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Wife was away on a business trip for 2 weeks (no she didn't cheat/IDGAF if she did, but I know she didn't). She arrived home this past Friday night pretty late from the airport. We were both exhausted, so no sex that night, which is fine. I wanted to do it, but it wasn't a huge deal that we didn't. Saturday rolls around, I had work during the day, went and saw a movie together that evening.

For some reason, I was pretty short fused with her the entire day. Probably because I'm doing no fap and I was ready to explode after 2 weeks of no sex while she was gone (cheating on her is not something I would do). She kept texting me while at work, I basically ignored them because of how busy I was. We invited over her sister and her sisters boyfriend for dinner and then left for the movie.

I've been tracking her cycle (even though she is on birth control, were not ready for kids yet) and according to posts I've read on here, I'm supposed to be more alpha during her fertile times.

We arrive back home, getting ready for bed, watching a tv show that we started earlier in the week and my wife shoots her feet over to me and says that her feet are freezing. I don't know why I said this, but with an emotionless reaction, I look at her and say in a snappy way, "put some socks on then". I remained cold and distant, didn't want to cuddle with her or anything. She looked at me in disbelief. Normally I would tell her that I would warm them up for her, but I was still in an irritated mood for some reason. I wasn't being bitchy or naggy, but I was just annoyed with her in my presence. I honestly don't know why. (Just started red pill not too long ago, is this signs of red pill rage?) I feel like I've been getting more easily irritated with her lately.

She sits there for a min or so (hamster was probably spinning) and she mentions that she noticed that I've been snappy towards her all week (which I calmly denied and said that I paid great attention to her on her trip (facetime) which she agreed to and said yeah I was actually a great husband to her while she was gone (she was on the rag, so from what I've read, I'm supposed to show a bit more beta), I said, Yeah, I'm tired today tho. I was being an asshole for no reason, so I apologized (yeah I'm sure someone will call me a pussy for that), we kept talking about random shit and eventually I started to initiate sex.

I forget how it came up, but during conversation, she mentioned something that made me respond with "I don't need sex from you babe, but I do want to have sex with you because I love you". Her hamster must have been spinning again because she sat there for a minute and was thinking deeply about it (We've joked before about our hallway neighbor wanting to sleep with me).

I then remembered that during the fertile part of her cycle, I need to dictate what should happen in bed. We began fooling around, I told her to take her clothes off and get on top of me (Recently, she hasn't been into being on top). She resisted for a bit saying that it hurts her hips, but I said fuck that and told her to get on top anyway.

I was super dominant in bed, the most alpha I've ever felt while having sex with her. For once, I didn't ask her to flip into different positions, I forced her into them. This resulted in the loudest and most violent orgasm I've ever seen her have.

Yesterday (Sunday), I tried initiating again, but she had no interest at all. I brushed it off and said okay, not butt hurt. I'm wondering if it is because I showed her a lot more affection than I did Saturday. (I wanted to cuddle with her, kept rubbing her back, etc.)

I forgot to mention, while on her 2 week trip, she showed me a ton of attention, kept saying how much she missed me, etc. Now that she's back home, we had sex, it's as if she never went on the trip. I feel like she's right back into the comfort with me.

So here are my questions:

Why am I so short fused with her now? I don't wake up mad or anything at her (in fact I've been very level headed after starting bjj and muy thai over a month ago), but I find myself getting irritated by her (I try my best not to show it). Is this part of red pill rage?

For those of you who have a wife on birth control, do you find it more difficult to get her in the mood? I've read a ton of info that although her overall mood with be a bit more level throughout her cycle while on BC, her libido takes a bit of a nose dive, no matter how well you game her. I've read about starfish sex vs good sex and I've been applying things I've learned (caveman when she gives starfish, which is what I've been doing).

Since discovering red pill (at least since I started MMA), I've been focusing on my goals more and making them first priority.

I feel like although I'm staying busy, I still spend too much time with her at home. I go to work, come home and either go to the gym or to MMA, come home for dinner, watch tv, etc. I still feel like I'm too available for her. Anything I can do in a subtle way to spend less time with her to show her I'm busy and don't have time for sexual denials?

Lastly, Does anyone else experience this type of interest switch? She missed me for 2 weeks, came home, had sex and now seems less interested? If so, what I can do to flip the script? Like I mentioned, I'm trying to stay as busy as possible with work and my other things.


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Title Making Progress, but have questions
Author ke3bsf6
Upvotes 8
Comments 86
Date 22 July 2019 11:43 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret24 points25 points  (3 children) | Copy

You're not "acting alpha". You're not anywhere fucking close. You're a wolf full of covert contracts in sheep's clothing - except this clothing has been bedazzled to highlight your faggotness.

In all seriousness, there is one thing you should know. It's time to start being honest with yourself.

"I don't need sex from you babe, but I do want to have sex with you because I love you"

Fucking barf.

she mentions that she noticed that I've been snappy towards her all week (which I calmly denied

Just stop. Just full stop here dude. She read right though you, you got caught, and DEER'd like a faggot.

You do know she can see right through all your bullshit, right? It's time for you to go heads down, start reading and internalizing the sidebar and LIFT.

Get your shit together man, this post is full of embarrassing puke.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

You do know she can see right through all your bullshit, right?

They don't just see through it. They can smell it. It's a sixth sense. You can be the best actor in the world but if you're butt hurt or in her frame, she knows. Oh she definitely knows.

[–]DeepReindeer3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hell, in the distant past, if a woman shacked up with the wrong man who was weak-shit, then it could mean death for her and her children. This instinct to sense a pretend "alpha" evolved from an entire family line of women who chose men who couldn't afford to be weak. Fuckin' right it's a sixth sense!

[–]JudgeDoom692 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

except this clothing has been bedazzled to highlight your faggotness

Just spit my coffee out.

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy

You have your head so far up your wife's ass, you can't see what's going on. Concentrate on yourself, read the sidebar, lift and shut the fuck up.

Oh, and this...

I was super dominant in bed

Stop saying "super" - it's super gay.

[–]hack3geRed Beret13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Unless he actually wears a cape while fucking her - come to think of it I just added something to my list of things to try.

[–]Remington-Holmes0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Damn, I think I might give that a go - for a bit of 'V'

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (3 children) | Copy

My wife/she/her count = 68

[–]helaughsinhidden14 points15 points  (2 children) | Copy

WOW, can we get a BOT for this? It's so telling regarding frame.

[–]Diesel_Dragon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I second this.

[–]johncillo2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Have my upvote

[–]SepeanRed Beret8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

This thing where they go back and forth, that is normal. You're showing more alpha and that gets a reaction. At other times, she still senses your frame isn't there so she shit tests you.

You also have some anger issues. I think you're still struggling with the past and current rejections. Relax, give it time. Read up on stoicism and negative visualizations so you stop giving so many fucks.

You're way too focused on her and her reactions. Focus on you, on your character. This shit is very hard if you're just playing the part. In the end YOU have to change. It's fake it till you make it not just fake it. Your time is much better spent building your frame and internalizing alpha than trying to perfect your interactions and "doing stuff outside the house to show her".

[–]Cam_Winston217 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

I stopped 1/3rd in due to boredom because almost every sentence is you over-thinking everything. Dude, if your wife still loves you & is attracted to you, she wants to have sex too, she's been without it for two weeks, as well.

Tell her to take her clothes off while you're unbuckling & give her a quickie, you both need it. For God's sake, stop thinking about every move or word.

[–]Cam_Winston215 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

watching a tv show that we started earlier in the week and my wife shoots her feet over to me and says that her feet are freezing. I don't know why I said this, but with an emotionless reaction, I look at her and say in a snappy way, "put some socks on then".

So, she was away for 2 weeks, came home & instead of banging her you decided you're both too tired so she goes to sleep without affection. The next day, instead of telling us that you banged your horny wife when you both woke up, you go on about work, dinner & family or whatnot, which means after flirting with you all day via text she went yet another day without attention from her husband.

Then, when she finally makes the first physical move by way of asking you to warm her feet (that was her initiating sex, btw, Rambo) you found a way to turn that into a negative. Women initiate differently than men & they do it by making themselves available. You're so worried about tracking cycles & trying to map out how to be an alpha that you didn't even realize that your wife made herself vulnerable by initiating and in return for that act of intimacy she got shut down by her husband, who was also being a bit of a dick.

Reset every day, push through the anger phase (where you're obviously still residing) and have fun with your wife, who obviously wants your affection. If you're both too tired to have sex tonight, at least grab her, feel her up & make out with her for at least 60 seconds. Good lord, she's starved for your attention.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret6 points7 points  (9 children) | Copy

For those of you who have a wife on birth control, do you find it more difficult to get her in the mood? I've read a ton of info that although her overall mood with be a bit more level throughout her cycle while on BC, her libido takes a bit of a nose dive, no matter how well you game her.

Nope

Put a piece of tape over your mouth so faggot words cant get out, shit food cant get in, and dicks get blocked.

You talk way to much.

Your anger and hostility is probably residual red pill rage, or butthurt over a covert contract, but it dosent matter becuse NOBODY GIVES A FUCK about your feelings, and the way you Express them isnt attractive, its unattractive, and the opposite of what you want.

Shut the fuck up, lift, sidebar. Put in the work and demonstrate changed behaviour over time.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

No forearms and legs.....awesome.

Do you do anything other than curls and lat raises?

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy

Common man, you actually think I skip leg day? I go with the upper body shots for the dramatic effect, it's the look everyone values.

Here:

Leg one

Leg two

My legs are my best body part this year. I have some of the gayest short shorts you have ever seen.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

Look. Some guys and all basic bitches love the “Im so skinny my whole body is Thanos Chin dick skin”

I get it. Different stokes.

Me, if my whole body looked like dick skin my real dick would look even smaller than it already is. No thanks.

So fat guy powerlifter/murderer is the look I like.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

I love you feedback to man. I remeber last year I posted this one and you mentioned my tricep development. I gassed the fuck out of them this winter they look better this year. I'll take some more picks in a few weeks. I suck as posing. I bet that second pick is more appealing to you.

When I look the way I do now, lean like this, I'm as weak as a kitten. You would howel with laughter if we trained together.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Dude...

Just shave your head. Tell ya what, I am going to pop my "I shaved my head reddit" post in your reply.

Also, embrace the "I am fat" look. Also, having a small inner-tube around your waist comes in handy when you fall off a boat in the ocean.

In these pics I am 225 @ 15% per scans. Taken in the last 10 days.

I am bald fuckers

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

It suits you.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bald is beautiful! You look like a strong motherfucker that could kill someone. Mission accomplished.

[–]RP_PO0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’d love to Bic my head but I look like a dumbass without hair. Shit works for you. As does the “I am fat” look. Eddie Hall DGAF if he looks fat

[–]WolfofAllStreetz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Id kill for pipes like this, no homo.

Its like my shits wont grow.

[–]RoccoPinkman4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Does anyone EVER READ ANY of the sidebar material before posting here?

[–]ahackercalled4chan5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

i did. and I'm re-reading it still after two years. this is why I'm a lurker instead of an idiot posting victim puke.

[–]ChokingDownRPRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You, my friend are in the anger phase, but you also have one big, nasty covert contact on your hands. "I've been lifting, I'm looking good, I read the sidebar, I track her cycle - she's fertile, she has to want to fuck me now."

Drop 100% of your expectations of her. Just because you think you've improved doesn't mean she sees it, and she certainly doesn't believe your changes are real or permanent!

Your anger stems from her not doing what your covert contact says she should do. The biggest problem is that you're still doing this to get her to fuck you... Not because you have your own mission.

Kill your expectations of her!!! Double down on your self-expectations and you may get somewhere.

[–]stoicstephen7 points8 points  (14 children) | Copy

Wife was away on a business trip for 2 weeks (no she didn't cheat/IDGAF if she did, but I know she didn't).

We have a psychic here.

I've been tracking her cycle (even though she is on birth control, were not ready for kids yet) and according to posts I've read on here, I'm supposed to be more alpha during her fertile times.

You have to be alpha 24/7.

You can't be seasonal.

I don't know why I said this, but with an emotionless reaction, I look at her and say in a snappy way, "put some socks on then".

That's not being alpha. That's what a butthurt Rambo beta would say.

An alpha would've said "I have a better idea ...I'm gonna warm your whole body", with a grin on his face.

Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7vp39q/an_anatomy_of_butthurt_and_the_impact_on_frame/

blah, blah, blah, talking about sex with wife, blah, blah, blah

Stop DEERing, start STFUing.

Why am I so short fused with her now?

You are projecting the anger you have for yourself to your wife.

You are not who you want to be, and you are not where you want to be, so you get angry.

(there's a post that talks about this, I can't find it though)

I go to work, come home and either go to the gym or to MMA, come home for dinner, watch tv, etc. I still feel like I'm too available for her. Anything I can do in a subtle way to spend less time with her to show her I'm busy and don't have time for sexual denials?

Stop watching TV, find a Mission.

Lastly, Does anyone else experience this type of interest switch? She missed me for 2 weeks, came home, had sex and now seems less interested? If so, what I can do to flip the script? Like I mentioned, I'm trying to stay as busy as possible with work and my other things.

She's filling the container you provide.

If you are not a consistent and congruent guy who is his own mental point of origin, and keep acting accordingly with how your wife is feeling or acting in the moment, then your wife will copy you.

She will never be consistent though, no matter how good of an oak you are.

That's her nature, to never sit still, to flow, to dread boredom.

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/c2l5dt/your_woman_is_one_of_your_greatest_creations/

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

This post is all about her and her you are trying to please her. Quit giving so many fucks. Quit taking what you read ovulating and being on the rag so literally. When she was reaching out to you all day it was probably because she was ovulating and wanted to start prepping for some sex dumb ass.

You are so deep in her frame. You need to start finding your own frame. Quit trying to figure her out like she’s a puzzle. When you do that you are living in her frame.

Same thing with no flap thing. Don’t take it so literally. I rarely flap – maybe handful of times in a year if that. But, if she’s gonna be gone for two weeks, I would probably rub it out a couple times, otherwise you are seeing what happens. You start to get irritable, and you start to wreak of desperation for sex.

[–]BuddhaGorilla3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

saw a movie together that evening.

That's your go-to date after two weeks apart? Faggot.

We arrive back home, getting ready for bed, watching a tv show that we started earlier in the week

A TV show after a movie? This is some epic level boring-ass faggotry.

Anything I can read about how to stop DEERing?

Maybe stop watching fucking TV and movies and open a book? Lazy, undeserving, take-it-up-the-ass faggotry.

If you're "getting lost in red pill info" and haven't even read the first few books on the sidebar, you're the kind of boy-child who deserves to get cheated on. Wake the fuck up and get your shit together, or expect several of the guys here to run a train on your wife. They won't give a shit where she is in her cycle.

[–]Bushpilot8172 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is full of covert contracts. You’re trying to be alpha so she’ll have sex with you. Just work on yourself, you’ve got a lot of reading to do. Start with NMMNG.

Edit: and for fuck’s sake stop DEERing.

[–]Bushpilot8172 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy

You’re going to read STFU around here a lot. Every time you start to explain yourself or justify your decision (DEER), STFU instead. When you get to the point that you can AA or pressure flip instinctively, then you’ll find you have to use STFU less and less.

[–]Thorondor_Rising2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This post is pure faggotry.

[–]Rogue684862 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is you

(The waiter who knew too much)

https://youtu.be/_dSQ9FHftSQ

You're over thinking everything to the point of incompetence

[–]IncitingDramah1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Why am I so short fused with her now? I don't wake up mad or anything at her

Because you're an emotional faggot.

For those of you who have a wife on birth control, do you find it more difficult to get her in the mood?

No, she smells the desperate beta play-tending to be an alpha, that's why it's more difficult.

Since discovering red pill (at least since I started MMA), I've been focusing on my goals more and making them first priority.

Obviously. Manipulative behavior to squeeze sex from your wife so you're not a frustrated faggot is a great goal to have.

feel like although I'm staying busy, I still spend too much time with her at home. I go to work, come home and either go to the gym or to MMA, come home for dinner, watch tv, etc. I still feel like I'm too available for her. Anything I can do in a subtle way to spend less time with her to show her I'm busy and don't have time for sexual denials?

Lol, seriously? Try ACTUALLY DOING STUFF FOR YOURSELF. Not from a place of punishment for her because you're weak and insecure.

Lastly, Does anyone else experience this type of interest switch? She missed me for 2 weeks, came home, had sex and now seems less interested? If so, what I can do to flip the script? Like I mentioned, I'm trying to stay as busy as possible with work and my other things.

So many fucks given. She she she her her her.

All in all you dont understand shit about TRP/MRP. You didnt post stats, so safe to assume you're fat/unattractive. You're doing things, but developing covert contracts. You havent developed a real IDGAF, you're SO CONSUMED with your wife.

As per usual advice. STFU, LIFT, READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR.

[–]ReddJiveRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Frame.

You're in hers. Your entire post is about her

When she got back in betting in your mind she was going to strip and say take me. Odds are she wanted you to do it.

Why the fuck you new guys don't initiate all the time is beyond me. Last time I checked you could be too tired and still get a blow job.

[–]FoxShitNasty831 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy

Yeah this I get, also it's just anger because things aren't going your way. She isn't reacting how you want. You are acting like a butthurt child. You are analysing her every thought and how you can play the game to get her to fuck you. But it dosent work like that. You need to flip it and work on you, let her chase you. Focus on being a man worthy of being chased.

I find this hard because years of being a pussy cunt girlfriend to my wife isn't something you can unfuck in a day. This shit is hard but it starts clean without anger with you at its core. You don't need her, there is no spoon. Reset and drop the anger because she feelz it and it drys her cunt up.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

This was tough to read. I almost vomited in my mouth.

no she didn't cheat/IDGAF if she did, but I know she didn't

You care, don't lie. You have some small itch now that she is capable of cheating. It doesn't matter, but YOU care. The rest of your dissertation points to that.

I wanted to do it, but it wasn't a huge deal that we didn't.

For some reason, I was pretty short fused with her the entire day.

I'm going to posit that it WAS a huge deal that you didn't because the next day you were pissed.

cheating on her is not something I would do

Congrats Mr. Moral High Road?

I've read on here, I'm supposed to be more alpha during her fertile times

She wants an alpha during more fertile times - yes. What you write here is not alpha.

I don't know why I said this, but with an emotionless reaction, I look at her and say in a snappy way, "put some socks on then". I remained cold and distant, didn't want to cuddle with her or anything

Ok Mr. Rambo. There's a good section in BPP's book Saving a Low Sex Marriage (highly recommend for you). For hard sexual denials (being legit tired after a long trip isn't one), you EVENTUALLY OVER A LONG TIME (months and months) remove in the following order - this is the basis for dread levels:

  • Time: Your time, you're busy so it's a gift when you spend it with your wife
  • Attention: Your around her but you're not paying attention to her "blah blah, Jenny did X today at work" talks
  • Affection: Cuddling, kissing your wife good-bye, etc
  • Presence: You're checked out. You give her nothing.

You removed Affection for a non-event! You acted pissy. Now she knows that her denying you sex gets you pissed - she has control over YOUR emotions. That's not a good thing.

Here's two AAs you could have used on the socks thing: Warm her feet up with your dick and/OR tell her you know what can warm her up with obvious sexual overtones.

I feel like I've been getting more easily irritated with her lately.

This is normal. Hell I'm still angry from time to time. It's not a GOOD thing but it's normal. It's because you're EXPECTING something FROM her. This is the dancing monkey. I'm lifting, looking good, passing shit tests -> she should fuck me the way I want. Hell you may not see it in the current moment (this is why I believe a weekly OYS is vital - others have objectivity). Replace fuck with ""getting a babysitter' for me and that was my last week's OYS.

which I calmly denied and said that I paid great attention to her on her trip (facetime) which she agreed to and said yeah I was actually a great husband to her while she was gone (she was on the rag, so from what I've read, I'm supposed to show a bit more beta), I said, Yeah, I'm tired today tho.

Congratulations for Defending, Explaining, Excusing, and Rationalizing at record speed.

I was being an asshole for no reason, so I apologized (yeah I'm sure someone will call me a pussy for that)

Well, were you being an asshole for no reason? Did YOU feel like you did something wrong. Or did you do it to appease HER? Don't get into a habit of apologizing for every little thing, but I don't see anything wrong with apologizing from YOUR frame when merited. I hope you at least kept it short and didn't say "I'm sorry" - that is a pussy. "You're right babe, I was being an asshole" is the only sentence you need.

"I don't need sex from you babe, but I do want to have sex with you because I love you".

Ugh. Wtf is this. "Damn straight I need sex!" wink and grin. Pick her up and fuck her right then.

We've joked before about our hallway neighbor wanting to sleep with me

Congrats again?

For once, I didn't ask her to flip into different positions, I forced her into them.

First thing you did right in this diatribe.

not butt hurt. I'm wondering if it is because I showed her a lot more affection than I did Saturday

Yes you are! How can you not see that you care so much you're posing online for internet strangers?

I get where you are, I've been there. You're analyzing EVERYTHING in terms of alpha, beta, red pill, blue pill. You're trying to get into HER head to figure out what she's thinking. You can't do this. This leads to anger, and anger leads to hate, and hate leads to suffering. Yoda had it right - but it'll lead you to your suffering, not hers.

Lift, read more, and please for the love of God STFU.

Here's the golden rule you need to try to follow: when you do something, do not EXPECT anything in return from your wife. When you lift/MMA/pass a shit test, don't expect she'll rip her clothes off and fuck you. When you are nice to her, don't expect her to be nice back, rip her clothes off and fuck you. You do these things because YOU want to. Want to rub her back? Fine - go for it but don't expect her to fuck you in return (covert contract).

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is not really a question as much as you have not really absorbed the materials.

It’s almost like you skimmed off what you wanted and missed the part about frame, a mission and perhaps what “you” want.

It’s apparent that you waited for her to get home and then allow you to fuck her, then you initiating because you want to fuck.

See the problem here ? You are not initiating or living your life because you are waiting on her acknowledgment.

What does that get you ?

By the way. Her, she, she, she does not tell us you are at this for you, but her. So she will nod her head and tell you it’s ok to fuck.

Is that what you want ?

[–]throwawaybpdnpd-5 points-4 points  (5 children) | Copy

What I see from this is...

  • she was acting normally before going on the trip
  • she’ acting weird after coming back from it
  • you have done nothing to make this happen

She’s hiding something from you.

If I were you I’d drop the attention on her and work on myself even more, no big conversations or trying to communicate, no affection

[–]hack3geRed Beret1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Why in the fuck should he even care? You are a giant faggot if you have to play games or do things to get a reaction from her.

[–]throwawaybpdnpd-2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy

My post is basically saying that he should stop caring about her

[–]hack3geRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Actually your post is 100% about giving a fuck about her - you are taking actions to manipulate her and get a reaction. It’s the definition of giving too many fucks.

It seems you are an autistic faggot - you don’t withdraw attention or time to make her change her behavior you do it because you have better things to do and you value your time.

[–]throwawaybpdnpd-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

I am not telling him to manipulate her, you are makin a supposition/jumping to conclusions

Removing his attention from her is what he has to do, that’s it that’s all; who the F cares what she does... it’s easy to know what she will do but it doesn’t matter in the end

Calm down, take a chill pill bro you seem upset by a simple reply on a reddit post

[–]hack3geRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nice edit on your post.



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