I see it everyday men putting up with the craziest things in relationships while simultaneously making terrible decisions and not working to become their best self ..

I don't date I haven't in years, I'm not paying for an app and I don't approach women..but I know plenty of men that do and the majority of these men are chasing low hanging fruit.

I know two kinds of men, men that just date to get laid and for entertainment and men actually looking for a wife...for any of these your going to need money,good looks, charisma,and it's still a numbers game.

Charisma is tough but looks you can do a bit about like build muscle, loose weight,dress nice and smell nice but money is where it's at increasing your income will propel you to the front of the dating hiaerchy and sure there's still women that Will choose you over Chris Brown or a pretty felon but you'll have more leverage

So trying to date broke is how men are sabotaging them selves especially in this hyper hypergamous era.