It's definitely our fault, huh?

nyan_birb · 2020-08-24T18:54:57+00:00

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MistressSelkie · 2020-08-24T18:57:29+00:00

Who is this “We” that she thinks she represents?

Most women I know who are single mothers were married at some point, and it was a mistake. Men who “were going to make us wives” are exactly who wants to knock you up with kids that you’ll have to raise alone wether you stay with him or not.

margitaolympia · 2020-08-24T19:28:28+00:00

She's gonna get picked 🤡🤡🤡

LevelTurbulent · 2020-08-24T18:50:25+00:00

I just got pissed about this somewhere else.

Wife for 20 years over here. I am not apologizing to men over it. Fuck them.

heleninthealps · 2020-08-24T18:53:35+00:00

Uwh ma gawd soooorryyyy there's so much trash out there we can't see the trash-forest for all the trash-trees 🙄😑

Blackishcat27 · 2020-08-24T18:47:11+00:00

Are YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME? Right. Because everyone totally shows who they really are right away. I'm livid, absolutely livid.

Pengtingcalledme · 2020-08-24T18:53:21+00:00

Is she ok?

manisfestationqueen · 2020-08-24T18:47:21+00:00

🤡

Sage_Planter · 2020-08-24T19:12:26+00:00

This is total /r/ niceguys vibes.

morrigan1618 · 2020-08-24T21:03:30+00:00

Men will lie and manipulate their way into a woman's pants with zero hesitation, but it's the woman's fault for falling for it?

Then at the same time "not all men" and "give him a chance."

Applegooglepear · 2020-08-24T20:27:37+00:00

Where's that wtf gif when you need it ?

I'm not even going to waste energy bashing or feeling sorry for this girl.

Anyone with this mentality will learn the hard way.

However someone does need to teach her that we is an inclusive word , and she damn sure doesn't speak for ME when spewing this kind of bullshit

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-08-25T05:05:28+00:00

Ever notice how every guy has a story about being with a great woman (or a decent one) but every one of us has a story about being with a piece of shit man? No one wants to talk about that though...

greensciencegeek · 2020-08-24T20:38:34+00:00

That bitch can speak for her self! Also people seem to forget there is more than one type of asshole.

waddamelone · 2020-08-24T18:49:18+00:00

LmaooooooSHUTUPooooo

suspended_animation_ · 2020-08-24T22:29:59+00:00

I will NEVER apologize for making a mistake that I learned a very serious lesson from. I am very inexperienced when it comes to relationships. But I am lucky to learn early on that men are constantly testing us to see what we put up with. Shut that shit down as soon as shit happens. It's that simple. Some men pretend to be nice early on. So the men she is apologizing to are possibly just as bad as the ones who plainly lay their true colors out on OLD.

We don't need her apology on our behalf. We all are taking risks by putting ourselves out there in the first place. Never feel guilty or bad for rejecting a man for any or no reason. We have our gut instincts as women for self preservation. The only thing I was sorry about, was ignoring my own. Lesson learned. <3

Edit: It's also bad enough that our lives are at risk just from rejecting men. That girl should love herself more..

2020-08-24T22:47:48+00:00

men will make u a ~wife~ THEN a single mother lmfao girl anyways xD

AyemHerself · 2020-08-25T02:32:44+00:00

The men you rejected aren't any more likely to marry you than the ones you end up with. And even if they are, you aren't any more likely to be happy.

We need to stop this "at least I've got a man" mentality, stop obsessing over finding a husband at all costs, and start living for ourselves.

randomgirlimok · 2020-08-25T02:37:46+00:00

How was I supposed to know about a hidden porn addiction?

ItsFreezen · 2020-08-25T11:20:59+00:00

Because Men Never Manipulate Women /s

Kitty015 · 2020-08-24T23:59:35+00:00

Say NO to pickmeshas.

auntielife123 · 2020-08-24T23:18:31+00:00

It was so hard not to instinctively downvote this 😂

Layla-bg · 2020-08-25T04:00:56+00:00

Unfortunately I dont think it’s entirely her fault for thinking this way. Society always blamed being single mother on women. Like “you didnt choose better”, “it’s her fault she trusted him”, etc etc. She is going to wake up one day and realize...

postapopaloptic · 2020-08-24T21:54:24+00:00

Lol, so she's acknowledging that there are countless trash men? Girl please.

2020-08-25T01:17:25+00:00

I personally agree with this 100%

Title	It's definitely our fault, huh?
Author	CynicalSucculent
Upvotes	178
Comments	34
Date	August 24, 2020 6:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ifv1t0/its_definitely_our_fault_huh/
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