Greeting loyal minions of the Red Pill:
The mods are discussing our policy on Blue Pill Trolls and I would like input from the community. As you know, Blue Pill Trolls are summarily dealt with on /r/theredpill and immediately banned because strong moderation is needed to keep a red pill sub from turning into a SJW/feminists haunt.
However, in /r/marriedredpill we recognize that sometimes the "Red Pill" solution may not work the best in a particular marriage or a particular situation so we don't want to totally silence alternative voices. We believe Red Pill philosophy and methodology can withstand scrutiny and grow with other ideas and a number of blogs operate in this way. However, we also admit that sometimes "communication" and even the dreaded "communicating emotion" is the better solution than aloof game. Rarely I would argue, but it happens. Dudes come here from every conceivable stage of their marriages.
However, we are not going to let this sub turn into a /r/relationships circle jerk with get therapy and show your feewings as the default response.
Personally, I propose that we permit Blue Pill comments and criticism and even permit comments negative about Red Pill practices in specific cases just as we permit female comments- so long as they are respectful, not argumentative or snarky, and are limited to a specific point.
For example, saying "Dread" should not be used in a particular circumstance is perfectly acceptable. However claiming that Dread is emotional abuse (especially while also claiming that sexual denial is not emotional abuse) is not acceptable and frankly, I don't have any reason to listen to people with that point of view. Go back to /r/TwoXChromosomes or /r/askwomen with that bullcrap.
Similarly, warning about aloof game and suggesting that showing affection is a better strategy is perfectly fine. However, again I have 0 interest in reading claims that aloof game doesn't (usually) activate the tingles because women are not like that. If you really think the way to activate the tingles is to show lots of love and affection and reassurance and presents and free meals and rocks, lots and lots of rocks, then try /r/purplepilldebate or /r/thebluepill and bug off. We have serious work to do here.
Thoughts on specific guidelines for what comments should be permitted, what should be deleted, who should be banned, and when?
REMINDER FOR RED PILL KNIGHTS: Please use the Report button for any BP trolls or for any problems with a post. It would help if you can briefly review the posters history before accusing them of being a BP troll (it usually only takes about 5 seconds) but freely report any comments that offer unsupported Blue Pill advice in a disrespectful or argumentative way. I am going to start deleting those when I see them and will strongly consider banning the user as well. They add nothing to the discussion.
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