Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactional

I’ve posted something similar to this before but I think I can word it a little better now.

To start with, it doesn’t make sense that a lot of men who can’t get any “meaningful” interactions with women, or worse no sexual interactions beat themselves up about possibly using provider services. You guys need to realize that everything in life requires you to trade something that you have to get what you want. An “equivalent exchange”. That equivalence is decided on by the two people trading.

What does a man have to trade to women? Physical features, skills/talents including sexual skills, status, sociabilities including “emotional intelligence” and morals whether you are faking these or not which is considered game, and lastly resources. On the flip side, women also have to have these traits to an extent but men care less about certain ones majority of the time.

Now if you don’t have any of those other traits besides resources, then you have no choice but to trade resources for what you want from a woman that’s just the way our universe works. AND even if you have some of those other traits, a lot of the time it’s typically still hard to showcase them or make them known because it is often a combination of multiple traits that get you anywhere. Like how do you make it known to a woman that’s you are sexually skilled if she won’t even let you in the door because you aren’t physically attractive and have no sociabilities, status or money. So it is even about having a combination of things more often than just one thing to trade.

Lastly, you can’t truly love somebody for the mundane things, and it doesn’t even really matter how unique the trait is. Somebody else will always have something similar to whatever trait it is they love about you, unless you only pick the person who is #1 in some kind of competition which would also be fake love. Therefore, love can only be unconditional. Meaning, they choose you simply for being you & nothing else. But, it’s also hard to tell if that’s why they are with you if you are successful in every way.