Example: I actually had two dates last month using this strategy. Two girls who i met at a pub sometime last year. Both ended up flaking when suggesting a possible meetup over text. I could've easily just deleted there # and move on completely but i played the long term game. Around sometime last month, I was bored and texted both girls asking how'd they been and yada yada yada after weeks of not hearing from them. One of them ended up apologizing for not meeting up prior because they were extremely busy at the time and the other happily agreed to meetup for drinks. Long story short, I pulled one of them and had a good time with the other.

You have to understand that people can be very moody at times. And sometimes, its really not just you whose doing anything wrong, you just caught the person at the wrong time. So whenever youre in a situation where someone flakes on you and you felt like the initial meeting was great, leave them alone for a little bit. Reinitiate a normal conversation and invite them out to something youre gonna be doing anyways. But whats also extremely important is that in the process, youre also talking to other people and being in an abundance mentality.

Also, this isnt gonna work every time. Some people simply just won't be into you now matter how good the initial meeting was. If there still not recipricating on the 2nd and 3rd attempts, than its safe to say you can completely move on now.