Been a long 9 years. I’ll spare all the details. We pretty much live separate lives already except for kid stuff. No affairs, addictions or anything crazy.

I love her deeply but every time she shares she’s getting a lawyer, I’m almost relieved to hear it.

I almost don’t know what I’d do if she came and told me she wanted to salvage the marriage. On one hand, like most of you, the thought of that great life roped me back in time after time. But not anymore, just don’t think I would believe it.

Anyone else feel this way?