I recently went on a few dates with a girl (20) who got violent towards me the last time we went out. I'm physically fit, 6'0, 190 lbs, and work out regularly.
- I've already gone no contact with her.
We were heading to a restaurant in her car and she was driving. I was sitting in the passenger seat and conversing with her. I should note that I got a "bossy" vibe from her from the get go, but wasn't expecting her to do this. A Cardi B song came on the playlist and I made a couple of jokes about Cardi B as an artist. This girl proceeded to hit me as hard as she could on my chest repeatedly. I told her to stop and she did, but a few moments later she started hitting me in the neck and jabbing her fingers into my throat.
I've never experienced this before from a woman, so I grabbed her arm and again told her to stop. She thought it was funny and said I needed to just "take it". I looked her dead in the eyes and told her "don't ever hit me again" to show that I wasn't fucking around at that point.
She didn't apologize and just down played the incident. She even got upset that I grabbed her arm to defend myself.
I'm shocked that a chick would do this after only a couple dates. In her mind her behavior was totally fine. I'd be in jail if I did that to her.
Thoughts? Obviously a hard next, but what the hell?