Are women after 25 harder to game?

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TelephoneMediocre721 · 2025-10-12T07:53:12+00:00

They already have enough experience to know when you are just fooling around.

_fiveMoreMinutes · 2025-10-12T07:57:31+00:00

“Sweet little nothings make her gush” dude you’re just bummed they don’t fall for the routine gaming.

Stop faking genuine interest with tricks. That works at any age

Fowl_Retired69 · 2025-10-12T08:56:15+00:00

And this is why I think I'll just be going after older women. I really don't find flirting or those "games" fun, just draining and annoying; but everyone has their own preferences, so it's ok

gfa22 · 2025-10-12T08:14:30+00:00

No. Not at all. Sincerely a 35 yr old with way too many slutty friends.

And these are not people who are average in looks or academic accomplishments.

I think older women read your vibe better than young women.

Infamous_Anonyman · 2025-10-12T10:00:20+00:00

I find women age 20 - 26 the hardest to game. They play a lot of games, tend to be manipulative and pretty harsh on their requirement lists. Also they care too much about the social aspect (imagine if you would date a man that is halve an inch shorter then you).

Women ages 27 - 45 are legit. They're grounded, often don't play around, have reasonable requirements and don't expect the prinses treatment.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-10-12T08:36:37+00:00

They're not more difficult persé, but they are better at spotting manipulation and bullshit.

So if you're more honest and talk less shit, they will be just as easy.

daysof_I · 2025-10-12T10:30:20+00:00

Why is OP announcing he aint got game? If you can't get a woman with fully developed frontal lobe when they're more independent and can make their own decision without outside pressure, how can you even call yourself good lol

fvckCrosshairs · 2025-10-12T10:40:36+00:00

They're just more experienced, tired, and seen all the games already. You need to be more forward and straight to the point with them, unlike the younger ones

autodidacticasaurus · 2025-10-12T09:33:25+00:00

This is weirdly misogynistic. Have you considered that their bullshit detectors are just better and you're trying to bullshit them? Why don't you focus on authenticity instead? Also, to answer your question: no, I don't have this problem at all. Something in what you're doing is wrong if you require women to be naive and pliant.

OJSimpsons · 2025-10-12T10:52:27+00:00

Yeah, the fuck boi tactics dont really work at that age. Theyre not looking for fuck boys anymore, theyre trying to find a husband and a father for their future kids.

Sebastes-aleutianus · 2025-10-12T09:07:18+00:00

Not true. Women around 35 are the easiest to game.

epimpstyle · 2025-10-12T10:46:36+00:00

It’s all in your mode of perception. If you choose to think that way, you’ll start searching for 'evidence' to confirm you’re right, and that’s how your idea will keep reinforcing itself: that women over 25 are harder to game.

For example, if 2-3 women like that don’t give you the reaction you want, you’ll say: 'Aha! I knew it, they are over 25, they are harder to game."

Don’t forget, many guys find it easier to 'game' these types of women because most of them are polite, nice, and friendly. They act like 'ladies,' and once they’re 25+, they care more about their image. Of course, like anything in life, there are exceptions. You might find 1 in 20/30 who’s not like that, but they’re the exception. You can’t build a conclusion around them.

ThatGworl_forever97 · 2025-10-12T09:54:27+00:00

Stop talking nonsense. I fell hard for someone last year (28f) and have experienced the most intense feelings of my life to date.. even dreaming about them several times (I’ve never experienced that).. but I know if I can help it, I will never let that happen again because it was the worst mistake of my life to fall so deeply for someone I wasn’t sure would catch me.. that’s not femininity being gone, it’s women waking up to the games men play and refusing to be strung along or invest more into feelings that you wouldn’t even reciprocate!

Hankerton14 · 2025-10-12T11:40:25+00:00

The older you get, the easier it all gets.

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2025-10-12T14:00:21+00:00

Haha hell no. Young women have their heads full of complicated bullshit ideas about sex and love, and judgmental cock-blocking friends besides. They're the worst.

lexybot · 2025-10-12T11:33:56+00:00

As a woman I love hearing this. We are tired of the bs and are better at vetting people out.

ImpossibleBritches · 2025-10-12T07:53:23+00:00

Odd-Luck7658 · 2025-10-12T10:39:15+00:00

Not my experience at all.

PM_Teeny_Titties · 2025-10-12T13:24:27+00:00

I found dating in my 30s that it was harder to do a cold pick-up, but most first dates turned into a physical encounter.

kronikguru · 2025-10-12T14:32:10+00:00

Live your life be yourself and align yourself with the lifestyle you’d like, & practice mindfulness. The action of placing yourself in an environment you enjoy; it raises the probability of achieving your desired goal by 50%. This is the magic of quantum mechanics, quantum entanglement & Meta physics. Mindfulness along with action is an unstoppable force.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-10-12T16:25:36+00:00

I've found 25 to 31 to be the peak delusion years for women.

They still think they're in their peak and are awash in optionality of desperate men to choose from. Think they have all the time in the world.

It becomes much easier once they're 32 or so but by then they either have so much trauma from being run through and not being chosen by Chad for marriage, or already have kids.

prince_of_whales_ · 2025-10-12T08:43:17+00:00

I noticed the very same thing, older women are more logical, clinical, especially if they have demanding careers they tend to embrace their masculine traits way more.

They've seen everything, been everywhere, slept with everyone. Innocence and femininity are long gone, replaced by cold reasoning, calculations and a mental list of requirements. Dates feel like interviews exactly. There's no room for chemistry or flirting anymore.

Dating them feels like dating your masculine counterpart with a vagina.

MpowerFitness777 · 2025-10-12T11:18:51+00:00

I’ve dated all ages. Just look up “More Plates more Dates”.

genericname2020 · 2025-10-12T08:13:31+00:00

I observe the same thing

Onuceria · 2025-10-12T12:49:21+00:00

Its because by that time they've had enough of getting played and are looking for marriage material because they know they're losing against younger competition.

LeonVanetti · 2025-10-12T14:21:11+00:00

I exclusively started dating women at least 10 years older than me and I'm never going back!!

friday126 · 2025-10-12T16:47:09+00:00

Well this could be any number of things- this could be that the younger ones are falling for your canned game approach (if you're doing that- might be even if you don't realize it). Could also be that you're living in an area where they get hard up for provider hunting sooner than later (where I've lived I use to see this and the "interview" happen more around 30 where women got more insecure about the ole' ticking clock), could be the economy sucks where you're at and women you're hitting up are looking for a partner more than a fuck buddy. Could be you're just coming across as a fuck boy and those mid 20s and up want a boyfriend.

The younger the woman USUALLY the more casual view they have toward sex. There's that, but I doubt that's the whole bag with your situation.

Could be any number of things. Do think guys here are making assumptions and probably being a little judgemental. Seems like you're asking for help. I do usually get the vibe (which has helped me click with younger women) that the younger they are the more they're curious about life and dating and figuring people out- and open to having more open minded conversations, as oppose to the older versions who think they have everything figured out- not all women but a fair amount.

But it's weird to call these women "dead inside". Either you're bitter because your game isn't working on them or you're hanging out in a place that has some trashy women/women who make bad life choices. At a young age women who are like this don't feel the pain of what they're doing (not trying to earn better money, too much booze/drugs, babies too young), when they get into their mid 20s and up a lot of them are feeling that pain, people stop bailing them out and they would rather blame men/be bitter than take responsibility themselves. A lot of these women are sunshine and lolly pops a few years before that. Could be that, could be something else.

water_reducer · 2025-10-12T17:14:51+00:00

Younger women operate more in extremes. They get both attracted and disgusted with lightning speed and intensity. If they feel either towards you then that feeling is very strong. With older girls their senses aren’t as sharp and they have a muted force towards either extreme. Basically by the time they are 25 to 30 their brains are burnt out and their hormones aren’t as ragingly high, not that different from younger guys.

M8nyStyles · 2025-10-12T15:42:48+00:00

When you get older as a man they are the hardest to game. It's funny how feminists are always giving older guys shit for trying to date younger. It's hard enough as it is

No-Compote-2127 · 2025-10-12T13:51:44+00:00

The more partner a woman has in the past the harder it is for her to build a relationship.

25 woman would be someone who on average had more than one partner.

And it doesn't matter if it was a long term boyfriend or just a hook up. They will base it as some sort of standard to judge any man after that.

If she dated some well off guy who just hooked up with her, she will somehow base that experience as a milestone for the next relationship. No matter how much you show your affection to her, she will always compare you to mr. twogoodieshoes.

Women over 25 are just damaged goods.

dystopia061 · 2025-10-12T08:32:09+00:00

High mileage

PioDorco24 · 2025-10-12T14:32:57+00:00

Yeah, as if Leo needed any game to date girls after 25

ParksFarce · 2025-10-12T16:07:29+00:00

They're mostly just taken, and a lot of them have already had their "magic man" so everyone else seems disappointing by comparison. Not to say they're "mean" or whatever, just cynical and brutally realistic like I am but in a different direction.

riordanajs · 2025-10-12T09:50:24+00:00

This might have something to do with the fact that high status guys start dumping them after 25... And they feel like they need to settle.

Let mr. hoe_math explain it to you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUUaVQjvSGc

HumanContract · 2025-10-12T08:37:36+00:00

If you had a big dick and were good at sex, you wouldn't be chasing women - they'd be chasing you. It's obvious you don't have anything they want. You caused this. Gay is an option.

Title	Are women after 25 harder to game?
Author	MozlemBoy
Upvotes	103
Comments	71
Date	October 12, 2025 7:49 AM UTC (9 months ago)
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