Both men and women end up Beta Bux at some point in their lives

WhatIsTheMeaningHere · 2018-09-25T15:06:25+00:00

Guys who got to fuck around with hot carefree girls aren't complaining about becoming beta bucks. It's guys who see girls fucking around with hotter guys than them, while not giving them any attention, then when the guy gets a stable job, suddenly he's an interesting prospect. It's a guy who's not as sexually desirable as the woman's casual sex partners, but he's a stable choice for a relationship, and no guy wants to be desired in that way. They want to be the most sexually desirable and all around best guy for their partner.

Workshop_Gremlin · 2018-09-25T14:11:40+00:00

Men: Fuck around in college with hot carefree girls, live comparatively carefree life.

I suppose YMMV depending on what program you were in but college for me and most of my classmates was less living carefree and partying and more pulling frequent all nighters to get labs and assignments done not to mention get ready for quizzes, tests and exams and that's not even counting showing up for work.

Mr_Smoogs · 2018-09-25T13:24:50+00:00

The common female BetaBux is the girl who's mid-20's and works as vet tech or a CNA or some shit and supports her deadbeat bf who barely works part-time and has an obsessive video game habit.

whitetrashcarl · 2018-09-25T14:21:00+00:00

I don’t understand the obsession with making it the same, the two things you want to put in the same category are so different from each other , why do you have to shoehorn women into this “beta bucks” category, it doesn’t make sense

JaJammerJan · 2018-09-25T13:00:05+00:00

Men: Fuck around in college with hot carefree girls

Hahahahahahaha, nice joke. Only the top 20% of men get to live that life.

[deleted] · 2018-09-25T15:11:07+00:00

Yet another poster seems to perpetuate the common narrative that men and women are the same.

Aaren_Augustine · 2018-09-25T12:54:23+00:00

Husband isn’t too stressed because you’re by default the primary caregiver thanks to your magic milk sacks.

I have three kids. Its a fucking ball buster for both parents.

This is where both need a little Relationship Discipline and you're both going to be taking one up the ass to make sure both parties are happy and on stable ground.

This mindset you've presented. Its clearly shows you have no fucking clue of how much work is going to be needed and alternatively how much either one of you is just not going to be able to do. You know, do to the laws of physics. It's a 4 man job with only two on staff. Hopefully you have family that will give you a breather.

Any woman who's just looking to see where her beta falters aint going to notice all the help she's getting. So you have two reasons, either one the mom has a broken picker and picked the wrong dude or she's a miserable shrew that was just looking for ways to cut work out of her life and cut off the easiest mark that would just suck it up.

Work wouldn't put up with it. Baby would not survive. Beta Bux it is! Sorry pal, nu mommy is flabby, tired, overworked and it's your fault.

reluctantly_red · 2018-09-25T14:34:45+00:00

It’s two sides of the same coin

No it's not. Not even close to the same universe. Plus, you haven't even described any of this accurately at all.

Men don't start out as alpha fucks and then become a beta bux. Men are alpha fucks all through their lives; the vast majority of men are beta bux all through their lives.

If you were going to come at this from anything like accuracy it would look more like this:

Alpha Fucks Man: Fuck around in college with hot carefree girls, live comparatively carefree life. Go to grad school, fuck around with undergraduates and a few in your program. Finish up, get job. Continue fucking around with women in grad school and a few in your city. It slows a little because you don't have time for all that fucknig anymore; you have to work.

Get to around 35 or so, get married. Have a kid. Get bored with married life, start cheating. Get a sidepiece, rotate them in and out as either (1) you get bored with her or (2) she starts demanding that you leave your wife or (3) she tires of sidepiece world. Have second kid.

Get to around 50, cut it back to occasional FwBs outside marriage. Still working very hard. Get the occasional few-months-long sidepiece. Maybe Wife finds out, you stay married because you are by far the most attractive man she's ever known and she's willing to tolerate your philandering as long as you don't shame her publicly or bring home an STD.

Beta bux man: Graduates from HS after spending time in the marching band, gets to college, gets a string of two or three steady GFs interspersed with months-long dry spells punctuated with "getting lucky" with one or two ONS. Goes to grad school, takes his last GF in an LDR while he's in school. They break up. Dry spell until he finishes grad school.

Finishes grad school, starts work. Gets hit on by women 5 years + older than he is, and a few desperate Martha Dumptrucks. Mostly ignored for several years. Starts dating reasonably attractive woman around his age, they make him wait and wait for sex whilst having previously given it up to bad boys. He gets sex ONLY after going all in with commitment. She demands marriage, he marries around age 29 or 30 or 31. She demands kids. They have a kid. She bitches, complains, cuts off sex, divorces him at year 8 or 9. He's now 40. Years long dry spells while he pays a year of alimony and settles in for 13 more years of child support.

THAT is how it works for men.

I am amazed at how little women understand about the actual lived experiences of men.

DespisedByWomen · 2018-09-25T13:00:16+00:00

Women: party throughout my 20's and waste my youth when I should be locking down a high value husband

realize I'm about to be 30 and still single with a high n count

let the first dude with a job over 60k/yr wife me up so I can have the kids and family I always wanted

have kids and wonder why your low value man continues to be low value

resent him because he somehow forced you to have kids against your will and you dont understand basic biology. Of course your body is going to be fucked for a while after you literally grew a person inside you and shoved it out your vag.

W..women can be beta bux too!

EL_Miore · 2018-09-26T13:32:29+00:00

Some never got to goto college. Some men went to prison, and later developed depersonal and dissociative disorders.

Not everyone lives "The Dream Life". In fact, quite the opposite. No one I know has the perfect circumstance.

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[deleted] · 2018-09-25T16:20:03+00:00

Jokes on you, because I'm poor.

At least that's what i tell everyone.

wtknight · 2018-09-25T16:44:02+00:00

It’s not the same. Alpha/Beta is an attraction/provider dichotomy and young men can be Beta and older men can be Alpha. What you are describing with women is wall versus post-wall dynamics and they and the experience isn’t the same across genders.

immaculacy · 2018-09-28T03:27:02+00:00

Fuck around in college with hot carefree girls,

First and foremost advice, do not do this.

immaculacy · 2018-09-28T03:28:04+00:00

Dude bodies aren't supposed to get worse after pregnancy. If you're healthy it'll straighten back up soon after.

Title	Both men and women end up Beta Bux at some point in their lives
Author	azngirl7689
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Comments	138
Date	September 25, 2018 12:32 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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