome · 2018-02-02T22:33:25+00:00

Men take longer to mature than women.

I'm 40-ish, and only date fit 20-somethings who are sex-positive and independent. Currently live with a gorgeous woman in a LTR who is sex-positive and likes to watch me have sex with women in front of her that she brings home (yes, really). I literally have lingerie-wearing or naked women running around my place some nights.

I feel like in my 20's, I would've been more controlling and chased someone like this away.

I also feel I would've talked more, way more, and not let women be in their feminine. When women are in their playful feminine, they love to make their man feel good. The room just oozes with positive vibes. And that's exactly what you need for threesomes to happen.

Age doesn't seem to be a social barrier for men. But FITNESS absolutely is.

wont_give_no_kreddit · 2018-02-02T11:52:23+00:00

Personally, I like to think that with age comes experience and game development as mentioned by others.

I look young for my age and had really low self steem for most of my young adult years. However, as I get older most of the things i was hung up about no longer bother me. My life took a 180 at some point in last couple of years, and it can only get better.

I've always had younger girls try to hit on me on on social media but I avoid them like the plague, 19-23 year girls are fun they are also very unpredictable. I tend to flair our better with the 30+ crowd but that might just be the fact that they specifically like my type. I have five years to develop financially and personally so my 30s might be the fun years of my life.

1vibe · 2018-02-02T12:55:36+00:00

Yes. Women get their power when they’re young, men as they get older.

TheBetterManZA · 2018-02-02T19:20:53+00:00

Yes, and no. When I was younger I had more opportunities than I realised but I was too shy/inexperienced to notice. Now that I'm older, working harder and have more money, I notice when girls are into me and am better at closing, but because I don't want to deal with drama in my social circles or at work, I generally just do my own thing.

2018-02-02T22:01:50+00:00

Fun isn't it? The problem now though is finding a woman that's interesting to talk to. That maturity level isn't usually there.

plascra · 2018-02-02T16:52:08+00:00

The difference of wine and milk.

physicalbitcoin · 2018-02-02T18:55:39+00:00

A woman simply is, but a man must become.

You only reap the rewards if you worked on yourself though. Yes, some men are born attractive but at the end of day it's about you.

thetahill · 2018-02-02T21:36:26+00:00

I'm 39, and I've dated far more attractive women in my late 30s than I ever did in my 20s. And, these are pretty much all women in the 20-29 age range.

I never dreamed when I was 22 that a 22 year old would rather date and sleep with a 39 year old than my 22 year old self.

That being said, I'm 30 pounds lighter (and more muscular) and much more charismatic and confident now than I ever was in my 20s.

recyclablebanthas · 2018-02-03T06:09:51+00:00

It does seem like girls are more attracted to older guys after-all?

Is it just me or maybe all my efforts on personal development are finally being rewarded?

Probably a little of both. You're seeing the effects of your personal development in some of those interactions, and there are certainly girls who dig older guys.

Tamazin_ · 2018-02-02T18:15:56+00:00

My wallet is getting fatter, so yes.

ImJustSo · 2018-02-02T14:32:27+00:00

Yes, but I'm naturally more confident than I was when I was younger. So I believe it's that age isn't what's making me more attractive, but confidence. My facial expression, my walk, my stance, and body language all say the same thing: I'm okay with me, I'm okay with you, too.

Edit: I'm 34.

captainVSI · 2018-02-02T17:27:49+00:00

Yes. Generally speaking an “older man” will have the appearance of experience and solid grounding in the world. Basically the opposite of a younger man. This is why many women are attracted to older men. However there are plenty of men who are older, look the part but they have no experience and are not very grounded in the world.

LimitedContributor · 2018-02-02T18:16:34+00:00

I needed this. Thank you. I need hope.

Monkey_Jerk · 2018-02-03T01:31:49+00:00

No. My face has declined due to things out of my control. In my late teens I got some attention, it declined in my early to mid 20's but still had some opportunities, rarer still in my late 20's and now it's non existent.

andrewingram · 2018-02-02T12:47:30+00:00

Well i'm objectively more attractive than I was in my twenties, because I have relatively decent posture and a respectable amount of muscle. I don't feel more confident though, i'm no more likely to approach now than I was then.

decadearray · 2018-02-02T12:53:19+00:00

Na never had this anxiety or fear.

Title	Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male]
Author	mtriad
Upvotes	135
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Date	February 2, 2018 4:55 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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