Women who seem willing to play out a male fantasy, why are they doing it? Are they enjoying it?

Female_urinary_maze · 2019-02-12T09:21:15+00:00

A lot of us just really really like sex and to feel sexy. That's not the only possible reason a woman might show enthusiasm but it's not as unlikely as you might think. Sex is fun afterall. That's why me and so many other women buy ourselves sex toys when we don't even have a man in our lives.

whichbladeN · 2019-02-12T03:25:09+00:00

Attention. Which is what all humans want in the end.

321PK · 2019-02-12T16:26:04+00:00

Um because sex is 🔥 and pleasing somebody that also cares to please me doesn’t diminish me in any way. Smh. Do you ppl even mutual?

GradualDecomp · 2019-02-12T09:58:57+00:00

Two reasons

Firstly, it feels good to make people you love feel good. Most people who love their partners are happy to accommodate them in any number of ways. Changing a routine, quitting a habit, trying a new activity, preparing specific foods, putting on a bit of a show, or doing sexual favors are all totally normal things people do when in love. I don't think there's anything special about stockings and frankly I find them uncomfortable. But I know my boyfriend loves to see me wearing them, so I'm happy to do so for him. Just as he has happily done things for me.

And of course , manipulation. It is amazing how easy it can be for a woman to get whatever she wants from a man by using baby talk and putting on a sex kitten persona. It's so effective, it's nearly foolproof.

couldbemage · 2019-02-12T07:15:28+00:00

While women might be less horny than men on average, there's enough variation that you still have some women that want way more sex than most men. Though they tend to be promiscuous, since they can easily do so. One of my partners is one of these, and on the previous Sunday we had sex three times, she had sex with her other partner three times, and masturbated twice. This is the second partner I've had that's like this, so she's not unique.

ThisIsJustATr1bute · 2019-02-12T19:29:56+00:00

Do you guys seriously not understand that sex feels good for women too? Why do you assume she’s just playing at it?

TheMarbleSlab · 2019-02-12T15:45:46+00:00

So, you meet a woman who is sexually attracted to you and enjoys having sex with you. And instead of being happy, and saying, “great! This woman wants to have sex with me on a regular basis” you get beady and resentful?

There’s a huge difference between a woman who posts on gone wild and a woman who wants to have sex with you.

The entitlement of men is astounding. You expect a woman to be enthusiastic about having submissive sex with them on a regular basis, but if she is too enthusiastic and too submissive, you get disgusted and freak out.

toolsoftheincomptnt · 2019-02-12T03:39:36+00:00

Woman here.

When I am in love, it brings me utter joy to fulfill my partner’s needs. Including and especially his sexual needs. So, I truly enjoy entertaining his fantasies (within reason).

On another note, when girls are raised to believe that their worth is based in their sex appeal, they become young women (and then older women) who use their sexuality to gain male attention.

Whether they enjoy the ride or not, the willingness to participate is based in a fear of losing that male’s attention/affection/protection. Or slightly less than fear, a feeling of duty to give in to what’s expected of them sexually. To refuse is to admit worthlessness.

meomeowmeoww · 2019-02-12T03:46:28+00:00

attention whoring.

PennnyLame · 2019-02-12T03:57:45+00:00

Because I had the same fantasy as the guy did.

Electra_Cute · 2019-02-12T06:33:49+00:00

Attention, money, self-esteem, excitement etc. These could all be motivations for this behavior.

madcockatiel · 2019-02-12T15:31:47+00:00

Because it can be fun to play out those fantasies. With a guy I like, trust, and who turns me on, me being a horny sex kitten is as fun for me as it is for him. I don't like the sexual attention of strangers personally, which keeps me from dressing overly sexy in public, but different strokes.

Orange_Paisley · 2019-02-12T18:43:04+00:00

Multiple orgasms. I used to love playing the "horny sex kitten" because sex is fun and relaxing. I'm older now though and my partner is even older than me, so we've settled into a fairly vanilla lifestyle. I miss my sexpot days though.

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DebatePony · 2019-02-12T03:31:39+00:00

Validation, making someone happy, possible future attention, present attention.

hshsvdhsiabs · 2019-02-12T18:48:43+00:00

Different women have different motives. For myself, I love my boyfriend very much and I like to express that in many ways, one of them being sexual expressions of love. Also, I enjoy it as well.

roseussorrow · 2019-02-13T20:49:59+00:00

Women who post on places like r/gonewild ALL have self-esteem issues and need that attention/validation. A woman who's happy and satisfied in life isn't gonna post on such places. Usually their face is ugly and they can only get the validation they desire with their body.

Title	Women who seem willing to play out a male fantasy, why are they doing it? Are they enjoying it?
Author	MisterJose
Upvotes	0
Comments	64
Date	February 12, 2019 3:24 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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