Have you asked anyone “I wanna fuck you now”?

Comfortable-Unit-897 · 2025-09-21T02:26:09+00:00

I was at a wedding reception, and a Lady at my table said “This is really lame”. I was drunk and said “We could go get nekkid and spice the night up?” We ended up shagging each other for several years.

HugePhallus2023 · 2025-09-21T00:49:03+00:00

I’ve once asked a girl if she wanted to fuck, right after introducing myself to her. Her response was a LONG pause, followed by “maybe,” after looking me up and down. I did indeed take her to my car and fuck her, but I think the stars really aligned for me that day.

CandidSubstance423 · 2025-09-21T01:17:29+00:00

That sounds more like a confession that a question, but yea I have personally told women that,but works when you know how to drop it.

whenismytie · 2025-09-21T03:23:00+00:00

Twice — filled to the brim with drunken confidence — I approached a woman and said something to the effect of “get your shit, we’re leaving,” and it worked both times. Not sure I could pull it off again.

5dollarcheezit · 2025-09-21T07:14:14+00:00

One of my favorite success stories that I never get to tell. In college I was friendly with a lot of classmates and one time I invited a girl to go to a thrift store with me to look for a Halloween costume. We found this great brown robe for super cheap and I was going as Anakin Skywalker. I was driving her back to her place and asked kind of nervously, “Do you want to have sex?” She was pretty caught off guard by the question. Her response was impressed by my boldness, said I was hot, but she politely declined. I played it so cool, but I don’t remember what I said. I dropped her off at home that was that.

In the following days I had a paper due and ended up pulling an all-nighter. I sat in class that day in a daze. During class I get a text from the girl saying she wants to do it. I look to her across the classroom and she is smiling back. Fuck yeah. After class I take her to my place and it we went at it. Pretty face and an excellent body. I couldn’t fucking finish though because I was so damn tired from being up all night. After a good while I just had to end it and tell her that I was too exhausted. She offered anal at that point but I just couldn’t. Should’ve just powered through, but I took her home.

Kind of a disappointing ending to a great story, but still. The line worked.

ecmoRandomNumbers · 2025-09-21T03:07:10+00:00

"Fuck the brains out of you" sounds kind of serial-killer-ish. I'd go with "fuck your brains out."

edit: a quotation mark.

Neither_Detail5645 · 2025-09-21T00:35:01+00:00

Only after a few drinks and chatting and the vibe. Said it once and five minutes later in bed

mrlamename · 2025-09-21T00:44:15+00:00

Only on dating apps, brother. Literally one out of every 50 says she’s down.

Just do the work, play the game. I promise you the one in 50 isn’t the one you want knowing your address.

astrothunderp · 2025-09-21T03:53:01+00:00

Yes. I was 21 at the time and my older sister’s friend was very interested into me this night for some particular reason. She started dancing on me when my sister left to go to the bathroom. Before my sister came back, I asked her if she wanted to fuck and she gave me this look (the fuck me look). She was worried bout my sister finding out, but before my sister even came out the bathroom I took her outside the bar and we fucked in my car.

0-4superbowl · 2025-09-21T02:23:06+00:00

That’s a statement, not a question

Cramer4President · 2025-09-21T01:59:03+00:00

Careful brother those might be hookers lol

probablysomeonecool · 2025-09-21T00:33:31+00:00

As a literal opener/very first thing you say to them? No. You'd need to be elite levels of hot for that to work, and even then it would probably have low success rate. But I could be wrong since I haven't tried it.

z0rb11 · 2025-09-21T02:21:32+00:00

The way you phrased it is not really a question

johnfro5829 · 2025-09-21T00:34:12+00:00

Unless you're like 1990s Fabio hot don't bother. I only think that worked one time ever in my entire life and I was in a Starbucks and I had to chat this girl up for almost an hour and a half before she would go anywhere with me.

Mc_Dickles · 2025-09-21T03:17:45+00:00

That’s something you say when you know the answer is yes.

Warchamp67 · 2025-09-21T04:37:39+00:00

Had a girl that found an empty alley we could fuck in next to the bar, she scouted it out in advance and everything. She lead me to the alley and we did the dead. Some guy that was trying to fuck her the whole night tried to fight me after but he was like 100lb soaking wet, was a funny night lmao.

So I guess it can happen but there was a lot of build up to that night.

thatguy12591 · 2025-09-21T00:56:05+00:00

I wanna fuck you now is not actually a question

DrBarackPendergrass · 2025-09-21T05:21:46+00:00

Funny, there's actually a song called "IJustWannaFuckYou" by a rapper named Chase Swayze that shows you exactly how to do this. No joke.

CornEnt · 2025-09-21T14:22:42+00:00

Oh I’ve got some stories. Women love a bold man.

Back in my college days when I was learning pick up game an how to talk to girls I would do some wild things. Peacocking was still a thing. On two separate occasions I had a girl actually approach me and ask me if I wanted to fuck. Once was with a gorgeous blonde girl who I ended up seeing for a couple of months. I found this fur vest at goodwill. It was a women’s small vest in black that I’d wear to the bars with no shirt on. She loved that one.

Another time I had a girl come grab me as soon as the lights turned on. She had seen me talking to every girl I could find in the bar that night. She came up said “I think you’re really attractive” and I, in a very drunken state, said I think you are too let’s fuck. Long story short I had her bent over a jeep in the parking lot of a major apartment building across the street. She turned out to be a bit crazy and I didn’t see her again after that.

On a 3rd occasion I was back home from college on dating apps. Went out to coffee with the girl and we had a good time. Ended up back at her place playing battleship on her bed. I could sense she was down but didn’t know how to cross the threshold, so when she got up and left the bedroom to grab us a drink from the kitchen I stripped down and got naked and laid on her bed waiting for her to come back like I was some kind of French painting model (the naked man, thanks Barney). She walked in and was surprised but loved the bold move and we got down to business. Never saw her again after that but that was a fun one.

TLDR - YES. It works. Women love bold.

g0ingb0ing · 2025-09-21T07:27:17+00:00

Vegas, late evening, blckjack table, long conversation after, both got tired, wanted to rest..my hotel close than hers..invited her over..got in..started kissing

Whispered in her ear “i wanna fk u now”

She looked up at me with those cute eyes and nodded..twice

Clothes started flying She had cute knee level pencil tight dress, difficult to remove..tan undies that disappeared quickly and very sharp nails scratching my back

Had to stop a few times to catch our breath

We fkd till morning when she had to go bcz she had to leave with their tour bus early in the morning

Planned together and met again few months later in hawaii..for 2 weeks The gardener liked to stay under our balcony to hear her screaming in the afternoon, when we were back from the beach

She was a 8+ out of 10..great body and rrr good technique..😳😅

Long distance didn’t work🤷🏻‍♂️

Biscuitsbrxh · 2025-09-21T03:16:01+00:00

How socially uncalibrated are you? Jesus Christ

Belphegor_Sade · 2025-09-21T09:18:09+00:00

That`s what the great late Alan Roger Currie was advocating with his Mode One, especially Mode One Hardcore: tell women in a direct, bold, explicit and straightforward manner that you want to sleep with them.

But first you need to pay attention to the woman`s body language, to get a grasp of her level of eroticism and sexuality. Things like the way she walks, if she holds eye contact, the way she uses her tongue and lips when talking to you, how she crosses and uncrosses her legs, if she touches you or allows you to touch her or get in her personal space.

gonzoll · 2025-09-21T00:39:55+00:00

I didn’t phrase it exactly like that but pretty close. But I already knew the answer when I asked

MmmBra1nzzz · 2025-09-21T01:59:57+00:00

That’s not a question 😭

CharlesBathory · 2025-09-21T05:31:50+00:00

I friend of mine used to walk around on the dance floor and approach chicks with “you wanna fuck? He always got laid and barely ever got slapped. 1 out of 10 always said “why not?!” It was 90’s and early 2000’s in Eastern Europe but hey… Females are females everywhere…..

NuncaContent · 2025-09-21T08:52:59+00:00

Not on the spot, but I have told many women whom I met on line that if our date goes well, I expect them to spend the night with me. It works surprisingly well.

FixAccomplished9993 · 2025-09-21T11:05:58+00:00

Oddly enough when it's so obvious and you are both pretty much dancing around the subject, it kind of a relief if someone would just say it.

Happened to me. I was flirting with this girl in class, she basically let me finger her in the back of the class and we basically just spent the entire time flirting when we were working on classwork.

Then we were in my car just hanging out and "talking" she was being her usual difficult self and I just went "orrr you can just sit me?" and just went. "ummm.. okay."

She pulldown her pants and literally just sat my d*ck in the back of my car kind of in broad daylight. It was probably the best first few seconds of penetration feeling I've had when having sex in my car since it tends to be pretty awkward. Had to stop because people were literally walking by and had to move to a different parking space.

MisterMisfit · 2025-09-21T11:46:59+00:00

Not that brazenly but almost. At a big work event in another city, I locked eyes with a gorgeous girl. This event was a celebration, so I went up to her and said hey congratulations etc as if the whole thing was about her personally. Got her to laugh.

Later I saw her again, we got to talking which quickly became flirty, and it could've been the alcohol-induced bravery but I said "listen how about we celebrate properly just me and you at the hotel?". I wasn't expecting it to work honestly because she paused for a couple of seconds then said "I'm glad you went for it. Let's celebrate in my room". And we did, like animals.

Later I found out that she was actually married. I would not have gone through with it if I had known. She told me over text when I asked her that she strongly suspected that her husband cheated on her and she wanted to do the same to get even and release the anger, and that she doesn't regret a thing and that I shouldn't feel bad because I did a great job (lol). Also that probably explains why she was so feral that night...

IGotUrBrain · 2025-09-21T00:48:48+00:00

Hello i live here in Vegas .. I’ve been a resident for over 20 years and I just want to say everything isn’t all what it seems out here. Lots of the women that walk around half naked are escorts. hookers, trannies and undercover cops. So approach with caution!

buckphifty150150 · 2025-09-21T00:56:15+00:00

That’s not a question

Rare-Degree-9596 · 2025-09-21T01:44:21+00:00

This works with older women 30+ way easier than you think it should.

alreadyreddit578 · 2025-09-21T10:49:59+00:00

i once drunkenly asked my step cousin if she wanted to fuck while we were at a family party and we banged in the laundry room and got caught

Wow_Crazy_Leroy_WTF · 2025-09-21T14:02:21+00:00

Yes! And let’s just say I am banned from going into a Wendy’s in all 50 states.

an0therdumbthr0waway · 2025-09-21T04:34:03+00:00

That’s not a question.

Tgryphon · 2025-09-21T01:48:59+00:00

Tried the good old ‘Nice shoes, wanna fuck?’ Once and it worked.

Aftercot · 2025-09-21T07:48:41+00:00

I don't like to use the word much because it's like a slur, but looking at OPs comments he sounds like an incel and a gooner

floatable_shark · 2025-09-21T06:57:13+00:00

OP I'm not sure if you really understand how questions work

gowithflow192 · 2025-09-21T08:23:00+00:00

There used to be a 100 day challenge course or something and the final day was basically this. Walk up to random and say “wanna fuck”.

QuickAdministration0 · 2025-09-21T12:37:08+00:00

That is not a question

Suavedaddy5000 · 2025-09-21T14:39:10+00:00

That's not the question you think it is

autodidacticasaurus · 2025-09-21T15:34:08+00:00

As an opener? I think the fact that you're asking in this group tells us that it's not going to work for you. I have no doubt that it would work for some men in some situation, but those men have absolute confidence in their words. You don't. You'd flinch and the moment you do that, you'd be her bitch to do with as she pleases.

I do think that such phrases can work for many people early in a conversation instead of an opener though. I can imagine a casual environmental opener, friendly vibe, tease, storytime, then go for it. Still takes balls.

xsmiley · 2025-09-21T23:07:09+00:00

My go to line is “I wanna hear you moan”

It clearly states the intention
It implies I know what I’m doing 😏

ntedrain · 2025-09-21T12:18:28+00:00

Sometimes I wonder if people watch too much porn and can't tell fantasy from reality anymore.

If a woman says "yes" in that scenario, she's not the one you want to take with you.

Instead, just be a decent, charming, interesting person for ffs. Everyone is the same: We want Assurance, Attention & Excitement

Men and women interpret these differently, i.e. see them in different social cues and interactions. Women know how to trigger these already, e.g. Onlyfans. Men on the other hand seem to interpret attraction from a man's standpoint only, which differs from a woman's standpoint and therefore comes across as weird.

Tl;dr:

It's a basic human interaction and it works 8/10 times if you don't treat life as a hardcore porn, especially when every other man approaches her like a complete caveman already, you're going to stand out immediately.

relaxwhc · 2025-09-21T02:50:37+00:00

That might happen in TV shows, where Jessica Jones accepts it casually

HMFC18745-1 · 2025-09-21T11:02:46+00:00

Only tried something like this once, and it worked. Was speaking to a woman outside a nightclub one night at close and basically said we’re both single consenting adults so why don’t we disappear and have a bit of fun for the rest of the night. We grabbed the next available taxi back to her place.

SeoulBoss_K0 · 2025-09-21T11:43:06+00:00

nah man that approach doesnt work. vegas or anywhere else. women can tell when youre just looking at them like objects

ScungusBungus · 2025-09-21T15:33:28+00:00

No, but I've had girls ask me.

Money-Gur-2022 · 2025-09-22T04:24:26+00:00

Yes. A few times

RandomBlokeFromMars · 2025-09-22T07:50:19+00:00

of course. but you have to read the room. dont just splurt it out randomly.

with your girlfriend you can do it like at any time, its normal.

with others... one example was in a group setting there was a new girl, we started talking, clicking, made my usual attraction checks, she passed, we started kissing a bit, and then i whispered it in her ear when i was sure she was a bit turned on. she didnt answer just kissed me back harder, so we told everyone we will go to my place to show her my aquariums and we left. then, we did in the car.

meehowski · 2025-09-22T13:02:44+00:00

“OMG I really want to fuck you. Anyway, where was I”

five minutes later

“Ok” 😂

This was while having a casual beer with a tinder girl that I ended up banging in my car.

A bonus point, some drunk chick opened the car door as I was going down on her on a side street. That was both ackward and arousing.

SamuelNMEvander · 2025-09-22T14:03:38+00:00

Most of the success stories here are about the guys warming up the girl before asking them for sex. So let me add that I don't ask her for sex. It's wordles. We flirt & spend some time with her. Eventually I start making out / foreplay with her (doesn't include sex yet, mostly light touching, kissing & eventually caressing). Eventually they get so turned on that none resist sex. Because female sexuality is slow & receptive.

PM_Teeny_Titties · 2025-09-22T14:11:48+00:00

Was at a houseparty and met a woman at the drink station, and we started chatting. She was mid-story when she commented, "Am I boring you? You seem lost in thought."

My answer was, "Sorry... I was lost in thought about how much I would like to see you naked."

She blushed, and then we fucked later that night.

quinnstorms · 2025-09-21T05:27:29+00:00

Actually that's the only way I know

Title	Have you asked anyone “I wanna fuck you now”?
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Date	September 21, 2025 12:29 AM UTC (10 months ago)
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