Which book worked for you the most?

norwegiandoggo · 2025-08-13T13:24:19+00:00

Putting the book down and taking action.

combori · 2025-08-13T13:49:56+00:00

The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them by W. Anton.

mmmeadi · 2025-08-13T15:03:03+00:00

How to Win Friends and Influence People
No More Mr. Nice Guy
Models

In that order

VelvetSinclair · 2025-08-13T12:54:34+00:00

Models by Mark Manson

DestroyerOfNuts95 · 2025-08-13T12:51:48+00:00

No More Mr. Nice Guy and The rationale Male

CrvCrx27 · 2025-08-13T13:42:46+00:00

Double Your Dating, by David DeAngelo

Readdeo · 2025-08-13T14:24:28+00:00

Ozzie - The Physical Game

champagneNight · 2025-08-13T16:22:03+00:00

The one where I went out and practiced talking to people. Not juts girls. Everyone. Stop reading and go out into the fucking real world.

bezbrains_chedconga · 2025-08-13T15:20:52+00:00

Raja Yoga by Vivekananda and the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle (this one didn’t make sense to me till I came back to it almost 10 years and several trips later)

Kundalini_electric · 2025-08-13T16:42:22+00:00

The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion. It's not a pick-up book per say, but it is about seduction. Highly recommend giving it a read if you're open minded..

burncushlikewood · 2025-08-13T17:28:30+00:00

The attraction code Vin DiCarlo

Pandora's box Vin DiCarlo

BigBroYoshi · 2025-08-13T20:40:56+00:00

I'm sorry to say this but no book actually helps you with women.

While they may help give a perspective change and help once you actually HAVE women, they don't actually help you go from nothing to success with women.

The unchained man - the alpha male 2.0 I'd say gave me the biggest perspective change. This is out of many books I've read before thinking they'd help me get women as a virgin (The Game - Neil Strauss, models - Mark Manson and the sort). Even then, it didn't actually help me get women, it just gave me a perspective change. I was still stuck. It was annoying, they implied a step by step guide but just talked around the subject on how you actually get a girl in the first place, like a vague cloud. They're good salesmen, but not helpful in this day and age.

The biggest book that ACTUALLY works is your exp. Going out and seeing what works and what doesn't. Trying out different things. That goes a whole lot more than any of those hugely successful books do. The joys in life comes from problem solving.

Please PLEASE don't be like me who was reading up books, or scrolling endlessly looking how to get a girl. I did that and it helped in NOTHING. Just get out there and try new ways, and eventually you'll find what works

Whole_Thanks_612 · 2025-08-16T21:42:39+00:00

The Game: Penetrating the secret society of pickup artists- Neil Strauss

JustBrowsing363 · 2025-08-17T22:27:07+00:00

Hire an OF model. Click pics with her for your insta. Let pre-selection do the work.

Apples_into_Snapple · 2025-08-18T17:54:00+00:00

The Game, Blueprint reloaded, Mystery Method (some direct tactics in MM will come off as goofy af, but it’s not the direct line rather than the idea/tone of how you say it), Models, Attraction Unlocked

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2025-08-13T14:43:47+00:00

How to win friends and influence people.

Matter_Still · 2025-08-13T14:12:50+00:00

Ovid’s “Ars Amatoria”, which was written to show a man how to find a woman. This was book one. In book two, Ovid shows how to keep her.

It’s a tough read, as it was written in 8ad

I took what I was comfortable with and disregarded what I found unethical. Within a month, I met the woman I would marry. It took three years for me to convince her but I never regretted a day.

How many guys can say “I got the only one I really wanted”?

ArmitageShanks69 · 2025-08-14T14:22:13+00:00

None. These books are not generic for every man. Some books may have content that either appeals to or is in alignment with certain people's personality or disposition whereas others may find the content alienating. I purchased the Manson Models audiobook on the back of tons of people raving about it yet have listened to it twice and did not get anything out of it.

RasenBoss9 · 2025-08-14T20:12:18+00:00

used to read pickup books thinking they'd fix my dating issues. spoiler: they didn't. what actually helped:

• bartending taught me to read people better than any book • practicing conversations with strangers daily • stopped overthinking and started listening

books give theory but real people give practice

NotAWasteOfAir · 2025-08-16T08:48:18+00:00

Daring greatly by brenne brown.

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-09-02T03:40:04+00:00

I wrote one which is gonna blow your mind, it's called Daygame Code, you can find it on amazon here

This book will teach you how to:

✅ Stop overthinking every little move and start trusting your instincts.
✅ Recognize the ego traps, self-sabotage, and validation-seeking that quietly kill your success.
✅ Start conversations that actually mean and get women to feel something real.
✅ Know what to say step by step after the introduction so you never run out of things to talk about.
✅ Know how to develop real self-esteem and true confidence and stop trying to prove your worth to others.
✅ How to connect rapidly with women to get them to feel like you are soulmates without faking who you are.
✅ How to stop handing over control of your dating life to chance, algorithms, or mixed signals.
✅ How to flirt and connect in a way that’s honest, masculine, exciting and emotionally intelligent.
✅ How to stop obsessing over whether she “likes you” and start asking if you even like her.
✅ How to become a man who creates real impact, no matter how short or long the connection lasts.
✅ How to accept and deal with rejection to mantain your dignity and save face smoothly.
✅ How to understand women actions once and for all.
✅ How to get numbers, dates and sexual and romantic experiences.

u/Rizz_Pineapple

SirJerALot · 2025-08-13T15:10:45+00:00

The Game. Hard to find but I could send you a digital copy.

KoleSekor · 2025-08-13T18:19:09+00:00

There's a lot of good books but I'll throw mine out there "Win With Beautiful Women" because it's biggest strength is taking complex concepts and strategies and makes them simple to read and easy to understand. And also, for anyone who gets my book, I'll do a free 1-1 coaching session

Title	Which book worked for you the most?
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Date	August 13, 2025 12:34 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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