These guys are stuck in “Me me me me me me” phase of thinking and never grew out of. It’s when children are more focused on themselves and have no concept of caring about others. Normal children later on understand empathy. Especially through negative consequences from being selfish. These manchildren never grew into the next stage. Instead of learning from the consequences of their selfishness, they proceed to have a victim complex, like whiny children.

  • They want empathy, but make excuses why they have no empathy for others.
  • They want people to cater to them while not catering to others.
  • They whine about loneliness while not wanting to cultivate social skills mor a social life.
  • They think explaining why they act a certain way is an excuse to keep acting that way.
  • They cry about being cheated but never want to actually establish relationships.
  • They want validation, but give people no reason to validate them.

Because they are selfish, they get easily exhausted pretending to give a damn about other people. Hence, they think the minimum of effort should result in the maximum of rewards.

  • You dont commit crimes? Well, that means youre a good boy that deserves pussy.
  • You hangout with a woman that you fuck? Well, obvious you deserve loyalty, even when you don’t want to establish a relationship.
  • You put your best foot forward while in the first few months of dating? Well! That means can be lazy and never show consistent effort in a relationship!

They also have an inability to observe people objectively in any capacity. They see people through the lens of “WHY DONT YOU GIVE ME WHAT I DESERVE?!” and will form their observations around people being evil and stupid for not giving them what they want.  Hence, they will usually create this narrative that they’re a good guy and women only want assholes and are lying about not wanting assholes. Why should they believe women are people with different look standards and different values?  Hell, why should they see women beyond who women get fucked by? It’s all about how they feel, not actually understanding people.

This leads us to the victim complex.

Acknowledging that their personality is the problem means they actually have to change and that it is reasonable for people not to like them. So instead of changing their attitude, they want to pretend they’re ugly as an excuse to never change and women are completely unfair. They will never acknowledge that women argue about Pete Davidson being ugly, and yet able to date women richer and prettier than he is.

 Then they want to blame society for their failures, claiming that society hates men and puts women on pedastal. Nevermind that these women might be more useful in society (like raising children) or had endure actual suffering (like rape) or there are women who are actually hated (like Amber Heard, Mindy Kahling, Colleen Ballinger, Casey Anthony, etc). What matters is that you’re not coddling these manchildren and that’s a problem.