Edit: As comments come in, I’ll add some of the better suggestions to the initial list.

  • Become the type of person that will attract the kind of person you want

  • Treat all women (and people) the same

  • Make a habit of striking up conversations with strangers regularly, not just attractive women.

  • Be in shape, eat well, take care of your general health and grooming

  • Cut out all porn, limit masturbating

  • Assume attraction

  • Have a goal, purpose, or hobby that takes priority over women.

  • Have respect for yourself, but don’t take yourself too seriously.

  • Always have an abundance mentality. Meeting women is a numbers game.

  • Don’t put her on a pedestal.

  • Bring value. Be excellent in some aspect of your life where you can demonstrate high value.

  • Show your intent without being needy or creepy. Don’t be afraid of physical touch to demonstrate attraction.

  • Be able to read social queues and body language for indicators of interest or discomfort

  • Have good vocal tone. Speak from the chest.

  • Don’t be afraid to be sexual and escalate. Don’t act like a platonic friend.

  • Have a fun, happy, positive vibe. It demonstrates social value.

  • In the initial stages, focus solely on both of you having fun and don’t worry about impressing her.

  • Don’t get emotionally invested too early and fantasize about a future with her.

  • Be willing to walk away and mean it.

  • Adopt body language that is open, takes up space. When sitting, drape one of your arms on something.

  • Be present. Listen intently and remember details about what she says.

  • Maintain your home and your possessions.

  • Don’t take action with the expectation of something in return.

  • View yourself as a prize.

  • Don’t be afraid to disagree

  • Push yourself out of your comfort zone regularly. Have difficult tasks you can accomplish.

  • Smile (naturally) at the beginning of every interaction.

  • Give compliments because you actually mean them, not as a way to gain points with her.