You have two choices: master Cold approach Pick-Up or face the possibility of remaining single indefinitely.

Captain_w00t · 2024-09-30T21:02:15+00:00

Locking the thread. These kind of absolutes aren’t useful and/or truthful.

Commenters have already given enough counter-arguments.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-09-30T18:28:12+00:00

So many ways to meet women aside from cold approach. Social circle and online are amazing resources, even if guys like you shit on it

norwegiandoggo · 2024-09-30T18:17:47+00:00

Lame take. Over 50% of couples now met through dating apps. Many of the other common ways people meet are through friends or co-workers.

How many couples met through cold approach? It's probably less than 5%. Cold approach is cool, but niche. Most people don't do it.

AnthonyPillarella · 2024-09-30T19:29:38+00:00

Yeah, I'm all about getting people motivated on approaching but this is a fully idiotic take.

MaleficentFig7578 · 2024-09-30T19:23:20+00:00

You make it sound like approaches have to be cold. It's a warm approach if you already acquainted through some shared situation like a hobby group.

pitterpatter-96 · 2024-09-30T19:08:56+00:00

I’ve learned cold approach only gets you so far. I like meeting people through friends or events I get involved in. Too many variables in how they interact with other ppl, how their friends treat them/you, etc.

So much easier to gauge and low risk when you get a sense of who they are and what their values are. Most girls suck. So you need to find other ways to screen for high value rather than just playing Russian roulette.

miyass_miyass · 2024-09-30T18:17:36+00:00

Cold approach is great but if your only goal is the extremely modest one of not “remaining single indefinitely” it’s totally unnecessary

yardbirdtex · 2024-09-30T19:14:45+00:00

That is TOTALLY UNTRUE. I’ve been through multiple year+ relationships starting online. I’ve been approached in bars myself, I’ve NEVER ONCE successfully cold approached ANYONE and I’ve absolutely brought women home from the bar. The idea that seduction is a linear thing inside a box with rules is preposterous and it’s keeping you from meeting people.

5thquad · 2024-09-30T19:30:39+00:00

If you think that one of the only ways of impressing women is with immense wealth, that's your problem. The ones you will attract with that have no interest in you.

Charge36 · 2024-09-30T18:19:56+00:00

Being rich does not make game significantly easier

WhySoManyRedditAccs · 2024-09-30T18:37:10+00:00

Am curious now, how many cold approachers have good long term relationships? Obviously people interested in it are more likely to be looking for hookups but I reckon the number is swaying a lot more now to just people looking to get a single gf cause all other methods have failed.

Let’s be real the track record of people that have mastered cold approach and had happy long term relationships is quite low.

GiotaroKugio · 2024-09-30T19:51:05+00:00

Let's be real most people get married

burgundyskin · 2024-09-30T19:05:30+00:00

That’s basicslly what I have done, online dating feels like a waste of time (I get plenty of matches). I had women messaging me how handsome/fine/sexy etc but when it came time to link up always ghosting/flake/excuses. I just dont know what it was so I gave up after 6 months.

Idk why that’s the case, but Im not gonna rack my brain behind it. So I worked on my approach & got leaner/built inner game & my results have improved 100%.

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-09-30T20:31:41+00:00

You have two choices: master Cold approach Pick-Up or face the possibility of remaining single indefinitely.

This is brain dead shit.

While Cold Approach Pick-Up is a challenging skill to develop, it’s essential if you want to succeed in dating.

Was 20 years ago. Now it is easy.

No other viable options exist:

1-Dating apps:These have become pay-to-play systems, leaving you paying for a slim chance of more matches.

I don’t like them YET - they are viable. Frankly from a time to fuck rate more viable than cold approach.

2-Simping for OF creators: This will only drain your bank account without getting you any closer to a real connection.

Aaaa the gooner way. Legends truly never die.

Imagine what a legend you will be IF you pull that one off.

Fellas all our efforts should be focused on making this one happen.

3-Asking out a coworker: This could risk your job and professional reputation

Works fine. I have done it.

My cousin is dating his coworker - they met at the work place.

.4-Becoming rich and buying a Bugatti: For most, this is an unrealistic dream.

It won’t help you even if you do it. Well unless you want someone to get a Bugatti in the divorce.

5- Deporting yourself to a third-world country: You may end up with a partner interested solely in a visa

This is a very viable option. It has been a staple of Americans in recent times.

6 Social circle - date a friend. See how it goes. Hell you know if you like each others personalities from the get go.

7 Night game. Frankly it is more effective than Daygame and easier and more consistent.

Cold approach pick-up is your best and most effective option if you’re serious about improving your dating life.

It isn’t the best I would rank it 5 out of the 8 options

1 Dating apps (and I don’t even like them)

2 Night game (cuz I love it - but If I have to be real I’d move it down to 4th)

3 Passport bro

4 Social circle

5 Day game

6 work dating

7 Bugatti bro

8 Gooning

Watch Cold-approach videos here:https://satoripuablog.com/infield-videos/

Ooo it is you and I was wondering why the brain dead take.

Normal-Noise3898 · 2024-09-30T18:30:39+00:00

I have had great success with dating apps. Sounds like you just haven't bothered putting effort into taking good pictures.

Cold approaching is a great skill to learn but it shouldn't be your main source of getting women. Instagram and dating apps are far better if you have a busy schedule.

Leewaak · 2024-09-30T18:21:53+00:00

Not really. SM approach is really viable and a better option aswell i wrote about it once here

GiotaroKugio · 2024-09-30T19:51:51+00:00

You still have friends of friends which is still very common

NYC_Dating_PUA · 2024-09-30T18:17:03+00:00

Watch Cold-approach videos here:https://satoripuablog.com/infield-videos/

Title	You have two choices: master Cold approach Pick-Up or face the possibility of remaining single indefinitely.
Author	NYC_Dating_PUA
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Date	September 30, 2024 6:15 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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