Q4RPmen: Why do you need women?

weenieandthebutt · 2025-10-09T16:25:12+00:00

Redpill youtubers aren't a good example though. That's like basing the entirety of feminism on rage bait Tiktok videos. Besides criticism isn't hate, both genders need to be accountable for their own behaviour.

You can be redpilled and still have professional working relationships with women, civil friendships, courteous interactions etc.

Why do you need women? Is this really a good faith question, you already know the answer.

James_M_Croft · 2025-10-09T18:17:56+00:00

Most modern women are horrible in most of their choices and behaviors. Most, not all. Also, women can still have positive behaviors and choices, and many even have positive traits, like sex or children.

We do engage with women for the positives. But we don't ignore the negatives. Simple as that.

Have faith young man, despite most things being horrible, there are still some positive things in the world.

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-10-09T18:25:35+00:00

"reading a lot of RP content, comments on youtube and etc, left me with an impression that there is nothing good about women, just a lot of claims about how horrible they are. "

Yeah, and after reading feminist women content, comments on youtube and etc, always leaves me with the impression that there is nothing good about men, just a lot of claims about how horrible they are.

And really, me personally, I only picked the redpill label because of exactly those feminists, who are growing by the numbers each day.

Just as I know not all women, and not even all women who identify as feminists, hate men, you should realize the same about men, not all men or men who identify as RP hate women.

If you're like me, you're gonna dive deep and what I realize is there's a gender war between two demographics of men and women. Not with all men and women. Those demographics are, non hetero women versus hetero men. If we're being honest. They have the biggest political differences.

There's this popular trend today where one side wants you to believe that it's straight women who hate men. That all those women who say they want to join 4B and Decenter men, all were once women who were super duper enthusiastic about dating and having sex with men. Then one day, one too many men hurt them, and that was the last straw. No. That's not at all the case.

And it's popular for people today to make it seem that any man who has disagreements with women on an issue, is automatically evil.

We need to get real about who's actually at each others throats. Because from my experience, once I only focused on interacting with women who are absolutely into men, my relationships with women got way better. So yeah, I need and want women, especially women who need and want men, and want me in particular. Which is why I have a great wife.

asb3s7 · 2025-10-09T16:03:33+00:00

Strawman / loaded question. You can sum this entire post into “if you hate women so much why do you want to date them”, the question is unanswerable because redpill doesn’t hate women. They simply acknowledge women and society act a certain way. You getting offended (or other women ) doesn’t mean you get to declare they hate women.

Is making up questions like this a bluepill thing , a woman thing, or just an idiot thing? I can never figure out.

No_Self_2165 · 2025-10-09T16:39:21+00:00

This is quite a wild reflection that you think women are horrible according to RP. No, TRP claims that women are amoral and they just behave as their nature intends to.

Do you maybe deep down think women are horrible?

kvakerok_v2 · 2025-10-09T16:47:14+00:00

It creates an impression that all women are creatures of pure evil and that there is no SINGLE good woman on Gods green earth.

It's because you're trying to perceive it all through a moral lens, and discard how much men care for women despite all the bullshit they bring into the relationships. Also RPtubers are absolutely awful grifters, not worth watching.

"women only get worse with age"

If you made your whole personality about looks, ask yourself: what will happen to you when your looks start declining?

because they create an impression that ANY woman over 25 doesnt deserve dignity, calling them "expired products"

They say nothing of the like though. There's a couple crude comments by some men with low intelligence. The majority however do say right there that women's "experience" of no value to men. The real name for women's experience is "baggage". Men don't want women with baggage.

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SexCrispies · 2025-10-09T17:15:09+00:00

I need women because that is my biology as a heterosexual man with a sex drive. Romantic love (the biological one) happens without my control. Once i love a woman, that love will make me do all kinds of things, but most importantly deeply bond with her and view her as the most precious in my life next to myself. I have no choice in all of that. Evolution has made men want/need women by sexual selection and natural selection.

I do not view women better or worsen than men. They are different, have different motivations and interests, that sometimes run counter to mine on a more fundamental level than that of other men, who are mostly just rivals or allies.

Other than that, we have a culture where male status highly revolves around women. I need women to have a high status position in society and among other men, which feels good and has a high motivation to get there.

Barely-moral · 2025-10-09T16:34:14+00:00

Simple. I become suicidal when outside a long term relationship.

It doesn't matter how horrible I think women are (not that I think that) it doesn't change the fact that I either get into a LTR or I die.

anonymousppd123123 · 2025-10-09T16:49:50+00:00

I get horny

Coming home from working 12 hours saving the company its nice to have a nice home cooked meal waiting for me

Sometimes their childishness is delightful. I get the same feeling when my dog is so excited to see me she's bouncing off the walls. Women can lighten the mood in the room in a way men can't imo. This is a big part of why when they get older and bitter inside nobody wants them around. A woman should be a man's peace, and not more struggle for him - but now inside the home

Title	Q4RPmen: Why do you need women?
Author	No_Personality5381
Upvotes	5
Comments	118
Date	October 9, 2025 3:49 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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