Big city's are SO much easier than small towns. Why is this?

Weary_Drummer9019 · 2024-09-05T04:55:08+00:00

Because small town everybody knows each other and there isnt the anonymous factor like a big city.

lubwn · 2024-09-05T05:16:07+00:00

You came from harder enviroment to an easier enviroment. In smaller cities you need to draw the best from what's left out there and can not be too picky either or you are left empty handed. There are only a few bars in smaller cities and possibilites are limited. So you basicly upped your game a lot in your smaller city and then came to an easier enviroment for you.
In Big cities there is a huge anonymous factor. In smaller cities all eyes are on you and everybody knows everybody or at least have some friends of their friends in every bar. Meaning, they can not mingle with a total stranger or there would be talks about how they are hoes.

But this all depends on how big city is and what overall mindset there is in the country you are staying in. For example in my country bigger cities are harder (but the biggest is only 400k+ people) and smaller cities with poorer population are WAY easier because girls think about you a lot when you come from a bigger city to smaller city. So it is actually reversed here.

coldbrew18 · 2024-09-05T06:08:41+00:00

In addition to the anonymity factor others have mentioned, you have math on your side.

Let’s say 10% of women are really easy to seduce. Well, 10% in NYC is a lot bigger number than 10% of Borington Iowa.

Then you’ve got more options for where to hangout. NYC offers a variety of places to meet like-minded people. So people who want to get laid are more likely to congregate in similar places.

Borington has a bar and a church. You go to one or the other if you want to socialize.

ijustwannawin1 · 2024-09-05T11:26:01+00:00

Dude my city so small I tried to approach a chick at target and she end up working at the same company in a different building across the parking lot Plus I see to many people on dating apps I ran into in person at bars and some goes to my gyn Small cities at it

AlchemistEngr · 2024-09-05T10:11:32+00:00

I'm going to guess its just as easy to lose your girl to another guy in a big city too. Easy come, easy go.

cadenjpeters · 2024-09-05T14:09:30+00:00

Small town of 100k… sigh guess I barely qualify for village title

Electronic_d0cter · 2024-09-05T04:59:55+00:00

Yep, I couldn't approach at all when I lived in a small town now my aa is so much less just because I know I'll never see this person again unless it goes well

Junior-Sport7376 · 2024-09-05T13:23:03+00:00

Moving to a big city bumps you up at least a point or 2

A 5 may turn into a 6-6.5

A 6 can turn into a 7.5-8

A 7 turns into an 8

A 9 stays a 9.

Khower · 2024-09-05T14:09:22+00:00

That’s interesting because in small towns and areas I feel like a big fish in a small pond. Women constantly approach me and try to talk to me and are much more assertive because good looking guys aren’t common versus a city I have to actually game

EmperorSillyBilly · 2024-09-05T05:30:53+00:00

All the hottest and best interactions I have had come from big cities. I agree

Principe_de_Lety · 2024-09-05T12:25:46+00:00

So basically you're getting them drunk then fucking them. In a small town you'd get a reputation quick

safestuff987 · 2024-09-05T17:10:50+00:00

In a small town, there are less people and the population tends to be more stagnant. When you go around the block enough, your name will eventually make its way into the rumour mill. Women tend to be more closed off and don't make themselves easy, because it's more likely they'll develop a reputation for being "easy" if they aren't careful.

Cities on the other hand, have so many people and so much going on at once that nobody's really that bothered to know everything, and that gives you a layer of anonymity. Women in big cities are more likely to sleep around because they can pretty much do so in obscurity. Sure someone might spread rumours about her, but those rumours are far more likely to be dismissed.

trev581 · 2024-09-05T05:29:47+00:00

you went to New York didn’t you lol

WhatsTheAnswerDude · 2024-09-05T13:30:11+00:00

All depends on the cities/areas you're comparing but uh....yeah, this is kind of obvious info.

Basically, any one moving to a city is generally gonna be more liberal minded and open to new things than someone from a smaller town. Also very well possible someone from a smaller town isn't nearly as appreciative due to less life experience basically.

WAY more options in a city.

Badguy60 · 2024-09-05T11:29:41+00:00

Where was the small town?

It depends on what you are comparing

AutumnLeaves420 · 2024-09-05T16:08:27+00:00

Yeah, the victorious feel dies when they don't respond because... well, as you've pointed out, you can't support the extra-curricular habits of those women. You can't afford the rent necessary for their lifestyle- this is crucial for keeping them. You are just a test drive, and I'm sorry to tell you that, but I hope it helps you understand the expectations and vetting process of most of bay area women.

CandidMidnight4544 · 2024-09-05T21:40:12+00:00

Dang I’m in a big city and find it difficult. Where are you approaching / finding women?

Billykogos · 2024-09-05T22:05:01+00:00

abundance.

RammRras · 2024-09-05T23:56:16+00:00

Small towns and 100k people somehow smash in my head. I lived all my life till now at max 20K people towns.

Aminuteortwotiltwo · 2024-09-06T01:17:46+00:00

Do you think it’s because you are different from the everyday vibe of the locals of that city? You expressing that you aren’t from there and therefore there are no strings attached and/or expectations after the night could be contributing to your success, as well as providing different personality traits from the norms of what they experience.

darkhorn · 2024-09-06T11:10:35+00:00

It is also easy to divorce since there are a lot of options.

rzerx · 2024-09-07T02:28:16+00:00

Everyone knows everyone in small towns whereas in big towns people are more mysterious

InstructionAbject763 · 2024-09-08T23:04:07+00:00

Small towns slut shame

Players have a reputation and women are less likely to wanna give up their reputation

Cities, no one cares since there's too many people to keep track of

TheGrinch_irl · 2024-09-05T10:39:04+00:00

Small town is easier for masculine men. Big city is easier for new aged feminised men.

NewPainting8224 · 2024-09-05T05:37:11+00:00

Really depends on the small town and the city

EquivalentPackage397 · 2024-09-05T05:57:08+00:00

In small cities another issue is the logistic.

You can manage to get contacts but if you live far away from each other (20,30 km) that's will be more difficult to pull at your place or yours...

Title	Big city's are SO much easier than small towns. Why is this?
Author	Honest-Ad2811
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Date	September 5, 2024 4:52 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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