This question is for everyone about personal experience what do you consider obvious signals that someone is attracted to you and there's no doubt they want to make out, fool around, have sex with you?

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-06-12T14:34:21+00:00

Usually if they agree to come back to your place that's likes 90% chance she wants to least have a heavy makeout.

Lonely_Computer_2058 · 2025-06-12T13:53:06+00:00

I think this is thinking about it the wrong way. I’m you have to often lead with interest as a guy. If you keep waiting for signals a lot of women interpret that as rejection. But you can be bold and make your interest known and if they don’t object you’re good.

RTec3 · 2025-06-12T11:58:50+00:00

I've only experienced them being really touchy or initiating touch (non-sexual), but even that I don't know lol

Atticist · 2025-06-12T12:00:56+00:00

Hand comparisons

ScienTherapistology · 2025-06-12T11:14:22+00:00

I've always found that if she has her hand wraped around my penis to be a good indicator but I read into things too much sometimes

norwegiandoggo · 2025-06-12T11:03:15+00:00

If you invite them on a date, they say yes. If you invite them home, they say yes. If you ask them if they want to make out, they say yes. If you ask them if they want to have sex, they say yes.

These are pretty good signs. But you can never be sure. They could just be really nice. Or Canadian

EsotericRonin · 2025-06-12T14:42:10+00:00

If she agrees to go on a date with you she’s attracted to you

Lit-Up · 2025-06-12T17:49:38+00:00

Dude talking about women. It's very rarely been the case that a woman deciding to touch any part of my body of her own volition has not wanted to take things further. It's usually them casually putting their hands on my forearm in reaction to something I've said. Women are very good at avoiding men they don't like so if she's touching you she's just waiting for you to take it somewhere.

Ivabighairy1 · 2025-06-12T11:04:16+00:00

Wait … they give signals?

GlockHolliday32 · 2025-06-12T16:03:06+00:00

If a woman makes it a point to break the touch barrier, you're usually in the clear. Touching your shoulder, touching your hand, anything to make it a point to touch you.

marktosender · 2025-06-12T21:04:15+00:00

As you get more experience there's a certain "vibe" that you feel when they're down and it's on. For me with women I end up closing I notice a kind of distant far away dreamy look, some while playing with their hair, and they give you a lot of this kind of smouldering eye contact. They try to sneak it in too when they think you're not looking. You can feel the gaze on you.

Also you should be checking for compliance at each step of the way. Girls who are into you will be much more agreeable and will sometimes try to help you or open the doors for you.

Anonymous-Man-2024 · 2025-06-12T11:56:45+00:00

makes eye contact then blatantly looks at your lips. If she is opening her legs and you move subtly into that space she won't flinch.

Ok-Needleworker-4438 · 2025-06-12T12:49:52+00:00

I had a gf, she spent so long time with me, all the available time for her, gave me lots of attention, I didn't even try back then to impress her, i was just being there (but to be honest I was so active and engaged in that class, even looked good and had high grades, so that must have meant something for her) and she spent so much time with me and I liked it. It was obvious after a month, I held her hand, sat very close to her on the bench and she didn't mind it

Danrob91 · 2025-06-13T10:57:30+00:00

Touching you, smiling with eye contact, laughing at what you say when its not even that funny. Finding ways or excuses for you to touch them, when I met my ex she told me she was really hot and said feel how much sweat is in between my boobs lol. Knew what was coming.

cloverfdch · 2025-06-13T12:01:26+00:00

Always hug upon meeting. Touch the small of the back when ushering her through doors. Escalate with light kino during the date, looking at jewelry, tattoos, outfit. Don’t be weird about it either, you’ll know if she’s into it. Seed the pull early on into the date. Tell her you’ve got this really cool art collection or vinyl record collection, whatever you’ve got. Women need plausible deniability especially in modern day dating.

Towards the end of the date, always ask back to your place to see your apartment or check out your cool collection from the seeding process earlier. If she says no, don’t get pissy or change your demeanor. Just end the date and hug her before you both go your separate ways. (NO KISSING IN PUBLIC/PLACE WHERE SEXUAL ACTIVITY CANNOT OCCUR) If she says yes, have her meet you at your place.

Once you’re inside, offer her a drink, show her your collection quick, sit her ass down on the couch, turn the TV on to some BS program, and then always make a move within 5-10 minutes no matter how awkward it may be. Always remember that she is there for the same thing you are which is putting yourselves into a situation where sexual activity can occur. Be sure to be the one to pull away from the kiss first, then gaze ever so slightly before kissing her again. Escalate physically from there and don’t forget about foreplay.

Either_Sundae6099 · 2025-06-12T15:02:57+00:00

When they say "Do you want to go upstairs" or "I want your penis inside me".

Generally means its on.

But I am sure if you are over analytical, you can find some wierd statistic to base your views on instead of trial and error through taking action. Also, women like men who are confident, waiting for them to lead you, is not confidence.

smind893 · 2025-06-12T20:48:53+00:00

I'm gonna make a post about a stripper i fucked this last past week, but basically an easy indicator is inviting her somewhere that involves just you two.

Shows she trusts you, wants to be with you and is looking forward to being alone

BankOfGreece · 2025-06-12T11:06:27+00:00

depends on the situation, i've made out with a girl within 15s of her approaching me and telling me im a dick.
Also, if you're at the club in the smokers area and she comes to you to ask for a cigarette and while doing so just sits in your lap, thats a pretty good indicator too..

xclaner · 2025-06-12T22:05:35+00:00

I’m going to assume this is man initiating on woman.

There is no clear signal. You only know in the moment and people can change their mind in an instant.

I’ve had girls that I hooked up with on the first date change their mind and want to take it slow on the second.

I’ve had girls that came back to my place that ended up not being dtf.

I’ve kissed girls at the end of a date that ended up ghosting me afterwards.

There are signals that increases the likelihood though - typically they involve physical comfort/receptiveness, enthusiasm, and compliance. Assuming you’re the dude, generally you’ll have to be unapologetically persistent and consistently initiate/escalate.

ScienTherapistology · 2025-06-12T22:13:07+00:00

God We must be so simple because I dont think one women has replied about how they know when we're interested in them lol

Nouseriously · 2025-06-13T03:54:07+00:00

If they start unbuttoning my pants, that's a good sign

Smazher95 · 2025-06-14T02:40:27+00:00

It's hard to tell, they're terrible communicators 😂 for me I just feel it and I usually get that feeling from eye contact that's so good you can't wipe a small smile off your face and them too, this is when I throw out an off the cuff compliment so that it flows out naturally and see what happens from there. I'm not really good looking or have very masculine features, I'm not ugly though and I have dimples which helps, what I do really well is make them laugh, and its HOW they laugh that tells me a lot.

I realise this is subjective and that's the secret of dating, you have to adapt, every encounter has differences.

Exotic_Pop_765 · 2025-06-15T01:05:21+00:00

If they give u shit for no reason. If they give you the anime eyes.. or submissive body language. If you feel a particular type of awkward around them. Like everything looks normal but its also charged with meaning type of thing and that acknowledging that now means you got to play... this types of things. Im sure deep down u know already when its on and when it isnt. But theres inner resistance

MrTerno · 2025-06-15T23:53:43+00:00

For me, I’d say when she’s touching you like crazy and she’s open for whatever you say. When this happens I isolate the girl and then boom… you know the rest.

InternationalMode744 · 2025-06-19T13:07:21+00:00

In general - if her action is not usual for common communication

someuserss · 2025-06-12T19:22:14+00:00

Well I never give it a thought because when I want it, it happens no effort no moves needed just pick my girl and then night turns into what i want to be

According-Stretch948 · 2025-06-13T02:56:33+00:00

When she grabbed my dick in a club

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