They make excuses saying she was abused herself and that my dad was terrible. I spent a lifetime around women enabling her and other women. They felt like the girls were a gang and you had to be 100 percent loyal if it involves a man.

They will completely sidestep or justify mirderous behavior and find compassion even if the woman does not show remorse.

It's very cult like and frightening when they have power over you. I almost lost my mind and began to blame myself.

I know that men don't do this.