Question for men: tell us a story about when girl game failed.

alreadyredschool · 2017-11-19T16:03:03+00:00

Nah, wrong premise. <1% of women have good game, the rest just suck. I have never rejected a woman for being bad at flirting. Why they failed has more to do with their looks or logistics. Ok fuck I may have to correct myself up there. Some women think game consists of showing sexual availability with stuff like "I was fucked in that toilet over there the last time" or being complete assholes. Surprisingly what worked really well was "Hey do I know you?" [...] "Nah I am sure we hooked up at X party"

Be nice/interested, laugh at my shit, be touchy, hold eye contact and know how to kiss. If you are a bad kisser I will shoot you down. That's how I fell for a girl that wasn't my type at all.

Alth12 · 2017-11-19T16:21:13+00:00

I've had a woman in a club grab my dick through my jeans and then say "your package is acceptable"

Not a terrible action, seeing as she was hot, but the words killed everything. "Acceptable" as a compliment, REALLY? Acceptable and adequate are two words that should never be used to express sexual interest.

washington_breadstix · 2017-11-19T16:41:33+00:00

Any time when she wasn't hot enough.

wtknight · 2017-11-19T19:46:18+00:00

At least in my mind, women don't fail at flirting. I'm either attracted to them already and they don't need to flirt, or I'm not attracted to them and no amount of flirting is going to work. Flirting is something men have to do to make themselves seem interesting to women.

The only thing an attractive woman can do to make me not interested is to say something that is uneducated or ignorant.

hyperrreal · 2017-11-19T16:09:18+00:00

This was pretty recent. Only hours before, I had returned from a 10-day Vipassana meditation course/retreat, where there was no communication or interaction with others.

I was at Starbucks, and these 2 girls noticed me and were sort of staring. And they kept doing that thing where you try to catch someone's eye. Eventually they came over and tried to start a conversation about the shoes I was wearing, but I didn't really engage.

Normally I would have been interested. But after almost 2 weeks of living in my own mind, the interaction was too much. It's a good example of how so often 'game' fails just because the target has other life stuff going on.

a_mans_perspective · 2017-11-19T21:48:21+00:00

Latina coworker literally put her pussy near my face while i was sitting at my desk and rubbed my shoulder. I didnt pursue her because she was known as the office slut and I dislike promiscuous women.

Pope_Lucious · 2017-11-19T23:12:47+00:00

Girl game is simply women making themselves desirable as sex objects.

So my example are all the fatties I encounter daily.

abaxeron · 2017-11-19T17:39:42+00:00

The cringiest shit was when one girl tried to read poetry to me.

Gladly, it was only once, and back in high school, so not sure if it counts.

newName543456 · 2017-11-20T08:50:39+00:00

When a girl was flirting/kissing another guy in front of me, then I heard through the grapevine that she actually liked me and was trying to make me jealous. Didn't make much of it either way, not regretting that.

EchoZeroEleven · 2017-11-19T15:45:51+00:00

I was looking for books in our county library, when I skinny early 30s woman looked at me and said, "Wow, are you a model? You looks so good."

I laughed, thanked her for the compliment, and then left her there.

I wasn't interested. I wanted books.

tempuserthrowaway5 · 2017-11-19T17:37:40+00:00

When I was in middle school a girl on my project for this class kept doing this sun dare shit of following me around and pulling on my ears. That sounds cute but pulling on someone's ears actually hurts quite a bit!

crackrocksteady7 · 2017-11-19T16:05:06+00:00

One of my jr devs at work told me she was single and then the week after dolled her hair up a bunch (she hadn't done that before in almost a full year there), started wearing classy things that showed off cleavage, talking to me a lot more. Sorry, I'll break my own rules and stick my pen in the company ink and create drama but only for an 8.5+

Temperfuelmma · 2017-11-19T16:13:32+00:00

A girl I barely talked with grabbed a hold of my ID card, took a look at it, told her friends "handsome" and smiled at me, I guess she was flirting? Didn't like that attitude though so I just made a face and walked away. Girls with good game seems to be the one's less on the pretty side, I thoroughly enjoy my time with them.

SkookumTree · 2017-11-19T22:12:27+00:00

Very sad burn victim woman flirted relentlessly with me. I liked her as a friend, would have gone out with her if she wasn't so sad. I'd get attracted to her, she'd say or do something sad and self-pitying, and I'd lose attraction to her. It was sad, and if she had more confidence and courage I and perhaps a few other guys would've been into her. It failed not because of her burned face, but because she was so goddamned miserable. Personality and social skills fucking matter.

[deleted] · 2017-11-20T00:33:03+00:00

Girl I asked out in high school years later said she had a huge crush on me...during the very period I asked her out. I was an idiot back then but that takes the cake.

celincelin · 2017-11-20T15:56:21+00:00

I was approached by what I can only explain as two female PUAs once.

They used an opener scenario or whatever that's called, threw some lines at me and all that. The amount of cringe was way beyond lethal, but I survived. They took some time to take a hint that I wasn't interested.

What can I say, this "game" bullshit doesn't even work when a woman does it.

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oneprettycoolcat · 2017-11-19T16:12:41+00:00

What is girl game? As far as I am aware, women don't actually do anything when it comes to romance or sex.

Title	Question for men: tell us a story about when girl game failed.
Author	tempuserthrowaway5
Upvotes	6
Comments	101
Date	November 19, 2017 3:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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