You'll be surprised just how many attractive girls tend to be insecure about their looks, feel lonely, have financial problems, fake friends that they do not have real connection with, controlling parents, sick family members, history of being bullied or used to be unnattractive when they were young.

The notion of someone being so perfect to be with you often comes from ignorance about that person's life and your own devaluation of your own merits and good qualities.

Talk with them and try to geniunly understand them and you ll be surprised to learn that you have a lot more in common with them.