what are some things women can get away with but men can't?

Ben-iND · 2024-09-28T11:31:21+00:00

the obvious one: (sexual) harassment

Different-Product-91 · 2024-09-28T11:50:12+00:00

Intrusion into men's locker rooms, showers and rest rooms violating their privacy under some pretext.

Codename-18 · 2024-09-28T11:23:02+00:00

Infanticide, slender, murder is way less likely to result in death penalty, emotional violence, psychological violence

Upper-Ad9228 · 2024-09-28T12:12:38+00:00

Somehow everything. Even the law is less punitive if you are a woman

Upper-Ad9228 · 2024-09-28T11:37:13+00:00

hate speech

violence (they usually receive shorter sentences than men)

false accusation

sexual harrasment

and many others crimes

Throwaway26702008 · 2024-09-28T11:32:30+00:00

Any violent crime

Upper-Ad9228 · 2024-09-28T12:03:54+00:00

Kidnapping (if the child is hers)

3gm22 · 2024-09-28T12:22:24+00:00

Paternity fraud, theft, manipulation, murder.

They essentially get away with doing everything mentally and emotionally, Which men do physically.

Part of the problem is that we do not punish mental abuse and manipulation in the same way that we would punish it if it was done physically.

Yet we are both body and mind.

AnySmoke2016 · 2024-09-28T11:33:47+00:00

Hate speach

YaBoyElls · 2024-09-28T13:19:10+00:00

I'm gunna be frank with you friend, name things that woman are penalised equally to men across the board for doing?

New_Engineering3987 · 2024-09-28T12:39:21+00:00

Sexual assault

UnforestedYellowtail · 2024-09-28T12:52:50+00:00

Seems like it would be way more efficient to list the few things women CANT get away with.

Upper-Ad9228 · 2024-09-28T13:01:43+00:00

Their complete genitals they were born with

TheVideoKid112 · 2024-09-28T14:08:19+00:00

wearing clothes marketed to another gender without being called a “crossdresser” or a “sinner.”

Practical-Foot-4435 · 2024-09-28T13:12:22+00:00

Trespassing: 1. I was on a dock at a lake, and someone's boat was tied to the dock. A woman trying to get the perfect picture of her friends decided to hop onto the boat to snap the picture. The boat's owner didn't see, but I don't know a single dude who would think it's cute to hop on someone's boat without permission. 2. A woman I was dating wanted to go into someone's yard to look get a better look at something nearby. I told her we couldn't do that. She called me a wimp. She also said she could go "whoops, sorry!" if we got caught. However, I know I couldn't look into the eyes of a man or woman who's property I'm trespassing on and play dumb like that.

Summary: Women can play dumb or cute when they trespass. In contrast, a man is looked at as a threat, or at the very least, expected to take full accountability for their actions in these scenarios.

kuzism · 2024-09-28T14:24:50+00:00

Tricking their spouse into raising a baby that is not theirs.

Trail_of_Jeers · 2024-09-28T13:51:27+00:00

There was a girl who admitted to stalking a dudes mom to get to know him. That would land a man in prison.

Touching boys and kissing them.

Banging students

Not doing housework

PeonSupremeReturns · 2024-09-28T13:05:34+00:00

Where do I start?

vegatx40 · 2024-09-28T13:13:08+00:00

Laziness

CompetitiveOffer5339 · 2024-09-28T13:18:11+00:00

Really anything to has to do with harassing, sexually harassing, even sometimes sexually assaulting.

Women can get discriminate against men in a lot of ways, that men could never.

Glass-Violinist-8352 · 2024-09-28T13:25:29+00:00

Almost anything lol

7th-Genjutsu · 2024-09-28T18:06:02+00:00

Domestic violence, child abuse, alcoholism, child neglect, have sex with strange men in the same bed as a small child, DUI, false allegations, parental alienation, welfare fraud, putting the wrong father on the birth certificate, attempted murder, conspiracy to commit murder, burglary, drugging someone and robbing them.

_WutzInAName_ · 2024-09-28T12:32:05+00:00

A woman doesn’t have to pay 18-21 years of child support for a child she didn’t want to have or isn’t biologically hers. Many men get forced to pay 18-21 years of child support for children they didn’t want, and in some cases, for children that weren’t biologically theirs. It’s “A woman’s right choose”, no mention of a man’s rights.

A woman isn’t required to register with Selective Service. A man who fails to do so becomes a convicted felon and has his life completely ruined.

Across the board, the legal system is aimed at doing more to protect women than men, and doing more to persecute men than women.

Lopsided-Gap2125 · 2024-09-28T13:54:29+00:00

Touching the opposite sex, pursuing an age gap, like hitting on younger or older men.

BuckandShilo · 2024-09-28T15:17:39+00:00

That knows some of these are repeats. I haven’t went read all the way through. I didn’t want to read others cause I wanted to just do my list. Keep my thoughts straight.

Defending yourself against assult.
Accusing of people of things they didn’t do and then getting away with it.
More likely to get away with killing their spouse.
Sexual assault of another adult.
Traffic tickets.
Lying about spouses in family court.
Capital punishment(more likely to get life.)
Using sex for advancement.
Cheating and still getting alimony.
Showing. Emotions without being considered less of a person.
Lying.
Trapping someone into a Marriage for financial security.
forcing others to take care up there financial responsibilities to their children.

The list goes on and on that’s the number one goal of feminism (third wave feminism anyway) all possible benefits, and no responsibility.

Enough-Staff-2976 · 2024-09-28T14:21:55+00:00

Caroline Ellison spearheaded a $10 Billion Fraud organization.

Cassie Ventura was the second in command in the Sean Puffy Combs trafficking charges.

AntiFeminismAU · 2024-09-28T15:35:22+00:00

In Australia they literally get away with murder and don’t even go to jail. Just ask the woman in Cairns who murdered her 8 children and didn’t spend a day in jail.

Kvltizt · 2024-09-28T14:26:43+00:00

Getting custody of children without really deserving it

CAR_carpenter · 2024-09-28T15:58:10+00:00

Wearing the opposite genders clothing.

TheRoyalPendragon · 2024-09-28T18:48:50+00:00

Gay dude here.

It's always bothered me how lesbians and bi women can openly make-out, fondle each other, and act like obscene freaks in the clubs/bars/music videos. They can even maintain their "straight" status while being face deep in another girl's box.

Yet if a man even hints that he wants to experiment, he loses his straight card, hit with a tidal wave of insults, and could have his social life destroyed. It's never "we're just guys having fun." It always turns into a religious, social, masculinity issue.

Timely_Bumblebee5365 · 2024-09-28T19:24:42+00:00

Half naked dressing in public

Fun_Butterfly_420 · 2024-09-28T14:24:56+00:00

Generalizing the other gender

AntiFeminismAU · 2024-09-28T15:40:07+00:00

Much easier to get a job thanks to all the gender quotas for women.

Additional_Insect_44 · 2024-09-28T19:31:12+00:00

Dunno about grown women but school age girls I've seen get away with grabbing on guys arms, talking about how attractive guys are, looking at guys sexually, chasing them and hitting and sexually harassing boys.

Upper-Ad9228 · 2024-09-28T20:28:42+00:00

Having accountability and gaslighting men for bettering themselves and having self-worth, goals, and boundaries.

silversurfer05 · 2024-09-28T20:34:23+00:00

Going into mens toilet

Adm8792 · 2024-09-28T16:26:51+00:00

called the police on a woman who had a knife on me I went to jail for a month….

TaxCapital542 · 2024-09-28T17:15:55+00:00

Knowingly putting a child off on the wrong man

KastroFidel111 · 2024-09-29T05:47:13+00:00

Women get in court and say they've been threatened by a man and cry and ish and people take them seriously when they have no Fkkn evidence of the sort.

WhereProgressIsMade · 2024-09-28T19:31:49+00:00

Not really their fault since it's usually the parent's naming kids, but women can get away with having a traditionally man's name, but not really the other way around.

Some that used to be unisex or boy's names that are almost entirly girls names now:

Addison, Allison, Ashley, Aubrey, Billie, Blair, Blakely, Brook, Cassidy, Charley, Dana, Hadley, Harper, Hilary, Kelly, Kelsey, Kennedy, Kim, Kinley, Lauren, Lesley, Lindsay, Madison, Mckenzie, Meredith, Mogan, Payton, Presley, Quinn, Reagan, Reese, Riley, Robin, Shannon, Shelly, Skyler, Stacy, Stevie, Sydney, Taylor, Whitney

dudester3 · 2024-09-28T21:39:05+00:00

After chatting with female coworkers, running to HR KNOWING they'll take your side because of gender.

Quirky_Scientist_579 · 2024-09-29T02:27:39+00:00

Talking about our bodies.

RiP_Nd_tear · 2024-09-28T14:05:26+00:00

Hitting my man playfully in public

7th-Genjutsu · 2024-09-29T03:30:28+00:00

almost anything, really...sometimes including murder*. The consequences are almost never as bad as they are for a man committing the exact same criminal, morally repulsive behavior. (*e.g. Mary Winkler from TN, who woke her minister husband up with blasts from a firearm; I think it was a shotgun or hunting rifle. She's out there somewhere living life as if that didn't happen.....she even got an interview with Oprah Winfrey afterwards.) It just seems like no matter what they do, it's usually going to turn out fine for them; little to no serious consequences. Even if one made an attempt on a political figure's life, I would not be surprised if she'd somehow end up just getting "probation" or house arrest for it.

2024-09-29T05:11:19+00:00

I’d like to think less attractive women can still get sex fairly easily where less attractive men absolutely must pay for play or date way down. Mainly true in the west.

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2024-09-29T05:49:41+00:00

Along with the excellent more serious examples already mentioned, being cutesy, overexcited, and liking childish things.

"Man-child" is a well-known term, but I've never heard "woman-child" mentioned except to comment on the double standard behind the non-existence of a term to describe a childish, immature woman that's comparable to "man-child."

FtM_Jax0n · 2024-09-29T06:47:02+00:00

Talking to children in public. Not in a weird way or anything, just saying hi or helping them with something or whatever. I don’t think I could ever do that, and I honestly look really young still (I’m 17, look maybe 13 or 14).

kaisear · 2024-09-29T07:39:27+00:00

Play poorly in sports and ask for equal pay. Cause troubles and act innocent and accuse men.

PQKN051502 · 2024-09-29T07:57:26+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/FxgtbzpyCy

I gave some examples in my post with backup evidences.

Embarrassed-Brief749 · 2024-09-29T08:29:51+00:00

body shaming

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2024-09-29T10:00:56+00:00

Violence. And sexual assault of a men or even young men.

Both I have seen endless amount of times people just watching and laughing. Till they guy had enough and does something back. Or even push the women away. Then the white knight swat team comes to try and "protect" the women from the men.

Seen it quite a bit and it's disgusting. And makes me red hot inside to see such clear injustice.

CarefulSection6157 · 2024-09-29T11:05:46+00:00

Being fat and pressurizing society into seeing you as "attractive"

macaroniinapan · 2024-09-29T16:44:31+00:00

Let's not forget the good things women are allowed to do but men are not. Lost little kid, crying alone in the grocery store? A woman is allowed to comfort the child and help find the parents. A man's safest option is to run away fast - even he wants to help.

_90s_Nation_ · 2024-09-28T13:01:13+00:00

Everything tbh haha

Like.. Genuinely it is better to be a woman, but I'm not trans 🤷‍♂️

I'n 50/50 weather it's netter to be a hot guy or a hot girl though

NovaQuartz96 · 2024-09-28T15:14:06+00:00

False accusations, with only a margin of 1% getting their punishment.

Confident-Cod6221 · 2024-09-28T21:19:01+00:00

Here’s a short video on this:

https://youtu.be/_ucR-1NodAs?si=3fI5RLILEPR5eiN0

It’s a great watch and it’s under 5 minutes.

Tiny_Professional358 · 2024-09-29T00:12:49+00:00

Sexual harassment, assault, sexual assault, sexual assault on a minor, no fault divorce, giving up their child.

parahacker · 2024-09-29T02:02:16+00:00

violence of any kind

JustNefariousness625 · 2024-09-29T05:17:09+00:00

Total helplessness

anon_enuf · 2024-09-29T10:49:54+00:00

All abuse. Sexual baiting. Paternity fraud. false statement & false arrest. Defamation & slander.

Big_Chocolate_420 · 2024-09-29T19:21:47+00:00

by German law... the naked woman in the trenchcoat is allowed to harass people, but not the naked man in a trenchcoat

§183 STGB

xc_bike_ski · 2024-09-29T23:00:33+00:00

Everything. Even prison sentences are shorter for women committing the same crime.

random_ginger16 · 2024-09-28T17:22:58+00:00

Women using GSR to exert aggression. I’m not sure if it’s just that men arnt as good as using it, or if it’s just totally unavailable for us.

American_PP · 2024-09-29T17:32:31+00:00

40 year old women sexually harassed baby Bieber left and right and no one gave two shits

Upper-Ad9228 · 2024-09-29T20:18:46+00:00

Women could quit life for various reasons and lay down and give up, and their man would stick right beside them. There could be lots of excuses. Mental health could be one.

Flip the tables and a man has trouble or mental health issues. They are labeled lazy no good, poor providers, bad fathers, etc..

This is a society, standard that is fucking unacceptable in my opinion

Valus22 · 2024-09-30T00:13:25+00:00

Reaching out to their friends/family when they’re going through mental health issues.

LCGiftingWisdom · 2024-10-01T02:10:39+00:00

Rape, physical abuse, sexual harassment, verbal abuse, and a whole host of policy breaking like lying on government forms (not common), lying to police, kinda just lying in general. My theory is because men can beat them or something of the sort is the paradigm so to most it balances out which is weird…and no, I’m not advocating for beating women if that’s where your head went.

Western_Goat357 · 2025-09-25T17:56:39+00:00

Everything.

Women love patting themselves and eachother on the back, while men love coddling and carrying women over everything, so both sexes are to blame for this bs, as well as ideological stances, liberals not giving a shit about men's side, and raising women above all else, and then the conservative side, also not caring about men's emotions or feelings, and going out of their way to shield and coddle women through every situation, from carrying them over mud puddles, to being protective about what boyfriends she has... I don't need to detail examples, we see it all around us. Little angels, and daddy's little princesses, while boys and men actually have to do all the work.

Physical and emotional abuse... I have seen first hand with my brother and his alcoholic wife, of which I have recorded numerous fights of there's to avoid any Kramer vs Kramer situations in the future, assuming the courts will side with her in the event of a custody battle, God forbid, because we all know... (sarcasm) single mother households are stable environments... Anyway, she plays the victim, cries about how she is this way because her mom died, even though me and my brother also lost our father, she says he is no man, "be a man", while she flings things at him, slaps and kicks him, wakes the whole house up etc. And he takes it like a dumbass I must say, because if I was him, shed sleep outside like a dog, but I guess he's not at the end of his rope yet. He cuddles her until she falls asleep, and when they wake up, its like nothing ever happened. I'm telling you, they live with us, and I'll step in to put this little southern princess in her place soon if he can't.

Sexual harassment. We see it all the time, grown women having inappropriate interactions with underage boys, Justin Bieber, there was that South Park episode with Ike and his teacher, Asia Argento and that kid from the Amityville remake... Surprise, surprise, none of them are/were handled in the least kind of way had it been the other way around, because you know, girls are more protection worthy. Not to mention things like the Amber Heard v Johnny Depp trial, which I think opened many people's eyes, hopefully!

Child care and parental roles. Mothers are always seen as more important in this area, god knows why? Just spend a second researching the statistics of child development in a single mother home, vs. a single father home, and you will see just how necessary and far more capable men and fathers are, compared to mothers. Which all of this goes back to the underlying fact that women are coddled by society. The woman has to endure labor for 6 months, therefore, because that is just so so painful and hard (pat pat on the back), they should have full control over whether that baby lives or dies. Not the father, not the other 50%, no, no, just because the baby grows in HER body, the father has no claim to his part of that child. You see what I mean, its disgusting, backwards, and like I said, all sides of the sphere are to blame for this.

I could keep going, and going... the one way street of child support, the fucking joke that is family court... which is where the rest of these comments come in handy. In short, extremes are the no. 1 problem us humans have.

randonumero · 2024-09-28T15:28:56+00:00

I think you should rephrase it to what can the average woman do that the average man can't. Looking through the examples so far I've seen attractive, athletic, wealthy and popular men get away with all of it.

The only fairly universal that women get away with is how they're treated in the justice system and media. I'm frequently still appauled by how reluctant the media is to call women rapists, predators, pedophiles...when they're caught with students. Even though an accused man may be called a pillar of the communinity, a good dad...there' still articles calling him a pedophile and the word rape his generally been used

Title	what are some things women can get away with but men can't?
Author	Upper-Ad9228
Upvotes	192
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Date	September 28, 2024 11:12 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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