Where do you meet women?

ratfooshi · 2025-05-21T17:13:07+00:00

First things first, get looks out your head.

It attracts short term, but people who rely on it don't learn to develop their other qualities.

Women's weakness is language. It is easier at a job, class, social event, cause you have more time to build attraction. Night clubs, definitely street approach. It can be a fast game.

But I've had a fling with a business woman and a year long relationship with a girl off of tinder.

Since then, I'd like to think anywhere there is woman, there's a chance to dance.

catholicusername123 · 2025-05-21T17:07:29+00:00

Run club

barryg123 · 2025-05-21T17:21:13+00:00

Church, sports and private clubs.

icxcnika1 · 2025-05-21T19:26:06+00:00

Ditch dating apps. For guys who don't look 10/10 they are mostly a waste of time and might be bad for your confidence.

Go for long walks around busy areas with a lot of people and do approaches there. I tried to look for specific places with women as well, bookstores are good, but I'm not going to stay at a bookstore for hours

Environmental_Pay332 · 2025-05-21T18:25:09+00:00

Dancing clubs, cooking classes, etc.

Find an activity or hobby and make friends.

These friends will introduce you to more friends and boom

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-21T18:18:52+00:00

Ask around where other young working professionals congregate in your area.

Playful_Dot_537 · 2025-05-21T17:30:59+00:00

I think you are making assumptions about how good looking your face it because of the completely fucked up algorithms on dating apps. Has a woman literally said "yeah my bro you got a 5/10 face"? No? Well then ignore that.

Meet women everywhere you go. Whether you are attracted to them or not. Imagine you are going to the "dating gym" and the gym is everywhere outside of your place. Get those reps in every day.

Let THEM decide how good looking you are. You might be pleasantly surprised to find looks are much less important for 95% of women who are not Insta queens.

BaronSaber · 2025-05-22T03:39:43+00:00

You cant control your face if its busted...too an extent, but you can maximize what you have: get a good hair cut, keep your skin clear, if you wear glasses switch to contacts, choose a facial hair style that is the best for your face, go from decent shape to great shape so your face looks its best, don't just dress pretty well, dress very well.

Then, dont meet women at night clubs, go get involved in things and meet women you share interests with

Few-Calligrapher8892 · 2025-05-21T17:11:21+00:00

In my dreams.

topher_atx · 2025-05-21T20:45:22+00:00

Bars & nightclubs where they play music you can dance to. Met my ex-wife at the bar in the bar while asking the bartender for a water (this was a decade ago). Recently, I've had the best luck in line to get into the bar/nightclub, and outside the bar at 2:00am when I start up my motorcycle to go home.

Day game is good too. Met my ex-girlfriend 2 years ago riding bicycles on a popular hike & bike trail downtown.

This summer I'm hoping to meet someone at this really popular pool everyone goes to in my city. But I'm still going out at night as well.

The big thing is you have to go outside. Where you go maybe doesn't matter that much. You can kind of scope places out and see where might be good. Obviously you want a place thats somewhat popular where women go.

If you work from home, coffee shops can be good spots if they're popular. Can be a little expensive though.

And one last thing... I live in the city which makes things easy. The city is full of single people and has a whole ecosystem of places for single people to meet each other.

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-05-21T21:50:36+00:00

Social events. Meetups, sport socials, language exchanges, dance classes, etc.

Independent-Cod-5938 · 2025-05-21T22:26:14+00:00

Take a salsa class! Or acting class

greensneaker · 2025-05-22T02:57:32+00:00

indoor soccer league. running club. pottery class. DO NOT try to treat her like a bar hookup ever. ask her about her interests, see if there is anything in common or interesting about her. dig into that. show interest and let her come to you

Then_North_6347 · 2025-05-21T17:29:18+00:00

Target is a good place. Obviously also a younger gym like crunch isn't bad either.

stick_it_in_your_bum · 2025-05-21T18:38:01+00:00

Outside

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-05-21T20:16:06+00:00

Night clubs mostly

skunkmere · 2025-05-21T20:18:26+00:00

Anywhere you can.

Either_Sundae6099 · 2025-05-21T20:46:51+00:00

Improv class, cooking club, salsa dancing, cocktail classes, singles holidays, walking clubs, I could go on.

No one fgives a fuck about your face but you. However if you do give a fuck about it, people will see your lack of confidence over your face and be repulsed by you. Are you going to let your face dictate your sex life.

JacobLuck · 2025-05-22T00:42:30+00:00

hobbies

amlextex · 2025-05-22T06:57:58+00:00

Just go to densely populated areas. What nobody tells you is that meeting women or men should be easy. It should never feel hard.

If women are not looking in your direction, cold approach will be hard. If they are, they make it so easy for you to fish a compliment and deliver.

There will be grey areas where an approach is semi-easy, but you were hesitant. That's just wisdom you'll have to internalize and keep going out consistently. Baby steps. Easy steps.

TooInToFitness104 · 2025-05-21T17:11:39+00:00

Any where

Independent-Prize498 · 2025-05-22T02:51:05+00:00

Funerals. Grief is nature's most powerful aphrodisiac.

No-Wolverine7793 · 2025-05-22T03:26:38+00:00

Everywhere it's like there over 50 percent of the population or something

Inside_Bad_3512 · 2025-05-22T09:47:46+00:00

The bar

Juiceb0ckz · 2025-05-22T12:10:03+00:00

a 5/10 -6/10 face with the right haircut easily shoots up to 7-8/10.

KoleSekor · 2025-05-22T13:31:49+00:00

Events, sports, shopping, social circle, volunteering.

moderator_stallone · 2025-05-22T14:39:51+00:00

in the dark/s

AadityaGadal · 2025-05-22T20:20:29+00:00

Tbh i just finished college maily ta jailay school college classmates aarko class ko j hos it always revolved around where i studied

Powerful_Pickle8694 · 2025-05-22T20:48:32+00:00

Music festivals. I think I’m like 9 for 10 finding a hot dance partner that ends up in a hookup.

ChicoBrillo · 2025-05-23T16:28:31+00:00

Social circle. I am pretty outgoing and just try to keep myself meeting new people, even platonically. I feel like the types of women who are interested in me eventually make themselves known or available. Getting vouched for by other women is huge.

Title	Where do you meet women?
Author	Paracetanormal
Upvotes	85
Comments	58
Date	May 21, 2025 5:04 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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