Let me see if I can get guys here to understand this angle more since the redpill is so obsessed with status. Well, women can be obsessed with status too. Remember the stereotype that women care more about what others think about them than men do? That plays a role in relationships. If she thinks you're going to embarrass her, she's not going to date you. Yes, there are women who are fine dating hot guys with no semblance of social skills and social tact, but they're considered pathetic and pitiful. That's fine if you want them, but understand they're considered low status amongst women.

Now, I'm not talking about the stereotypical sweet nerd with autism, because this is where being quiet and humble works. People are more willing to give a person leeway when they are aware of their flaws, try not to flounder, and instantly apologize when they do. Ironically this is when being confident and disagreeable fucks up men's chances. Being confident, wrong, and no social skills makes a man look like a buffoon, not alpha. Though, I think this is more about social tact and reading the room more than social skills in general, but I digress.

This goes into a bigger problem: Men, do you make women look good? Would her friends be impressed to see you around her. If not, why should she pick you? What do you have for her to like about you? If you dont care about status, fine. However, plenty of you do, so you'll most likely be around women who also care about status anyways. If you want her to make you look good amongst men, what are you doing to make women look good amongst women?

Sidenote: Using Redpill jargon, women are more impressed by women getting a 'Beta Bux' than "Alpha Fux'. Translating that for people who touch grass, women who say a man is has green flags, AGREEABLE TRAITS, shows that he cares for her deeply, acts of service that goes beyond the bare minimum expected of men and ISNT attempting a transaction. Or if we're talking shallow women, sugar daddies. Rarely are women impressed with a woman who fucks hot losers unless those women are sugar mamas and/or horny like a stereotypical man (which is NOT most women).