Am I more red pill or blue pill? Conflicted between two mindsets

Hey all,

I recently had a debate with a friend, and I’m trying to get some clarity on where I actually stand when it comes to the red pill/blue pill spectrum.

I enjoy flirting with women and building connections to the point where they’re comfortable with being intimate. Most of the women I interact with are not in the sex work industry, but they are in jobs where one-on-one interactions (like masseurs or hairdressers) are common. I don’t use dating apps, I prefer real-life connections.

For me, the excitement comes from the “game” or the thrill of using RIZZ to build chemistry. I spend a fair amount of money—definitely more than the average red piller—but I accept that there’s no guarantee of sex, and I’m fine with that. The process itself is part of what I enjoy.

Here’s where the conflict comes in. My friend considers himself a true red piller and thinks I’m completely misunderstanding the concept. He says if I were truly red-pilled, I’d skip all the flirting and connection-building, and just pay sex workers to get what I want without all the extra effort. He’s convinced that red pill is about getting the hottest girl at the lowest price.

While I agree that money plays a role in the system, I believe having game and rizz can get you far without needing a Warren Buffett-sized wallet. My friend thinks that makes me more blue pill, and I’m confused now.

based on this, am I leaning more red pill or blue pill?

Thank you!

TLDR: I use rizz to connect with women from the non sex trade and spend significantly more than others, but my red-pilled friend says I got it wrong and should be trying to pay the least for the hottest girl. Am I red pill or blue pill